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Topic : 02/07 Pill Popping Twins, Part 2

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Created on : Friday, February 01, 2008, 02:21:07 pm
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Dr. Phil continues delving into the lives of twin sisters, Yvette and Yvonne, who abuse pain pills. They live with their mother, with whom they have a volatile relationship, and the household is filled with fighting, screaming, cursing and even passing out in front of their children. Their father, Timothy, a former drug addict, joins the show. Why do they become emotional upon seeing him? Next, find out who else Yvonne blames for her drug problem. Then, Dr. Phil presses the twins to face the truth. Will these sisters acknowledge the emotional impact that they are having on their young children and make a change? And, when faced with the ultimate choice, will Yvette and Yvonne choose life or death? Talk about the show here.

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February 7, 2008, 2:09 pm PST

Don't Understand

How is it that parents can throw their lives away using drugs (any kind) and think that it isnt affecting their families?  I have worked for 5 years with teens whose parents "use" and it has destroyed their lives.  They are thrown into the foster care system for something that their parents did.

 

Dr. Phil, I truely hope that these 2 ladies will realize what they will be "gaining" by going through your program.  They will gain more self respect for themselves and respect from their families.  It isn't easy for them to get up there and say "YES, I HAVE A PROBLEM".  That was their 1st step to recovery.  I wish them the best in their treatment and hope that they follow through with it.  Not only for themselves, but their children also. 

 
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February 7, 2008, 2:09 pm PST

hopeful

I wish all the hope and luck for the twin mothers. They are so beautiful. There kids need them in there life. I sure wish I that was me sitting up there. I would not hesitate in a minute to take the help or any other help that is given my way. Thank You  Michael
 
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February 7, 2008, 2:09 pm PST

It's hard for the children

I am so glad that Dr. Phil is touching on this topic. My mother has been "POPPING PILLS" for as long as I can remember and being an adult doesn't make it hurt any less. Her pills of choice were for back pain. The recommended dose was 1-2 ever 6 hours as needed but she took handfuls every time she thought about it  until gone. She would be "LOOPED OUT" as I called it, for a few days and then life was "NORMAL" again.  I've taken her to the hospital, and had her stomach pumped...she's gone to jail for driving under the influence and nothing could stop her. UNTIL her doctor finally after 20 years stopped seeing her for failure to pay. NOT because she was being over prescribed the pills, just because she couldn't pay him anymore. NOW her drug of  choice has become alcohol and buying them from someone Else who is being over prescribed.  This problem isn't going away and has been happening longer than most realize. I'm 23 with a family of my own now and the effects from her doing this are still present in my life today and haunt the memories I have. I too had to ask that she not be on drugs at my prom, graduation, wedding and the birth of my baby girl. She granted my request on only 2 of those and the rest were extremely embarrassing. It's not fun having to explain your mothers behavior to everyone watching. So if the twins are reading this, I hope that you are able to get this under control before your children are put in the same situation as I was and still am.  God bless you both and your families, you are most definably in my prayers.

 
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February 7, 2008, 2:09 pm PST

RE: Twins

Congratulations to both Yvonne and Yvette for accepting help.  Acknowledging the problem is their hardest step.  I pray that the Grandmother is up to the challenge of taking care of these young children.  My prayers are with the entire family during what will be a difficult recovery period.  Please follow-up when the time is appropriate - I TIVO your show every day so my son and I don't miss an episode.  Keep up the good work.
 
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February 7, 2008, 2:12 pm PST

the grand mother??

i totally agree that the kids need to be out of the situation BUT why with the grandmother who  a lso has the same problems as  the 2 daughters     It sounds from the show that she needs help also why are the kids better off with her? I know from experience  that   My Little nephew  just witnissed his father kill his own mother and step father  because of drugs   thank God he is in  a Foster home right now  safe  and sound
 
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February 7, 2008, 2:13 pm PST

02/07 Pill Popping Twins, Part 2

Quote From: gehx75

I've read a few dishearting comments from folks on this msg board.  I don't wanna sound like a "higher than thou", but unless you're an addict you can't understand an addicts mentality.  For those people that would like help understanding I recommend finding a Nar-Anon meeting in your area and attend a few.

So true.Am a mom of twins that are both drug addicts.Nar-Anon is great.I would like to see some of the folk that posted nasty and dishearting comments walk in my shoes.

 
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February 7, 2008, 2:15 pm PST

Question and Comment on the Twins

I was wondering if these ladies (Yvette, Yvonne, Maria, Rosie and Debbie) are from So. Louisiana.  They have a major Thibodaux accent.

 

Now, my comment is that I know what Maria is feeling.  I had a very close friend who was hooked on pills and I would get so frustrated with her that I had to just cut my ties completely.  I hated to do it, but three years later we ran into each other and she is clean and sober, living in the country with her beautiful family and they are even building a house.  She is a success story.  I hope Yvette and Yvonne can get it together and get away from all of the people that they frustrate - including each other.  I wish Yvette the best of luck in regaining some sort of visitation and possible custody of her daughter.  Yvonne - Wake up.  You are addicted to drugs.  People are not buying into your "I take Xanax at night to sleep" like you think they are.  How many Xanax do you take - is the question.

 
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February 7, 2008, 2:16 pm PST

pill popping twins

I am currrently raising 3 of my grandchildren whose parents are in prison due to drugs.  That grandmother did not sound like she was really on board to help with the grandkids for her daughter to get help.  I think the grandmother needs help also.  Those children need to be in a home where they will receive love.  I hope that if the mother decides not to get help, that someone steps in take her children.  These kids need a break.  It was difficult at first for my husband and I to start over.  Our grandbabies were 3, 2 and 4 months old when Dept. of Family and Children Services gave them to us, they are now 7, 6 and 3.  .  They are a blessing, and the joy we have shared with watching them grow and become awesome little people, I will never regret.   I will keep this family in my prayers.
 
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February 7, 2008, 2:23 pm PST

twins

Oh my gosh. I want to help these twins so bad. I know exactly where they are coming from. I am a recovering addict. I was taking 20-25 pain pills and soma a day. Until, a friend told me about a medication called Suboxone. It is a miracle drug. When I started taking the medicaiton I went through horrible withdrawl detox. Suboxone has helped me so much I can't even describe it. I have NO cravings or desire to take drugs, I am not depressed anymore, I have energy, I'm not sitting on the couch all day, I can remember what I did yesterday, I don't hurt like I did, I never thought I would feel normal again. I was ready to kill myself before Suboxone. I thought I saw myself on TV when I saw the show. I wanted to go through the TV and just give them a big hug and tell them that there is help out there. My heart goes out to them and their family. The kids are suffering. I am very fortunate that my girls were smart enough to see what it has done to me and they will not take a pill or do any drugs at all and i thank god for that everyday. Yvonne, is so in denial. Yvette wants help. I don't think that yvonne will stay sober unless she gets on this medication (suboxone). It saved my life. It is a new medication that helps drug addicts. She is not ready to get help. Until she admits she has a problem she will never be clean and sober. Suboxone is not a narcotic and it is not addictive. It is literally a miracle drug. If anyone  out there needs help to get off of pai medication go to suboxone.com and see if you can find a dr. in your area that perscribes it. You will not beleive the difference it will make in your life. It saved mine.....
 
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February 7, 2008, 2:25 pm PST

the twins

The young ladies are in so much denial because of their addictions, they do not see the damage they are doing to their children.  Having grown up with alcoholic parents, I can tell them the damage is already deeply affecting the children.  They cannot undue what is already done but they can get straight and rebuild their lives and those of the children. I wish my parents had done it.  Best of luck.
 
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