Topic : Teens talk about sex and porn

Troy I made this board with you in mind please come and share your story and help others before they get hurt like you did.

HI Troy !

 

Charise is here and now I'm here too !  I subscribed to this topic so I can get to it every day and we can chat.  Give it a try and I am sure you will enjoy this board much more then a bunch of "adults" arguing back and fourth.  We don't feel that is very good for a 15 year old boy to read and now you have your very own board and now you already have two people who will visit.

And others will come too.

Troy....we're waiting !!!

 

I'll check in when I can today to see if you posted.  I have some things to do today and Charise is a busy mother of two so don't be discouraged if we don't answer right away.  

 

But, you will get responses to your posts I promise.

hiya you two, umm i am not a teen..... lol, wish I was, any way if i can offer any support or input to Troy, I certainly will, and yea great idea to have a board were teens can come and vent, and share in a safe place.

thought i would put up a post to show my support and encouragement.

Tammy

my mom wanted me to tell you that she wants to make sure it is okay to be here instead because sometimes people make fake links to pages and just make them look like dr phil and it ends up being something else. she doesnt know and is going to ask aunt pattie about it because aunt pattie writes on phil board and maybe you guys have talked to her but i dont know what name she uses. people usually use a fake name when they go to message boards but my real name is troy but when i talked on the porn board a long time ago i used a different name so people didnt no who i was because i was to young. i dont remember what name i use.

Thanks tammy,

No if only we could get troy to come.  this is a better place for him.  Thats why I made it I also thought it would be a placce that he could share his story with others and make some good come from this.

to show your mom it's real go to new and current events on the messageboard links.  and scrole through until you fine the on labeled teens talk about sex and porn  and that will show you it's real OK.

My real name is Charise.

hi troy

I had someone near and dear to me that went to a therapist because of porn too. He is an adult. Can you tell us what your therapist is having you do for homework or if he has suggested any reading?

thanks

j

hi troy, i entered the conversation a little late, and i am sure there is some of your story that i missed, if you are comfortable doing so, would really like to hear what is happening in your life right now.

See, i thought you were 15 and you are 13, so you can see how messages can get mixed up when there is a lot of post's heh. 

you sound like a really great person, and i really do hope that you find what you need here, and if not here any were else you may seek support.

you really do deserve a helping hand, we all do, because honestly, life doesnt just throw curve balls at young people heh.

What i do understand is that you are seeing a therapist, your parents have gone through a divorce, and you are looking at pornography, and you have been suspended from school, because of that?

from what i understand also, is that you love your mom very much and feel she has done a great job of teaching you right from wrong, agree with that totally, simply from the fact that in some of your posts you have clearly stated right and just behaviors, and wrong and unjust behaviors, so clearly your mom has taught you right from wrong heh.

what i also got from your posts, was that you do not hold your mom accountable for choices you made or make.

Dang Troy that is a very mature out look from one so young, you can feel a sense of personal pride that even if it is easier to blame someone else, you are taking the high road and taking ownership of your own choices, allow me to give you a high five for doing that.

No, taking responsability for ones choices sometimes sucks and is painful, especially if it ends with consequences we would rather avoid.. like school suspension getting kicked of the team, losing a freind.. you know what i mean.

but you got a head start on a lot of other kids in the fact that you are willing to take ownership of your own choices, and now are taking steps to learn ways to make healthier choices for yourself.

doing something that is wrong, simply because we can is not healthy, we know that though hey, it is not like we have to be bad to be cool.

The challenge is how to be cool with out being bad...lol, meaning making bad or unwise choices for ourselves.

Well any way just wanted to put up a post for ya to read and respond to if you like, got some chores to do now so i better go take responsability of my stuff and go do them... sigh, totally hate doing chores lol.

tammy