Topic : 07/16 Bully Husband

All to often women stay in the NAME OF LOVE OR FOR THE CHILDREN.  The children are learning what they are hearing and she should be more concerned that they will think it normal behavior.  His kind of fix only insures she will eat more or stay the way she is.  He is cruel and is throwing gasoline on an open fire and someone if not all will get burned.  She needs to get herself some help to love herself.

Are you talking about the picture of the guy with the mustasch and glasses??????????????????  Good God !!!!!!!

Honey, YOU need to get out yourself!!!! 

No, you don't get to ask us to "give you time to heal the wounds". You put her and your children through pure hell for years and really expect us to think YOU didn't know it until you saw it on tape !!!!! How stupid do you think we are?????  You knew exactly what you were doing and don't give us the sad song and dance that you saw your father do it to your Mother.

Big Deal !!!!

Everyone knows how they should treat a person.  I bet you knew enough to behave sweetly when you were dating, didn't you? I bet you can turn the charm on when you need to and know what to say in society while your pretending to be the perfect husband and father, huh?

If you can stop your nasty mouth at those events, then you can stop saying hateful and hurtful things to your wife. You just don't like it because your getting a taste of your own medicine.  Open wide, there's more to come.

 She still needs to leave you. YOu didn't see her face when you said things to her? You only saw her face when you were on he Dr. Phil show.......................please !!!!!!

If you really love her, go far, far away and let her have a life she and the chilren deserve a life a peace

Your teaching him to treat you like crap when you don't defend yourself, that is what "we teach others how to treat us" means. You have to demand respect and courtesy from someone or they take their whole lifeout on you!

You not only need to understand why something happened (low self esteem, etc) you have TO DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT! Ifyou have low esteem issues, then build yourself up, read books, do self affirmation programs, etc. Didn't Dr. Phil and his treatment include this in your therapy that was planned? Is this from Karen the wife or am I mistaken?

Does the definition of motivate mean "fat pig" or "fat whore?" Rick, by the looks of the photo maybe one should look at themself in a full length mirror, undressed, before calling someone else fat anything. Do you Rick talk to your mother like that? I was always told you treat your spouse the way you would treat your mother or father. Key word=respect. What is it,  insecurities, low self esteem? I would kick you to the curb along with the horse you rode in on.  

Karen could have a work out partner, get off your dead heiny and MOTIVATE together. Only way I can see it working, like duh. Would be a great role model issue with your child also.

Typical bully, always trying to make somebody else feel bad, and unfortunately he won't quit until he's put in his place.  He definitely needs to take a good long look in the mirror because he's not exactly the catch of the day!  I hope she can get away from him because she won't come out of the gutter he's put her in until he's gone.  Depression and low self esteem are terrible things to live with.