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Created on : Thursday, February 14, 2008, 03:51:34 pm
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(Original Air Date: 02/20/08) Dr. Phil takes on a couple whose story will shock you. Karen says she’s tired of being degraded and controlled by Rick, her husband of six years. She says he calls her “fat pig” and “fat whore,” criticizes her makeup, makes fat jokes and puts photos of nearly naked women on their computer and exercise machine to motivate her. Karen says if she tries to get close to him, he pushes her away and says, “Don’t even touch me until you’re under 200 pounds.” Rick says when he married Karen, she was within his standards, but now she definitely isn’t. He says he’s just trying to motivate his wife, but says it’s a good thing when they fight physically because it’s good exercise “when the beast wails her arms.” Karen says she puts up with the mental abuse because they have two children, and as crazy as it sounds, she still loves him. Is there a chance to salvage this relationship? Tell us what you think!

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February 20, 2008, 1:01 pm PST

HE WOULD ONLY CALL ME IT ONCE

I ALSO WANT TO SAY HE WOULD ONLY CALL ME THOSE WORDS ONCE AND I WOULD'NT BE THERE.AND YES I HAVE HAD IT HAPPEN TO ME THATS WHY IM OUT OF THERE.AND ABOUT THE NAKED GIRLS ON HIS EXCISER MACHINE GOD IT WOULD BE OFF OF THERE REAL QUICK AND ABOUT THE HALF NAKED GIRL ON HIS COMPUTER WOULD'NT HAPPEN IT WOULD BE OFF OF THERE TO.THIS GUY NEEDS TO GET A LIFE AND IN A VERY BIG HURRY.THIS GUY IS A SICK GUY BIG TIME.AND FAT JOKES I'D FAT JOKE HIM ONE RIGHT BETWEEN THE HEAD.HE BETTER TAKE A REALLY GOOD LOOK AT HIMSELF.HES FATTER THEN HIS WIFE.

 

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February 20, 2008, 1:01 pm PST

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I don't understand why people put up with crap like Rick is throwing out....

 

Hey earth to you Rick, you are a FAT A**!  And worse than that, you are arrogant, egostistical, and a total piece of crap! 

 

Please Karen do yourself a favor and leave this turd!  No one deserves to be treated like he's treated you, one set of standards for him because he's the Macho King Male, and he definitely treats you like you are inferior to his his Lord God Kingness, and that its okay for him to gain weight, but of course its not okay if you gain a little weight....

 

What a double standard!  Like you are some prize there Rickster LOL!  Take your ego, take your smugness and shove it up, well you know where.  Karen you don't need to be bullied by this man, no one deserves to be treated like that!

 

What a piece of garbage...with men like Rick out there, its no wonder so many woman are staying single, who needs to be treated like crap from someone that supposedly loves you.  Take Rick's double standard and kick him to the curb!

 
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February 20, 2008, 1:01 pm PST

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I live with the same kind of man who was not like this when we married. I wish I knew how to find the man he used to be. I know how she feels completely frustrated and wanting to run away. I do love him but sometimes it is not enough. I am putting money away so I will be able to escape but until then I try to stay away from him as much as possible.

 
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February 20, 2008, 1:04 pm PST

02/20 Bully Husband

I know what it’s like to feel like the wife and I’m a male.  I recently left my wife because of this kind of behavior I couldn’t take it anymore.  I went to a consular after I left hoping my wife and I could patch it up.  At first I went on my own thinking my wife would join me (she never did) but my consular basically repeated the same things on the show today that Dr. Phil said about this man.   

 

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February 20, 2008, 1:05 pm PST

He is a jerk!!

     I hope she finds the backbone and confidence to get out.  She needs to walk no run as fast as she can with her kids and get as far away from him as possible and as soon as possible.  He is not only hurting her but also the kids.  He needs to grow up and realize that he is not everything in the world.  We all change as we go through life changes - marriage, children, empty nest, etc.   Karen keeping working on leaving as today was your first step and do not look back.
 
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February 20, 2008, 1:07 pm PST

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OK- This guy should have been taken to the wood-shed a few more times when he was growing up.Cause evidently someone failed to teach him about respect for ANYONE.

Karen  looks like a broken woman in bad need of repair and I believe the glue she needs is not the TUBE sitting beside her. I have enemies that treat me better than he has treated her!!!!

 
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February 20, 2008, 1:10 pm PST

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She has support, but she is in need of professional help to give her the courage to leave the jerk!  You can't just offer advice to leave, you have to want to do it!  She's in it for the kid's sake and that is sad...

This guy is really a piece of work! Dr Phil you are right on with the have you looked in the mirror? " She is nt doing those children any good by staying with him..... Her daughter wil grow up to think that it is acceptable to take this kind of abuse!!!!

 

Advise her to get out while the gettin good Dr. Phil

 
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February 20, 2008, 1:11 pm PST

WHAT A LOSER!!!!

OMG are you kidding me??? Who says things like that to thier wife and childeren...I'll tell you WORTHLESS sacks of crap thats who!!!! LEAVE HIM hes useless!!! Thats NO motivation and who wants to sleep with HIM??? HES FAT and UGLY by the way he treats his family!!! I feel sorry for her! My first marriage was like this one and honey...GET OUT!!! IT ONLY GETS WORSE!!!! GO BEFORE HE HITS YOU TOO!!!!

That man is a coward and a loser if he feels he has to CONTROL his family!! YOU DO NOT CONTROL ppl you love!!!  You can do WAY WAY better!!! I am outraged!!!

 
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February 20, 2008, 1:11 pm PST

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The unfortunate part is that men know we will always put our kids first and they use this against us. And when we finally get to a point that we fight back or stand up for ourselves they pull out the classic....I will take your kids from you and your such a bad mom you know i will win custody. Since they have beat these women down so much that they can't see straight they believe him or fear that he might lie well enough to win. They are vicious pigs that use our love for our kids against us every way they can.
 
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February 20, 2008, 1:11 pm PST

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     This nonhuman should be taken out of society, placed in a room alone,so he can rot in his own misery.  He shouldnot have any contact  at all with human life .  Please get help for this lady and her children.  They have been scared for life.
How about human contact from one very attractive, confident ,successful woman who can sit there and tell him exactly what is wrong with him,tell him what a piece of work he is, and put him in his place.
 
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