Topic : 07/16 Bully Husband

Helen, you need to get a backbone and stop being so darned lazy -- there isn't a woman in the western hemisphere who doesn't know that an abusive man abuses his children along with his wife - even if you glanced through women's magazines you'd know that the excuse of 'I'm staying for the sake of my children' just doesn't cut it in 2008.

Take the help Dr. Phil is offering and get the heck out of dodge with your kids -- that thug sitting next to you is as thick  and ignorant as the day is long - there's no way he's going to accept that anyone knows better than he does - its always going to be your fault, the therapists fault, Dr. Phil's fault, the kids fault... he is so filled with hateful anger, self-hatred, self-delusions that he can't be anything other than an abuser.

If you don't think you deserve better then do it for the sake of your kids - children raised by  an angry abusive bully are NOT happy kids and grow into adults who are troubled.

If you want to work out or find a walking buddy then do it - stop looking to him for anything - he's not loving, he's abusive, he's not caring, he's filled with hate, he's not supportive, he's demeaning and degrading.

Karen, you have to ask yourself - why do you feel do badly about yourself that you stay with this ugly ignorant abuser ... then work on getting better and getting out - he's never going to turn around - he refuses to listen or hear ... nobody who would ever for a moment think to talk that way about one of his children is not redeemable.

When I watched the show and saw him talking like what he was saying was LOGICAL!- It boggled my mind. Like saying that making out with a woman and taping her picture on an excersise machine and making sure his WIFE saw it- was perfectly exceptable and NORMAL! I felt so bad for the wife, I think the best thing for her and her children is to get far far far away from this man until he changes- and if he doesn't have the least amount of contact with him as possible. I can't imagine the damage he has and will inflict on his children!

OMG! I could not believe how badly that creep was treating his wife.

He is ugly as home grown sin, with the personality of cat puke, dumb as a box of rocks and not even rich. Dose this man have any redeeming traits?

Karen, you are not doing your daughter AND son any favors in allowing them to see such a bad example of how to treat a woman. The world dose not need any more abusive men, or little girls growing up thinking this treatment is OK. No way!

Wow. I cant believe there are people like this in our world.

 This  is sick.  I have never been so angry at somthing ive watched

on tv, that i had to write a message to register my disgust.

Dr. Phil. Please help this moron, before someone like me, meets him.

This guy has know idea how to treat people and carma will get him in the end.