Topic : 06/23 Alter Egos

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Created on : Friday, February 22, 2008, 12:11:57 pm
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(Original Air Date: 02/26/08) Do you know someone whose private persona is dramatically different from the face he or she shows to the world? Dr. Phil’s guests say their mates lead a double life, and it's wreaking havoc on their relationships. Kerrylee found love online with a man named Al and thought he was a pilot fighting overseas in the war. After 32 months of cyber courtship, she’s now engaged to this man she’s never met. Kerrylee started having doubts that Al was as young as he stated in his profile. Is her Prince Charming really a toad in disguise? Dr. Phil puts private investigator Harold Copus on the case to find out. You won’t believe what he digs up! Then, Dean says his wife, Deb, has a split personality. For the past three years, she has pretended to be a hip 35-year-old with no kids, but she’s actually a 52-year-old grandmother with three adult children! Deb says this alter ego gives her clout to manage rock bands, but is she simply afraid of growing old? Tell us what you think.

Find out what happened on the show.


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February 26, 2008, 4:22 pm PST

02/26 Alter Egos

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This has to be one of the silliest and uninteresting show I've seen. Why do we care about helping this woman find a man who deceived her on the internet. Shouldn't it have been more important to deal with the fact that not only did she quote become engaged, but she sent money to someone she had never met. How unsmart can you be. I am not saying that he wasn't a slime to do what he did, but come on shouldn't she deal with the fact that she really screwed up.  If Dr. Phil had dealt with that side of it more, it might have been a semi interesting show.

 

The other woman has to be pretty blind to not see that she doesn't look 35 and that the bands wouldn't care about her age just the gigs she could help them get. This was just so totally about getting on TV and helping to make a name for herself. Dr. Phil give me something that I can really care about, not these silly fluff pieces.I really like your show, but help people who really need help, please.

WE CARE...because thousands of other women have been  in the same situation, and perhaps...duh...sharing these stories will prevent others from making the same mistake!
 
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February 26, 2008, 4:28 pm PST

On Line Lovers

Yup, know exactly what you're talking about.  I "met" someone on line who happened to sign up on a forum on my web site.  After initially asking him what info he needed, we started corresponding and eventually "fell in love".  email, instant messages and over 8100 minutes of phone time in a month.  "We" felt we were soul mates and should be together.  Unfortunately, before he could move across country after selling his house (true), boat (?), business(?) he developed terminal liver cancer (so he said).  He carried on all the medical appointments, etc. then was "dying" and would not live more than 3 months.  I fell hook, line and sinker...but decided to check it out.  HE LIED.... he's alive, healthy and when he found out that I knew the whole sick story, he threatened to have me "eliminated".  He's one sick SOB!  Better to find out now than later.  He preached honesty, integrity and truth...none of which was fact.  Be careful of who you meet.  I always thought I was pretty savvy, but it certainly taugh me a lesson!
 
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February 26, 2008, 4:29 pm PST

02/26 Alter Egos

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It seems to me that there is enough information out there for women (or men) not to fall for these scams. I am continually surprised at how gullible people can be.  Wake up before you make the biggest mistake of your life.

 

 

I  agree with you ! I started watching the show today and recognized "John Gavin (Actor)" picture right away. Why didn't she recognize him......and after 23 months and still never met face to face!!!!!!!

 

People be aware!   The newest scam now is the Tax Rebate Checks!!!

 

 

 
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February 26, 2008, 4:30 pm PST

02/26 Alter Egos

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It seems to me that there is enough information out there for women (or men) not to fall for these scams. I am continually surprised at how gullible people can be.  Wake up before you make the biggest mistake of your life.

 

 

I  agree with you ! I started watching the show today and recognized "John Gavin (Actor)" picture right away. Why didn't she recognize him......and after 23 months and still never met face to face!!!!!!!

 

People be aware!   The newest scam now is the Tax Rebate Checks!!!

 

 

 
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February 26, 2008, 4:48 pm PST

what the hell were you thinkin?

 I am having such a hard time feeling sorry for this poor gal.. my god..she was a sucker and there are people out there just waiting for suckers like her.. she never met him. would she had fallin so in love with him had he been a garbage collector?? I have a feeling the whole "pilot" thing got her nabbed, sounded so great and con artist know what to say to the weak and lonely.. and she was a sucker and bit.. Love?? give me a break! what was there to love? I was surprised you didn't say to her " what the hell were you thinking?"
 
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February 26, 2008, 5:07 pm PST

Deb the grandma...

 

To Deb, the grandma trying to fit in with the rock scene, why lie about your age?  You could be 25 and not fit in with that crowd, it's not about age, it's about fitting into a subculture of people.  Much like cliques in high school.   After a certain age, no amount of makeup, hair dye and clothes are going to make you look younger...plastic surgery isn't even a guarantee as it can be botched. So just live in your own skin, be yourself, and stop trying to turn back the clock.  No one else is getting any younger, either.

 
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February 26, 2008, 5:07 pm PST

02/26 Alter Egos

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I did what that lady did when she was talking to that guy online.  The guy I was talking to was in Nigeria.  Supposedly he loved me the first 24 hours he started talking to me.  He had a 10 year old too.  His mother was traveling the world and his exwife left him.  He would always write me poems.  Then one day his son was in the hosptial with that disease you get from mosquitos.  His son was getting really bad so he asked me for money because the money he had was already spent on the drugs for his son.  He said they weren't going to give him anymore meds until he had more money so i sent him 100.00.  Then he needed more money to stay on the meds so i sent him another 100.00   Then the doctor wouldn't let his son out of the hospital until he paid the bill, so i sent him another 100.  I didn't send him anymore after that.  He was out of the hosptial after that . The guys name was Marcus that I was talking to.  Marcus had a check sent to me in my name.  He said he would have taken him about 3 weeks to get the money so he figured he would get it faster if i cashed it but i never cashed it. It was 4000.  I brought it over to the police department and they told me i should rip it up so i did.  I still don't know if this is real.  Some other people told me that it was romance scam he was doing too on me.  His name is Marcus Gary if anyone knows him.  He was a sweet guy.  He even showed me a pic of him.  I don't know if it was real either and he never showed me a pic of his son.  He said his mom had his son's pics.  His mom couldn't help him because she was travelling.  He was going to come up here in January but i stopped talking to him.  So i don't know if he was real or fake.  But that's my story on that.  Be careful of who you meet online.  I don't talk to people that are out of the United States now.
 Um, no offense, lady, but your first clue should have been "in Nigeria." Mind you, I've known real Nigerians--and of course not all of them are scammers, but Nigeria's NUMBER ONE EXPORT is scam artistry.

Marcus sent you a check that was bogus. Of course the whole thing was a scam. People do not fall in love face to face in 24 hours as a general rule, and certainly not online. You were lucky you got off only having lost --what, three hundred? He was bogus, and he was out to scam you.

And you're at best, naive. At worst, you need to learn discretion. Free clue--check out snopes.com and also google for "nigerian scams." Just read a few of 'em. Please. Educate yourself.

Talking to people outside the U.S. is safe. Giving away money (or even lending it with any expectation that you'll get it back) is not. And actually, it's a good idea not to do that INSIDE the U.S.


 
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February 26, 2008, 5:11 pm PST

Sad and Pathetic

I think lady number one was just lonely.  We all want to believe that a man loves us and says nice things, but  ladies, no matter what, the key to recognising a scam is IF YOU FIND YOURSELF PARTING FROM YOUR MONEY WITH A STRANGER, something is up. If people really are in need, I believe they would go through the proper channels.

Lady number 2 is ust PATHETIC, she hates hypocrites but does not seem to have any remorse nor shows any signs of stopping.  I would love to have such a family of my own and I would be proud.  And she is full of it.  If you are getting the job done for those bands they don't care, they are getting taken care of.  I am a 44 year old musician and when you got the chops and dedication, you get noticed.  There is the part of the industy that caters to the manufactured artist, but when you are dealing with live music, they want someone who knows what they are doing and have talent period.
 
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February 26, 2008, 5:12 pm PST

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Red flags and inner voices tell you when an internet guy is just not what he seems...I went through it 6 years ago. I met this man online, fell for him hook, line and sinker...and in the end I was the SUCKER...robbed me of nearly 12,000. I flew this man to my state from VA to meet him...he was suppose to have been a retired firechief...even had a great pic of him...he was real...  looked just like his firechief picture. We made plans for months to be together, when he returned back home he was put in jail for back child support THAT should have been my "wake up call" but nope, I couldn't see not  getting him out of jail...what a fool...made out the 5,400.00  money order to him , not to mention all the other little "checks" I sent him...so just a day before he was suppose to fly out to get me..and for us to start our new life in Texas..he calls and says don't pick me up, I can't come....made up some medical situation...needless to say, I never spoke to him again.....Funny thing is, way back in the beginning, a voice in my head kept telling me, something is NOT right. What a fool I was for not listening to that inner voice....I am happy to report, after that situation, I NEVER bought a man another thing....live and learn.   
I feel absolutely no smpathy for your situation or the woman on the show.  In this day and age, with technology and SO many scams going on,  any woman that gives a man money that they start an affair with over the internet, is probably dumber than the man!  By the way, was he holding a gun to your head when he "robbed" you of 12,000??????  God, whe are some women going to learn!
 
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February 26, 2008, 5:16 pm PST

what were you thinking?

I know you knew better kerrylee . Didn't  T Disch teach you anything
 

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