Quote From: jewelsfI want to first say "God Bless You, You're husband and you're family". What a hellish ordeal you have gone through. I'm happy to hear that your husband is OK, thanks in large part to you. Isn't it amazing what we can do when we have to? I'm a bit on the squeamish side but whenever I have had to do something gross, painful to a loved one, or just plain back breaking (especially since I'm disabled) I've always managed to come through and think about it later when the crisis is over. We do what we have to do. What caught my eye about your story was the fact that your husband had to have emergency surgery due to a herniated disk and the loss of the use of his legs. That's why I'm disabled. I had a herniated disk,L-5 S-1, for 2 years with severe sciatica down my left leg. It became worse everyday and I was slowly losing the ability to use my leg until one morning right before Christmas I got out of bed to get ready for work and my leg went out from under me and I could no longer use it. To make a long story short I had waited so ling to have surgery that I now have severe nerve damage on my left side starting above my rear and proceeding all of the way down to my foot. I had 2 failed back surgeries and finally I had reconstructive surgery to try and fix what the other doctor had messed up so badly. It was reconstructive only, I've been left with severe chronic pain in my lower back for I guess the rest of my life. It has really devastated my life and hurt us very badly financially. This was 8 years ago and I'm getting worse by the day. I wanted to know if your husband has any nerve damage in his leg left from his sciatica. Please let me know if you can. Take care, Sincerely, Julie
Julie,
I am so sorry to hear about your medical misfortune! My husband;s herniated disc was also L-5, s-1!! How odd. He had been troubled with the pain for almost a year, and the only reason that he finally got an MRI to look at his back was because I basically threw a tantrum with his primary doctor. She had been treating his back as it were a muscle issue. When we got the MRI, they obviously saw the real issue, and unfortunatly he only had a couple days until he woke up unable to move either of his legs at all. That is when I called the ambulance and he was taken to the hospital. It was a Friday, so they did his surgery on a Saturday. (the worst day for surgery) He actually still has some pain and discomfort in his lower back, but he is extremely lucky because he doesn't really have any nerve damage that was perminant! He was lucky enough to have the surgery BEFORE the damage was perminant, which is why it was considered "emergency surgery". As much as I would have preferred to have the surgery at the larger hospital that we ended up going to for the infection, there was just no time that I knew of at that point. The doctor did us a favor by doing his surgery as quickly as he did, unfortunatly the hospital did not do their job with the cleaning and sanitizing of their OR.
I have degenerative disc disease in my lower back that actually started out like a herniated disc at the same place, L-5, S-1. I was treated for that for over a year before they realized that it was a degenerative issue with several discs, so I have some perminant nerve damage in my left thigh. It is not going to go away, but actually will get worse over time as my back gets worse. I have seen several doctors who have all told me that there is very little that can be done at this point. With me medically, my stroke issues take priority, although my back and nerve damage is still a painful issue. I have been prescribed lyrica for the nerve pain and itching, and it does help at times. The whole situation is truly a mess though. Our finances, much like your own I am guessing, are a huge mess. My medical bills are really crazy, and I have insurance! The copaymenys and meds are very expensive. I applied for disability almost 4 years ago, and I am just this month getting to go to my hearing. The goverment has a hard time giving disability to someone who is only 39. I am hopeful that once my hearing is done this month, I will get my disability and our finances will improve some. Thank God my husand was able to go back to work because I had to stop working only a year or so after he did! I am not sure what we would have done if he couldn't! I can see how easily people end up homeless while waiting to get disability! I know other people who are way more disabled than I am and they even had the rejections and had to wait years for a hearing! Our system is really messed up! As far as the pain goes, my heart goes out to you my friend. It isn't easy trying to live daily with this constant pain. It can almost make you crazy at times! We do have an inner strength that allows us to do things that we really shouldn't, but I am sure you , like me, suffer for anything that you try to do for several days after doing it! Pain meds and all, it really never goes away. I have even been put on some anti anxiety meds because my medical situation has caused me to be depressed and very anxious at times. (imagine that?!!) Well, I wish you the best and I hope that you find some resolution or at the least some relief from your suffering! take care! You will be in my thoughts and prayers! :)