Topic : 03/07 Dr. Phil Now: Sex Offenders Next Door

First of all I would like to learn Dr. Phil's professional opinion about child molesters and if it is an under lying physcological problem? Or perhaps because of all our modern technology of computers, sex books, DVD's , movies, etc. they are just suddenly "turned on" by all this information that is so readily available. Molestion has probably been around for a very long time and just in the last few years "they/or their victims have come out of the closet" about it. I do believe that they should have to be registered by law or face going back to jail.

Well it would depend on what type of indecent exposer then wouldn't it? Still the name they are telling you to register under does not even make sense. I guess it does I'd be offended if you exposed your goods to me. Why? Well I didn't ask to see them so I obviously didn't care to either! So if it's not law that you have to register like I've read prior, then don't register. Why? Because you are not a RAPIST offender.

 

I honestly don't think that you can label it and have more than one meaning for the word under it especially if you are wanting 1 MAJOR MINORITY out of it really using the system so you know where they are. (Well you know, because I live in Canada.)

 

I do think that once you are charged with BEING A RAPIST go to prison do time for it, well it doesn't matter where you go in life AGAIN everyone should know this fact and be able to judge for themselves if they want to be around someone like YOU! Of course any sane person will not want to be, some will feel bad for you but most won't ever want you near them or anyone they know!

 

It's not right to do anything that YOU might feel mean when you get out.

Uh hello what were you in for? What right do you have now?

Deal with your consequences if you can't then go find that island that everyone keeps talking about if you can't get a job because you raped someone oh well too bad for you! Oh no it wasn't just because you raped someone it's because after you were done you killed them too, how nice of you!

When the public has a right to know they should!

So if the government and all who else is in charge of the legal system don't stick together then the communities and the people as a whole have to start watching their own territory seeing as we don't pay the government enough as well as support the criminals that have done these horrible despicable acts to helpless souls...

It should be a better dealt with law and the judicial system should have these criminals flagged immediately upon release! If they can't deal with it, really who cares... "Guess you shouldn't have done what you did!"

 

I know how I feel on this topic. I've been molested and date raped! I survived! In silence for years and years and years... I finally found HIM via Internet and confronted my molester to ask why? I knew what my reply was going to be! Yeah right dream on take that back blah blah blah blah blah!

 

"But you know what I finally confronted that horrible feeling deep inside, I did and gave it right back to him to deal with!"

 

Whenever anyone came close to me (and I've been married and in 3 major relationships and have 2 beautiful children and am a single mom now) Well not single, but take care of my boys. I used to judge what i was doing or being asked to do all the time. It was a very touchy subject to talk openly about. I have been called old fashioned because of it, but no one new why I never wanted to talk about it. I tell my friends now what happened back then and they are amazed. "They are also true friends and gave me crap for not telling them so that they could have in some way tried to help me."

 

Anyways I'm sure you think I'm rambling now but the real RAPISTS I lived in fear of what was done to me and i couldn't stop it then lived in silence for years if I am able to stop it now I  WILL.

 

It will take the President or someone up real high have this happen to someone they know before they will really look at his seriously.

 

Myself I would make a rapist listen to hundreds of people talking to them telling them how they feel!

Lock them in a room where they can't escape or shut off the volume and listen as to what they did to these people and people they knew and how it effected everyone - reap what you sew - speaking of that NO MORE SEWED OATES FOR YOU!

 

But then that's just me...

Well I say if you've done the time you pay the crime.

But I would  not know what to say here except huh?

Sorry but you are the parents are you not?

 

I wouldn't have my son near my daughter if he was caught and charged for this crime.

"I would be soo torn is all I can say."

But I would also protect the Innocent - before catering to the devil so to speak...

TWENTY EIGHT YEARS AGO I NEW HOW OLD THEY WERE AND IF I DIDNT I WAS BROUGHT UP TO KNOW NOT TOO MESS AROUND.ILL BET HER ID SAID HER AGE AND IF IT COULD NOT BE   PRODUCED THEN BACK UP.I HONESTLY BELIEVE THAT THE MOM GETS ALL THE CREDIT FOR HER CHILDREN "GOOD AND BAD" IM TOLD THAT ITS ALL IN THE UPBRINGING AND I REALLY DONT AGREE TOTALY BUT IT SURE IS 80% OF IT.WE NEED TO BE EXPLICIT WITH OUR CHILDREN ON ALL FACETS OF LIFE TO MAKE SURE THAT THEY ARE KEPT SAFE AND HEALTHY.SO IF THIS HAPPENED TO MY CHILDREN I WOULD HAVE TO TAKE SOME OF THE BLAME BECAUSE I WASNT WATCHING,TEACHING AND OR DISAPLINING ENOUGH.IN OUR MINDS AS WE GROW UP IN ANY SITUATION WE ALL THINK ABOUT WHAT IS RIGHT AND WRONG AND THEN WE ACT.THERE IS NOBODY THAT IS SO INOCENT AND UNKNOWING AT 21 OR THERE IS SOMETHING ELSE WRONG HERE.ITS MY MOMS FAULT THAT I AM ME.IVE BEEN TOLD BY MANY PEOPLE THAT SHE IS TO BLAME FOR ME MAKING DECISIONS THAT HAVE MADE MY LIFE WHAT IT IS,THANK GOD FOR MY MOM,SHE IS RESPONSIBLE FOR MY ACCOMPLISHMENTS IN LIFE AND HOW I CONDUCT MY LIFE.

Yes this does worry me, I live in an apartment complex, and even tho they do criminal background checks, it can still happen, people that neighbors have over can be sex offenders, plus just because they don't live there doesn't mean they can't still do what they do, by stalking people etc.   it is horribly scary and I just don't think that the criminal justice system does not do enough to protect the community that these people are released to live in.   It takes lots of money and time, one thing that I know Texas does not have enough money to adequately deal with this problem.   

  See to their well being? What about the well being of the victims? Why is there more concern about the offenders than the victims?  I do agree with the statement that the net for offenders is too big. A 17 year old kid having consensual sex with his 16 year old girlfriend having to register is ridiculous. However, I feel they know when they are touching a little kid, or forcibly having sex, and getting a thrill out of it, they know it's wrong. And since they could care less about the victims I could care less about them. Maybe they should think about how it will affect them if they are caught. It's all about choice.

 We hear more & more about sex offenders these days myself I do not like them living close to me or my children at one time I was working with one in a place of business our boss knew what he was but he continued to work there hes no longer there now for other reasons but still how he got a job in the first place out in public I bet he was not even updated on his check in each month as a sex offender I just know I did not like the looks of him or even working in the same place as him the way he looked at us girls was scary & the way he talked to some of the girls was all wrong to he never should have been working there in the first place & getting to the disturbing headlines how can we protect our children from these kind of perferts if they are living right there in our neighborhood I have children myself 2 boys & 2 girls I worry bout my kids all the time esp one reason because they are living with a sick minded perfert of a dad who has sexually abused a family member of mine & been accused of hurting my oldest daughter in the wrong way many years ago this person is a sick mined perfert after little girls I do not trust him no matter how many people are living in that house & believe me theres a house full now of family members plus a dope head Aunt who is dads crazy sister from prision out of H,Tx  I do not like people like that that hurt little girls or big girls or even little boys or big boys & yes I think sex offenders need to be put in a spot in a far out location away from a town where they cannot get loose & go out & hurt young children or young adults what is our country coming to wake up out there it was a horrible story this mother loosing her daughter just alful

Keep these sex offenders out of our neighborhood & off the streets


Debra

I was once married to a sex offender.  You all have them in your own states--school teachers.  My ex plea bargained and didn't have to serve prison time, but should have, even "earned" a deferred sentence.  What's wrong with that picture?  I have no idea where this person lives now.  Could be your next door neighbor and you might regard this person as the nicest human you have ever met.  Beware--sex offenders are liars and manipulators.  Always have been and always will be.

This guy appeared on your afternoon show on March 6th.  He was with his wife who was complaining about some of the  disgusting habits that he has been exhibiting  in front of her as well as their baby daughter.  She listed some of his habits to wit:  Picks his nose and puts the buggers on the bottom of the chair that he is using, farts in bed and puts his wife's head under the covers and then wonders why she won't be intimate with him, passes gas in public and thinks it one big joke if he is successful in getting others to think that it was his wife.  What really ticked me off Dr. Phil was this clown trying to justify that this was "a guy thing".  Who died and left this man the spokesman for the male gender?  What the hell kind of guys has this clown been associated with  to make such a general statement?  Was he raised by wolves?   I suppose this guy is so damn ignorant that even if he reads this statement it would be like water running off a duck's back. What surprised me Dr. Phil was you not picking him up on his outlandish statement and letting this clown get off easy as just a simple goon.  Shame on you for not nailing this slob! 

 

Then again after seeing the reaction of his wife to all of this.........I had to wonder why she was still staying with this slob.    Doesn't   she doesn't realize that her husband's behavior will be a negative male role model for his daughter.

IAM ANGRY THAT WE HAVE SO MANY SEX OFFENDERS LIVING RIGHT NEXT DOOR  TO OUR HOMES...BUT HERE IS WHAT I GET SCREAMING MAD ABOUT,WE WORRY ABOUT THE ONES LISTED  ON OUR SEX OFFENDERS  WEB PAGE BUT WHAT ABOUT THE ONES WHO MOLESTED AND  HURT  MANY ,MANY  KIDS WAY BACK .BECAUSE WE ARE ONLY CONCERNED WITH THE   SEX OFFENDERS  ON THE LIST WE FORGOT ABOUT THE ONES WHO COMMITED SEX ACTS,MOLESTED INNOCENT VICTIMS  BEFORE THIS SEX REGISTRY CAME INTO THE PICTURE.....................WE NEED TO GRAB A SHUTTLE HEADING TO MARS...LOAD EACH AND EVERYONE OF THESE SEX OFFENDERS FROM EVERY CRIME ...AND SEND THEM OFF TO MARS.AT LEAST THERE THEY CANT BE NEXT DOOR,AROUND OUR SCHOOLS,KIDS AND IN OUR HOMES.AS SOME ARE EVEN RELATIVES...I KNOW.