Who ever said this child from UKRAINE was a RAD kid anyway? Dr Phil even had trouble believing it and expressed it as such. You might want to play the disorder activiist part and that is fine but I am am right on with my Asssessment. Some parents use their children and and it doesnt appear you know much about that side of the issue, or even seem to recognize it even happens. You are JUST going to believe EVERY PARENT that brings up a mental illness diagnosised child and jump on it like a ambulance chaser. Some mothers either by muchousins or some other self serving mental disorder just make it up, and if you didnt see her talk about only her interesets than you missed the show. And for her to describe her daughter the way she did without anybody ELSE seeing any of her daughter is asking too much from any kind of audience to make a welll informed decision on the Ukranian girl. And to have to believe only what the mother is saying is asking a audience to judge one side of the story only. I judged the mother to be too shelfish period and havent seen or heard from the daughter so i and even you dont know if she is RAD or anything else because you or I didnt see any thing more than a small clip which isnt enough to go on. All anybody got from that part of The show is a one sided story from what I guarantee is a very shelfish lady. Never mind mother or type of mother or type of child she CLAIMS she is raising. It looks more like the child has a DUTY to RAISE her.
Anyway, these unanswered questions is how is how dr.phil gets these message boards so hot. He leaves one side of story out and leaves that up to his audience to battle over. Like you and me.. This mother is what she is period. I wont even talk about the child other than what she must be going through because of it. And all you talk about is RAD. You got to see the kid to know that and you havent and if you want to take the believe everything you hear route, go ahead., but dont borher me with that approach because it is too shallow for me to bother with. Sorry , but I know A phoney when I see a phoney. And I hope this phoney doesnt take anything away from REAL (boy and that word just kills some people) Mothers of RAD or otherwise dependant children but if you couldnt see this lady for what """SHE"" REALLY is Then that is on you .
On RAD,, just like adhd, autism, and other issues sometimes the parents cant bond like this mother of Ukranian girl. Maybe the mother grew up with a cold parent and is looking for love from the child. It happens ALL THE time. If you read the rest of my messages you might have noticed that .It goes both ways, beliveve it or not, but do parents ever get diagnosed as ill. NO.Never. So answer that question as to why not, if you know so much. Lot more to these issues that dont get told to you that do exist none the less. I am sorry you choose to live in your bubble ,and again, let OTHER people tell you what illnesses are like.It almost makes me think maybe there are beneficiariers that come out of these sick children.NEVER any directed at the children though i have truly noticed.Politics and money. Some message for another day. Some of these cases are literaally MISDIAGNOSED and we never hear anything about it. Do you have the answer as to why? I do. Good P.R. brings in the money. Never mind if it isnt accurate .And with Liberalism, women get attached not to their children but to the (I am A) victim mentality. Turn activist for their OWN good only. Yup . Welcome to America.Spolied women and rich medical industries, On the backs off suffering children this time .If it isnt free labor from blacks or cheap labor from illegals it will be the children that pay the price. It is a called capitolism. Some call it democracy . The result is always the same . A victim and a person who capitolizes on it. ALWAYS. Some things in America Just never change . Hate to venture that far around this issue but it is all RELATED when you do the math. Some mothers just like to take advantage of children believe it or not and this case looks like one of them. (victim syndrome) (dont know what they call it that in the medical disabled section, but I do know it EXISTS )..Again, not all mothers who make claims are 100% corrrect. You might want to take another look at this one. All mothers arent victims. And ALL claims arent authentic. Fake ones like this one make the real ones look bad. You should be writing this mother and not me, that is where you anger should go, if it was to go in the right place,But that takes work you would have to do and playing a victim would only get in the way.
(Original Air Dare: 03/25/08) Motherhood isn't always about the good times, like baking brownies and having game night with the family. Dr. Phil talks to women who say they can’t cope with their children, and they’re running out of resources. Robyn adopted her 10-year-old daughter, Alyssa, six years ago from the Ukraine and says she actually has thoughts of sending the girl back. Robyn says that Alyssa hasn’t bonded with her and doesn’t know how to love anyone. She says her daughter screams, cries, yells and even threatened to kill herself! Robyn’s husband, Joe, can’t imagine living without his adoptive daughter and intends to stand by his commitment to the child. What's the real reason Robyn never bonded with Alyssa? Then, Cyndi says if she’d known her 12-year-old son, Alex, had autism and Down syndrome, she may not have brought him into the world. She says he hits himself, screams, grunts at the top of his lungs and wears two pairs of diapers at a time because he’s not potty trained. Her husband, Ulis, says he doesn’t find it difficult to care for Alex, but Cyndi says she’s exhausted and overwhelmed. Should the boy be institutionalized? Find out what Dr. Phil thinks. Plus, meet a mom with four kids who’s already left home twice. Now she’s scared she may leave again — this time for good. Talk about the show here.
