Quote From: getrealtimeThere you go again , using a pat on the butt and without anger, as smacking your kid around, smackingyour kid around will cause damage to your child, but who said anything about smacking a child around?? who is saying anything about smacking , beating a child on a daily bases or a weekly ,
and heres where life experiences come in, my 3 spanking, did not effect me, so when someone talks about a controled spank I understand what they are saying, their not talking about smacking achild at free will, its not used on the child as a first form of discipline,
and I did say you have a right to your to say what you think, read the post over again.
and once again I was not talking about the other kind of mother who shows no maternal instinic, to speak to her would be pointless, and I think most mother have that maternal instinic, and know what I am talking about.
There you go again , using a pat on the butt and without anger, as smacking your kid around,
If you think that parents who hit their kids simply give them a "pat on the butt" you are highly naive. A pat on the butt could be a term of endearment.... The reason parents hit their children is to cause them pain or what would be the point? It's not a "pat on the butt"....it is hitting them and hitting them with enough force to cause pain.
who is saying anything about smacking , beating a child on a daily bases or a weekly ,
So you don't think that children that get hit NEVER receive it on a daily basis or a weekly basis? What if their parents feel that the child's behavior warrants being hit on a daily basis or a weekly basis?
their not talking about smacking achild at free will, its not used on the child as a first form of discipline
How the heck do you know what they are "talking about" ??? Do you really think somebody is going to come on this board and say, "Golly gee...I beat my kid regularly and with force"...?????????????? Of course parents that resort to hitting their kids are going to put themselves in the best possible light because they don't want anybody telling them they can't hit their kids...especially the law....because they don't want to bother being inconvenienced with more constructive forms of discipline.
Are there parents that don't take hitting to the extreme? I would imagine there are, however, sooner or later if they get in the habit of hitting their kids for behavior problems....they will do it out of anger or unjustifiably.
and once again I was not talking about the other kind of mother who shows no maternal instinic, to speak to her would be pointless, and I think most mother have that maternal instinic, and know what I am talking about
...and once again I AM talking about mothers that have no maternal instinct and giving birth doesn't magically give them one.
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