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(Original Air Date: 04/08/08) Imagine having your doctor on speed dial to answer your questions 24/7. Here's your chance, because The Doctors (link to: /shows/page/TheDoctors)  are back! Dr. Phil welcomes OB/GYN Dr. Lisa Masterson, family therapist Dr. Tara Fields, pediatrician Dr. Jim Sears, plastic surgeon Dr. Andrew Ordon, and E.R. physician Dr. Travis Stork. Join their conversation and hear their valuable insights on the hottest medical topics of the day, including actor Heath Ledger's untimely death and the rise in breast augmentation surgery. Next, meet Jennifer, a wife and mother who's so afraid of her family getting sick and dying from germs, that she won't handle cash or mail, she wears three different pairs of shoes each day -- a pair for in the house, one for out of the house, and one for in the car -- and won't even greet family members from out of town until they've come in and showered! Is Jennifer's house as germ free as she thinks it is? Dr. Phil sends a microbiologist to find out. Then, meet a woman who got married and was ready to start a family only to find out that the man she fell in love with was making her physically ill. And, meet a couple who are at odds over a serious medical dilemma involving their 3-year-old son. Should they amputate his legs? Plus, is there a medical question you're dying to know the answer to but are too embarrassed to ask? Be there when The Doctors answer viewer questions on topics ranging from breastfeeding to penis enlargement, and then talk about the show here.

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July 26, 2008, 12:08 am PDT

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I have an 18 year old with Spina Bifida and Hydrocephalus. Heather is seen in the pic with some of her friends at her high school semi formal dance. She has had 47 + surgeries and procedures. Many of them orthopedic.

When I saw Jayas legs on the show it reminded me of how my daughters legs looked. However, I would strongly oppose such a surgery. It was never given as an option, nor was it ever thought of by myself.

The two disabilities are greatly different I do realize that. That being said, Jayas legs are part of who he is.

 

I wish there way a way that Jayas mother could meet my daughter Heather. She gives me hope and faith. She gives me courage and strentgh. I love her unconditionally for who she is. She is a very independant person, with a big heart. She is always smiling.

 

I feel that her legs have never been an issue, primarily because we have never made them an issue. She has had third degree burns on her feet, made worse by her not feeling the pain of it, which caused delay in treatment. She has constantly scraped up her legs and feet, from crawling. BUT considering the risk of any surgery, I would not change the scrapes and gouges. They are no different in my eyes then if my youngest fell off a bike and scraped her knee. The only difference is Heather cannot feel the pain.

 

I have been there and seen my daughter on life support, almost dying from septic shock caused by infection post-surgery. This was not even an elective surgery. I have also seen Heather have a grand mal seizure that almost killed her after a surgery. It is scary, to think that your child will not wake up, and more scary to watch the situation unfold. It is so much easier to deal with the legs, then the thought of what could happen. To put a child in that situation, I would not do it. It is NOT worth the risk. In my opinion it is almost considered child abuse. It is elective and in my opinion it is very unnecessary.

 

My daughter has grown into a beautiful young woman. I do not see disability when I look at my daughter, only ability.

 

This mother needs to stop looking at Jayas legs as an inconvienence to her.

My love to Sick Kids in Toronto as well. They have saved Heathers life many times! Thank you just doesn't seem to cut it.............I owe them so much more.

You're daughter is very beautiful! I know that you already are, but be so proud of her. I too am disabled, I am not ready for a wheelchair yet but I'm sure there is one in my future. Luckily my disability happened when I was in my 30's. But in the long run, your daughter will probably be so much stronger then I am and better able to deal with everything that comes her way. I have only the utmost admiration for her, she is strong, beautiful, and courageous. God Bless her and you for being the loving parent that you are.
 
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July 26, 2008, 12:20 am PDT

That was it!

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What they had was probably pre eclampsia. That is what I had. My daughter was born 2 months early. She was too small and I was too sick. The combination was horrible. Luckily there is a such thing as formula and my daughter could live.

I agree with you...the reasons people breastfeed or not are not up for debate IMO. I won't say that breast milk isn't the best choice, but it's not the only factor when it comes to deciding what to do...and as I said..IF a woman even GETS the choice to breastfeed she SHOULD be very happy...and not judge those who could not.
Yes, that was the term that I was looking for. Thank you! Her daughter's were so tiny also, they were actually about 5 to 6 weeks premature. One had to stay in the hospital for about 5 days and the other had to stay for about 2 weeks before she could go home. The were so small! I remember that when she was still in the hospital and it was time to feed, she only got to have the one in her room while she was still in the hospital because the other was in the NIC unit, she had to feed the baby with formula and with a little tube instead of a bottle. I had never seen that before. The baby was too small for a bottle or the be breast fed at that particular time. But of course, after a short while she finally got to try. As I said though, it ended up making her sickly because it was too demanding for her body. She was skin and bones after just about one month. And your right about the other comment that you made. For the women who are able to breast feed without any problems, sometimes it's more of a privilege than it is a choice.
 
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July 26, 2008, 12:44 am PDT

I have soooo much information for you!

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Good Evening,

I had accident back in 2005 and my lumbar spine on my neck in the location around c4 c5 c6

had shown bulgin where my tendons are like twisted around going towards left some 45*

Now I also have herniated discs on my lumbar spine around location s1 s2 and i have every now and

then been back to work. (though my chiropractor back then had given me instructions that a sit down job

is better, i have placed myself back onto standing and walkind and stooping and NOT actually ahd any bad soar days........though my muscles have become stiff in the last several days this had made me concerned I d call the dr in charge and he told me just reduce the amount of physical ness in my job

WHAT I WOULD LIKE TO KNOW IS THEIR A REGIEM FOR ME TO LOK INTO WHERE THE COMMON AREAS CAN BE WORKED ON AND MY MUSCLES HAVE ROTUINE OF EXERCISE.......my boyfriend

exercise on regular basis but has been letting me know VITAMINS AND EXERCISE I NEED TO DO

IN ORDER TO BECOME STRONGER OR too help me deal with these issues I wanted to knwo what I can do in order to loose 25 lbs and would using weights hurt my condition..............................

   I have so much information for you but I don't have the time tonight to get into everything. First I want to state that I had a herniated disk on the L5 S2 (lumbar), and because I had the wrong surgeon, I am now disabled and left to live with severe chronic pain. And because of that, I have no immune system so I get every cold or flu, etc. that comes along plus I have recently been diagnosed with Lupus. So before you do anything medical, listen to the advice that I NEED to give you. I will try and write tomorrow or the next day. Please check back for my post. I want to help you so much!

   In the meantime, the best exercise that you can do is swimming. It is low impact and will not jar the spine. Also, walking, if you can handle it, is good too. Just don't overdo it. I went to a chiropractor for the first year and it didn't help me at all. And please, DO NOT allow anybody, no matter how many credentials that they may have to give you the steroid injections into your spinal cord. If you are a woman of childbearing years this will give you side effects that are almost impossible to deal with, both mentally and physically. Plus, it will make your hormones go crazy and become severely unbalanced. I am soooo serious here. If I knew where you lived, at least either the state or if it's a big city that could help me with some of the advice. There is one particular procedure that I can't remember the name of but I will look up for you, and you can see if it's available where you live. It's the best thing that you could ever do. I wish that I would have had the opportunity!

   A few tips in the meantime. When you do things like dishes or brushing your teeth, keep a small step stool to rest one foot on, this takes a lot of pressure off of your back. If you can use this while standing at work, it would be great. I don't know what kind of job you have , but it's an idea. Strengthening your tummy muscles and your back muscles are very important, again, this should be done in a pool. With the water, you can just stand and do exercises that target these muscles. Seeking physical therapy is also a good idea. They can teach you specific exercises that you can do in your own home. And before you ever seek a surgeon, which you may have to do someday, do your research. That is THE most important advice that I could ever give. There are so many advances out there, some are very non invasive and done on an outpatient basis. Let me get back to you about that. In the meantime, look up LSI, the Laser Spine Institute on the web. It's very informative, I hope to go there someday and get some help with my pain. It's in Tampa, Fl. clear across the country from me. There is also a great place in New York and New Jersey. Anyway, please wait and watch for me to get back to you. If I could help just one person to not end up like me, that will give me some comfort about what I am going through. I wouldn't wish this on my worst enemy!

   Try my suggestions and I'll get back to you. Best of luck, Jewels

 
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July 26, 2008, 12:48 am PDT

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Good Evening,

I had accident back in 2005 and my lumbar spine on my neck in the location around c4 c5 c6

had shown bulgin where my tendons are like twisted around going towards left some 45*

Now I also have herniated discs on my lumbar spine around location s1 s2 and i have every now and

then been back to work. (though my chiropractor back then had given me instructions that a sit down job

is better, i have placed myself back onto standing and walkind and stooping and NOT actually ahd any bad soar days........though my muscles have become stiff in the last several days this had made me concerned I d call the dr in charge and he told me just reduce the amount of physical ness in my job

WHAT I WOULD LIKE TO KNOW IS THEIR A REGIEM FOR ME TO LOK INTO WHERE THE COMMON AREAS CAN BE WORKED ON AND MY MUSCLES HAVE ROTUINE OF EXERCISE.......my boyfriend

exercise on regular basis but has been letting me know VITAMINS AND EXERCISE I NEED TO DO

IN ORDER TO BECOME STRONGER OR too help me deal with these issues I wanted to knwo what I can do in order to loose 25 lbs and would using weights hurt my condition..............................

If you are not taking any NSAID's, they will help you get by on a day to day basis. I was on Bextra, but it was taken off the shelf. It helped me so much. I would suggest Aleve. It is a NSAID and is an anti-inflammatory, which you need.
 
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July 26, 2008, 12:55 am PDT

True!

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Since Jennifer is so obsessively-compulsively germ-phobic, I wonder if she lets house-quests use her bathroom. And, how many times she cleans it after they leave. Anyway, it isn't good to use strong anti-bacterial agents all the time. Because bacteria mutate into more resistant strains.
The overuse of antibiotics and antibacterial soaps and cleaners are what helped MRSA to become the devil that it is. I can't understand why people insist on antibiotics if they have a cold or the flu, and get mad at the doctor's if they aren't given. The pressure from the patients is why they are given. Colds and flu's are virus's, you are only supposed to take antibiotics if you have a bacterial infection, which is usually a secondary infection to the afore mentioned virus's. But wait until you get a bacterial infection before you ask for them. They are being overused!
 
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July 26, 2008, 1:12 am PDT

You're heading for disaster!

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I want to know if I am wrong for feeling the way I do.  My problem is I am a married female and have been seeing my ex boyfriend for the last past 7 years.  We see each other at least once a month.  We both have feelings for each other and love being with each other, but we have to stay in our marriages for our children.  Both our spouses do not want sex anymore and its been that way since and even before we met each other.  My boyfriend and I are totally sex compatable and love being together with each other in and out of the bedroom. His wife leaves him on weekends and she goes away by herself without even telling him sometimes.  I told him that he is crazy for letting her be that way but he says he does not care anymore.  Should we still goon seeing each other or am I heading for disaster?

 

 

I realize that I am not a doctor but I do have some common sense that you may find useful. If your marriage is to the point to where you have to look outside of it for any kind of companionship (except female friends) then maybe it's time that you got out of the marriage. You are not truly doing your children any favors by staying in a bad relationship. If sex is your only problem, then maybe you should both seek counseling to find out what the problem is. And the same goes for your boyfriend. You are both married. If you want to date, then you need to get a divorce first. Then you can openly see whoever you want to. What you are currently doing is just plain wrong. You already know this or you wouldn't have written in the first place. It doesn't take a doctor to see the problem here or to tell you that you are wrong. You need to seriously think about what it is that you truly want and sever one relationship or the other. Keep in mind, why did you break up with your ex in the first place? And are you aware of what the statistics of a marriage born from infidelity are? About 5% chance of it working out. Something needs to give here, you have to make a choice. And don't sell your husband short too quickly. Remember that if you go for the other man, real life is going to intrude into the idyllic relationship that you currently have with him. Right now it's all romance and lust. Wait until the bills come around and the house is a mess, it's not going to be the same as before. As I said, if it's just sex, see a therapist, there are many things that can be done about that. Good luck.

 

P.S. Just remember, you're not supposed to date while you are married, you're supposed to date while you are single. You can't have it both ways.

 
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July 26, 2008, 1:17 am PDT

I found a great idea!

For those of you who have OCD, and wash their hands frequently. Of course if I've been out of the house or have done anything dirty with my bare hands I wash them promptly but, if you wash them after everything, like I do, then buy disposable latex gloves. That's what I do. It has saved my hands! I no longer wash them all of the time because I put the gloves on first before I do something around the house that will slightly dirty them. I also use them when I put gas in my car. I find it to be a great idea! Now my hands are so much softer and look really young again. Just an idea for those of you who may need it.
 
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July 26, 2008, 7:10 am PDT

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I was a regular, healthy, kick-butt, go-getter guy... until I got this stuff. I must only have the agrobacteria because I have every symptom except the colored fibres. Judith... thank you so very much for being on TV, I was begining to think it was just me. Just to have some idea of what is going on is sorta comforting.

 

I was also a farming and an outdoor guy, lotsa tick encounters, but I have not had one in many years.

 I somewhat suspect several sources: small nats could be the carriers, I have seen some species I have never seen in the Midwest before, the kind that are around dead fish on the bank of a river.
This whole thing for me started with what I thought was a sac spider or wolly centiped bite on the side of my head. My house had alot of them.
A Dr. also mentioned moldy houses and pollen from trees - there are more moldy houses than ever before, including mine, and the Elm trees had a massive pollen release this year... what eats tree pollen? What eats the stuff that eats tree pollen?

 

I only had one bump (that went away, by itself completely) on my armpits, so I figured there might be something to that. I used Right Guard Extreem covered by Caladryl as the best remedy before upgrading to the ultra-relieving wonderful drug Celephaxin.

 

I have been bitten by almost every bug in the Midwest - this aint like nuthin' I ever had before.
Without the stupid Dr. Phil show I would have been hookin' up batteries or something next. I await what you find Dr.(s). ...and your show is no longer stupid.


I took Celephaxin a few years ago for this, I thought I was cured too. Then it came back, and Im on it again.
This sucks, girls can tell too, they dont smile at me anymore.
Gas station attendants put the money on the counter, not in your hand.
Talk about the road to ailenation.
 I would not wish this on my worst enemy... ever.

Just out of curiousity, why did you USED to think the DrP show was stupid. (By the way, my husband and son feel the same way.) And they don't really have an explanation, except to say, well, it's just common sense! I mean that DrP is just advocating common sense and people are watching the show and he is getting paid lotsa money for dishing out common sense and what in the world is up with that?

 

 
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July 28, 2008, 6:44 pm PDT

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Yes, that was the term that I was looking for. Thank you! Her daughter's were so tiny also, they were actually about 5 to 6 weeks premature. One had to stay in the hospital for about 5 days and the other had to stay for about 2 weeks before she could go home. The were so small! I remember that when she was still in the hospital and it was time to feed, she only got to have the one in her room while she was still in the hospital because the other was in the NIC unit, she had to feed the baby with formula and with a little tube instead of a bottle. I had never seen that before. The baby was too small for a bottle or the be breast fed at that particular time. But of course, after a short while she finally got to try. As I said though, it ended up making her sickly because it was too demanding for her body. She was skin and bones after just about one month. And your right about the other comment that you made. For the women who are able to breast feed without any problems, sometimes it's more of a privilege than it is a choice.





































The first picture is of my daughter, Emma, with a feeding tube. She was 3lbs 11oz at birth. (8 weeks early.) The second picture is of her this summer...she's now 4 and in the 99th percentile for height! And everything about her is just right and healthy. LOL!

I know very much how your step daughter felt...I had to leave my daughter in the NICU for just over 5 weeks. Luckily I lived 5 minutes from the hospital...so I visited her all the time. And luckily, preemies sleep almost continuously...they even have to be woken to feed...they won't wake themselves. So I didn't worry about her missing me. It's hard! That and the fact that I wanted to breastfeed but couldn't made it so hard to bond (That and I had PPD severely.) The last thing women like your step daughter and I need is for breast nazi's to make us feel like less than good mothers!  Yeah, breast milk is probably best...but it's not always possible...and it's not the only factor in mothering.

I am always glad to chat with someone who understand pre eclampsia...it's shocking. One minute I was 7 months pregnant the next I was being rushed by ambulance to the hospital to have my daughter!
 
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July 28, 2008, 6:48 pm PDT

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The overuse of antibiotics and antibacterial soaps and cleaners are what helped MRSA to become the devil that it is. I can't understand why people insist on antibiotics if they have a cold or the flu, and get mad at the doctor's if they aren't given. The pressure from the patients is why they are given. Colds and flu's are virus's, you are only supposed to take antibiotics if you have a bacterial infection, which is usually a secondary infection to the afore mentioned virus's. But wait until you get a bacterial infection before you ask for them. They are being overused!
I don't get people who seem to relish taking antibiotics. I just got done with a round today and it was HELLISH. Seriously...nausea, diarrhea, headaches....UGH! Don't worry, I had a legit reason, I had pneumonia! LOL!
 

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