Topic : 08/04 Daddy Drama

You are so wrong!  Are you a parent?  Children are born to be selfish, especially as a child.  Those girls certainly don't need to grow up.  Are you aware of their tender and impressionable ages?  Unlike those precious girls I had an amazingly happy childhood and guess what?  My father was my hero.  Parents are given the responsibility to raise their children.  This is HUGE!!!  That means that you must sacrifice for the needs of your children.  You also nees to be a role model for them.  What are they learning from their father?  #1 Divorce, well we all know that that is a selfish choice.  #2 Their needs cannot be met until their father's is met?  How will they know what it takes when they become parents themselves.  We've lowered the bar in this world.  Haven't you noticed?  I blame people like you.  The world needs more Heroes and we are not going to get them with yso many people like you not wanting to be held accountable for their actions/decisions.  He made a conscious choice to get married and have children.  They had no choice.  It is his responsibility to carry out with his promises and that does not include denying his children the financial support that they need, just so he/she can continue to invest in changing his gender.  Wake-up!  He has irrevocably hurt these girls his own daughters and for this I'm sure that he will never find inner peace or true happiness.  My heart is aching for these poor girls as well as their mother and family that must pick up the pieces and move on.  Like my mother told me with regards to raising my own children, there are some people who's halos should never fall. 

For a person as great as you feel you are, I had not seen you get into the two wives! Why do I ask this of you? Did you ever think that it was because of these two women's hate for Kayla, did everything possible to make their daughters hate their dad?  Did you even think of asking the two ex -wives if Kayla did try to communicate with her daughters, only for the two-ex-wives never tell them of this.  There are so many questions you should of asked the two ex-wives, their mothers  brain washing their children to hate what their dad has done!

Don't throw stones until you know the ENTIRE STORY!!!! Lastly...Look at the show again and please tell me that Kayla did not show any emotion!  She held back her tears and feelings. Why... I'm not able to say why, but she was very much torn apart being victimized by you, Dr. Phil!  Look again at the video and look at the two ex-wives expressions... I didn't see them cry, Did you? What I saw on their faces were, mission accomplished, Our daughters hate him! 

Bring them back for part 2 Dr. Phil... Tear them apart like you had done with Kayla! you just may learn about "Hail hath no fury  like A Woman's Scorn!"

Amen.

The family was not helped on this show, if anything Dr. Phil made sure that a semi truck was placed between the girls and their father.

The conversation should have been brought around to; what could you do so that your are daughters more comfortable being around you. (i.e. not wearing makeup, having your hair up in a hat when around your children etc.) Instead, he made sure that the girls were more justified in their hate then ever. Not having a spirit of compromise, and having pure black and white thinking is not doing these girls any favors over the course of their lives.

The oldest would not let him show emotion, she did nothing but launch sideways assaults at him the whole entire show. (If he had tried to hug her she would have lost it)There comes a time when you put up boundries even if it is with the people that you love the most for your own well being. Do you suggest that he lets his daughters beat him up until they finally decides to maybe have a relationship with him?

I feel the mothers have helped,  planet these seeds of anger as well, They might be angry and hurt but they are not doing their children any favors by pointing out flaws in their father. Even when the ex-husband makes you mad as everything, you remind your children that their father loves, no matter what he may look like now. To do otherwise is parental alienation and it is cruel to your children.

Parting of loving people is finding a way to see past flaws, and learning to have different points of view without always having to be right.

Sorry Phil,you dropped the ball on healing this family.