Quote From: soul_2000It's so easy for women to complain about the actions of these two men. Sure the first guy had the wrong approach but for a woman to go to the media because of it, come on. That's uncalled for no matter what he did.
As for the second guy. Paul was it? He does what he has to do to get women and he's good at it. He wasn't sitting up there being an ass. As a matter of fact he presented himself in a respectful and charming way. There was even chemistry with the woman he dated though she didn't want to admit it.
The problem is, you women are making it impossible to be that good ol southern gentlemen you claim you want. The reason there are guys out there like the two on the show is because of the standards that women place on men. Nice, decent guys are called wimps. You say you want the bad boy. Then when one is in your life you cry that he treats you bad but stay with him anyway.
You trash talk the guys on the show, but you all fall for them at one point in your life.
It's only in the golden years of your life do you want that decent, nice guy. But by then he's moved on and doesn't want a man-hating, over the hill baggage carrier.
So before trashing these guys, you need to realize why they became that way in the first place.
First of all I would like to state very LOUDLY so you will hear me, I do not like the bad boys, have never dated a bad boy, and don't ever want to anything to do with a bad boy!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I actually like nice guys, in fact, at the tender age of 23 I married my nice guy with whom I had been with for 2 years already. We are now happily married for almost 21 years. Doesn't that fly in the face of your reasoning? I would also like to state that both men were ass's! They weren't even men, they DO NOT deserve that title, it doesn't matter what their age is, their brains are still stagnating at the age of 12. A real man has to earn the title by being kind, courteous, quietly confident, and responsible. Why is that so hard? Don't even begin to blame it on us women. I know for a fact that I never was cruel or unkind to a man unless he deserved it. I refuse to believe that every woman on Earth is poison and we have only ourselves to blame. Since I am a woman, have 3 sisters, and happen to know many other women and what they want and are looking for, I believe that I should know what I'm talking about. You are someone who got burned in the past and have decided that we are evil. Seek counseling why don't you? And about that wimp remark? I'd like to see the guy who would dare call my 6'5",275pd broad shouldered, husband a wimp to his face just because he happens to be a nice guy. I'd also like to know at what age you consider us women "over the hill man-haters"? 30, 40, 50, what? I happen to be 43, and a beautiful, vibrant, charming, sexy, sensual, built great, confident, kind, loving, intelligent, I could go on, non man-hating woman. I just don't have the time nor the patience to want to be near a Pre-pubescent, non-confident male with an inferiority complex. That includes you! Again, please seek counseling, it sounds like you need it.
(Original Air Date: 05/07/08) Ladies, listen up as Dr. Phil sheds light on men to avoid! You know the type: They can turn you off with their confidence, offend you with their arrogance and make you wonder if they actually hate women. He’s talking to men with out-of-control egos! John was dubbed The Worst Person in the World after sending what many would describe as a nasty, egotistical e-mail to a woman who rejected him on an Internet dating site. John admits he has a big ego but says he’s "all that and a bag of chips!" Don’t miss what happens when cameras follow John to a bar where he works his magic on the women! Then, meet Paul, a self-proclaimed Casanova who says men need to act more like cavemen. Paul says he’s proud of the fact that he’s slept with over 132 women and keeps a spreadsheet of his conquests. He says he’s so good at getting women into bed that he’s written a How To manual for men. Paul’s techniques are put to the test when he secretly coaches an introvert in a crowded club. Plus, one woman whom Paul couldn’t add to his spreadsheet joins him onstage. Where does she say he went wrong? Talk about the show here.
