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Topic : 07/22 Male Egos Out of Control

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Created on : Friday, May 02, 2008, 01:25:28 pm
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(Original Air Date: 05/07/08) Ladies, listen up as Dr. Phil sheds light on men to avoid! You know the type: They can turn you off with their confidence, offend you with their arrogance and make you wonder if they actually hate women. He’s talking to men with out-of-control egos! John was dubbed The Worst Person in the World after sending what many would describe as a nasty, egotistical e-mail to a woman who rejected him on an Internet dating site. John admits he has a big ego but says he’s "all that and a bag of chips!" Don’t miss what happens when cameras follow John to a bar where he works his magic on the women! Then, meet Paul, a self-proclaimed Casanova who says men need to act more like cavemen. Paul says he’s proud of the fact that he’s slept with over 132 women and keeps a spreadsheet of his conquests. He says he’s so good at getting women into bed that he’s written a How To manual for men. Paul’s techniques are put to the test when he secretly coaches an introvert in a crowded club. Plus, one woman whom Paul couldn’t add to his spreadsheet joins him onstage. Where does she say he went wrong? Talk about the show here.

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May 7, 2008, 1:28 pm PDT

A Woman Scorned

John was honest with the woman with about he is, and expected some degree of honesty in return. What did he receive in return for his efforts?  She turned him and his personal life into a media debacle. If she wasn't street smart enough to either read into his profile or at least realize that she was meeting someone through a website, then she didn't get the half of what she deserved. 

 

He was courteous enough to offer her some assistance in getting herself into shape and not once, at least on the show, did he use the word "fat" in reference to her.   

 

My guess would be that she is just a gold digger that got slighted. 

 

 

 
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May 7, 2008, 1:30 pm PDT

are you freakin' kidding me!!!

Paul, you are one of the ugliest guys ever, and your personality doesn't help you, now wonder you are 41 and single.....don't you realize that these girls are probably using you and then laughing at you behind your back....you are an idiot to the umpteenth degree!!!  Get a Life.....buy yourself a mail order bride, at least she would probably lick your feet for a couple of years.
 
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May 7, 2008, 1:31 pm PDT

John, good lookng?

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I am rather surprise especially with amount of HIV/Aids that is going around... I wouldn't be braggin on how many I have slept with either... I just find it very sick... Seen to much of this when I was in college over 30 years ago living in the dorms...

 

It doesn't look like they are very mature... just a bunch of playboys ...

So this John guy has muscles. Who told him he was good looking anyway. His face is not particular attractive and his attitude just makes it down right ugly!
 
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May 7, 2008, 1:32 pm PDT

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Please, give me a break. Paul didn't teach anything at all to us men.

From a man's point of view wanting to learn how to meet women...

Dr. Phil, you had a fit and trim young man who looks like Justin Timberlake bragging about how easy it is to get women. Duh, isn't it obvious why he gets lots of women? He looks like a male model. Some of those women on the street were practically tripping over each other to get his attention. He could have gotten more phone numbers without even saying anything at all. And the guy he coached by radio was very handsome too.

I challenge him to coach an ugly guy like me to get the attention of beautiful young women. I can almost guarantee that it won’t go over that successfully.

On second thought, forget it. I wouldn't want shallow women who give up their number that easy anyway.

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May 7, 2008, 1:34 pm PDT

GOSH...THEIR MOTHERS MUST BE SOOO PROUD...

Good grief...first....who told these men, both John and Paul that they were attractive ?  Whatever mirror they are looking into should be patented. Secondly,  GUYS GUYS if you have to work that hard and are so obsessed with your "talent" (and I use the word with great caution) then I really do PITY you both because I have never seen such insecure men in my life.  Last and certainly not least.....there are girls that will date you and they must be very desparate but my mother use to say...............there is ALWAYS an old sock for an old shoe.  Guys......grow up and at the very least .......REMEMBER THIS,,,,,,,INTEGRITY !!!!!!!

 
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May 7, 2008, 1:35 pm PDT

A Whole Aisle of Chips, huh?

Oh, yeah--that first guy on the show today was seriously a whole aisle of chips--a whole aisle of COW CHIPS! 

 
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May 7, 2008, 1:35 pm PDT

I love this quote!

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"A true man does not need to romance a different girl every night, a true man romances the same girl for the rest of her life."
What a beautiful, touching quote....thank you for posting it. :)  I am watching the show right now and I am so filled with disgust that I'm currently speechless...but I just HAD to post at least that much!  OMG...these guys aren't even good looking!  As soon as I get over the shock of this and am able to put some words together (I can't even do that right now!), I'll be back.
 

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May 7, 2008, 1:36 pm PDT

Guy from Atlanta

I don't remember his name, but in my opinion, the guy from Atlanta really wasn't physically attractive.  There was just something sleazy about him.  So if I saw him in a bar, I wouldn't have given him a second glance anyway.  And the hokey suspenders didn't help.  Two seconds of listening to him would have done it for me.  The guy from New York is nothing more than a predator.  I wonder what these two individuals would think if the tables were turned and they were used the same way they're using women.  It's sad that they both are so pathetically insecure about themselves that they have to act the way they do.   
 
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May 7, 2008, 1:38 pm PDT

These men are PIGS!!!!!!!

these men are pathetic! Who do these men think they are? they are scum. Women are so much more than a mans play thing! and the man that is called the worst person in the world, is not as hot as he thinks he is! I think he is homely! These type of men pray on women who are actrative but they don't see themselves that way. They pray on women who don't have alot of self confidence, and who are looking for true love. And these PIGS think that because they say the right thing and act romantic, and pray on what these women are looking for in man that they know how to get a woman? Maybe they know how to get them, but the real question is would they know how to keep them? I can answer that right now, NO!!!! These guys aren't "MEN" their PIGS!!!!!!! The last thing i have to say is Karma's a B***ch!!!! Just remember ladies, whatever they 've given to you they'll get back 10 fold!

 
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May 7, 2008, 1:38 pm PDT

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What these two men have done isn't wrong. True the letter was rude I will not defend that, but those 132 women were willing!! Women feed their egos! More then 132 women gave their numbers to that man, 132 were stupid enough to go see him. There is nothing wrong the the man, he is feeding an urge that he is born with! He shouldn't be hated because he finds women who need something. Women are just being stupid!!! Don't fall for that kind of stuff, it isn't that big of a deal!! Step it up ladies!!! You are making us all look bad! I'm disappointed in the reaction of the women in the audience! You were upset with them when you should have been upset with the women who played along with them. They are making us look bad, the men I'm sure are considered gods for scoring so many girls! Why should they be beaten down for taking advantage for something they are given?

Sounds like u might be one of those women?

 
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