Topic : 07/22 Male Egos Out of Control

Okay.....after I got up off the floor after laughing so hard I fell down...here's what I saw and heard:

 

Johnny-boy, the first jerk, insists he's 35. If he's less than 45, I'll kiss someone's rosy red tushie!

He has thinning hair, a big nose and ....sorry...just doesn't qualify as handsome....MY standards are WAY higher!! (and was that a bit of a pot-belly I saw sticking out there?)

 

Number 2 jerk, Paul is a real piece of work....an STD (AIDS comes to mind)....just waiting to happen..if it hasn't already. How many of you girls out there are willing to risk it? Any women dumb enough to sleep with him is begging for trouble on SO many levels! And, if anyone believes anything he said on the show, well,....I have a bridge to sell ya!

 

And, hey...did anyone else hear that little remark he made while having that microphone taped to his chest? His exact words were: "It's nice....kind of like a bra." .....how does he know what a bra feels like? Dressing in Mommy's undies, maybe?

 

The comments he made, his expressions and the way he sees women....kind of like the mindset of a rapist. Really scary!

 

Bottom line: handsome is as handsome does.....and I didn't see ANY handsome guys up on that stage today. 

 K, everyone writing on here is a happily married female it seems, the guys are just out having fun, maybe passing on STD's maybe not who knows, and the girls that they are getting with are probably the same way so don't think this is all about the guys, it's not just the guys that want sex all the time, where I live the girls probably want it more than the guys do, I don't do this and I am not really good at picking up girls but it is not as bad as y'all make it out to be, this is normal from bothe genders, I don't understand the whole deal

  I would hope those men would read this because with their attitudes they are going to end up

  LONELY VERY OLD MEN! 

 

  Paul?  In my opinion was not very good looking, I prefer clean shaven men.

 

  I didn't catch the first guys name, he was below 1 on a scale of 1 being the lowest in looks.

 

  I have met a number of men and these 2 don't hold a candle to any of them.

 

  They are just plain jerks, and I am very sad that they think so highly of themselves, it is going to get  

  them no where in life.  

In many states a woman is considered unable to give consent when intoxicated & sex with an intoxicated woman is considered rape. To me Paul on this show would be considered a sexual predator in many states. If a woman won't consent sober he must have a problem. I was thoroughly disgusted by his behavior. John was just a jerk.

Dr. Phil,

Why would you give this pathetic looser air time?  What a jerk.  This guy needs to get a life.  Again, why did you put this guy on the show?

This guy is too much so full of you know what. I could be wrong but it looks like he has quite a gut there but claims to be really fit?

I do online dating and am surprised at how many men don't look like their photos.

You know what? You are so full of crap it's coming out of your ears!

 

If anyone believes one word of your post they're a bigger fool than you!  Nice try, though.

As long as Paul isn't being deceptive and leading women into thinking that he wants anything more than sex, and is being responsible as to STD's and birth control, then he can sleep with as many women as he wants.  Lots of women are looking for nothing more than sex, too.   John, on the other hand, is a different story.  He comes across as being incredibly insecure.  Why else broadcast that you drive the best car, live in the fanciest place, went to the best school, etc..... in a  "standard  reply".  I haven't done internet dating, but his "standard reply" would probably get the same response as the woman that he responded to.  The woman on the show who met John in the bar hit it right on the head.  He got his feelings hurt and lashed out, which is pretty shocking, given how highly he thinks of himself.  I would imagine he would be impervious to such slight rejections.  Which brings me to the question of;  Where does John get the impression that once a woman "winks" at him online, she no longer has the right to decide that he's not right for her?    She stated that they aren't a "personality match".  Obviously from his "standard reply"  she understood that he is so deeply insecure that he has to trumpet his "accomplishments" instead of being the (possibly) genuine, nice guy that he should strive to be.  He may have been attractive to the eyes, but obviously his "standard reply" is a turn off.  Your resume is not you.  It just an accounting of what you've done.  It doesn't reflect your personality at all.  We've all known driven and accomplished people who are nice, pleasant people and ones who are not so nice.  I personally don't find John physically attractive, but I generally base my attraction to a man on his personality, not his looks.  In other words, a man may not attract me at first with his looks, but sometimes personality is what makes a man attractive, so John wouldn't even be a prospect for me. 

       I'm watching the "Male Ego" show as I type here....and I have to say, these men are....well, they are who they are.  I think this show should've spun towards women and their self esteem (rather, their lack thereof) instead of a "player" bashing show.  "Players" play because they can. 

       One of the most useful pieces of advice I've ever been given "When someone tells you who they are, you better listen".  When John says, "I make x amount of money, I can bench x amount of weight, etc" Listen to him, because he can do that....but I didn't hear anything about, "I'm an honest, dependable, compassionate man, etc." As a woman myself, who was at a time single and enjoyed "the singles scene" all that doesn't turn women on necessarily. 

        Its really like advertising: you market your product to the crowd who it would appeal to.  First of all, there's drinking involved.  Of course the game works, of course it does.  You wouldn't market Hannah Montana gear to 40 year old men would you?  You market your  "skills" to (generally) under the influence, low self esteem (or at least not where it potentially will be later in life). 

          If women don't like it and they want them gone, then maybe we should band together  as FEMALES not COMPETITORS, to give everyone a boost, and then, if no one is buying the product-they will go out of business.  Also, the young man from NY, he said something about "maintain the intrigue"....and that's because he can't "maintain the real thing" because it does get boring at times!!  You've got to talk and like, I don't know, deal with real-life issues that aren't always fun mixed drinks and coy one liners.  Anyone can get laid-not just anyone get true happiness.  These men have low self esteem and are preying on women with the same.  People who are hurting, themselves, hurt others.  That's why the 33, or 36, or 41 year old just had to get the last word....who touched his naughty spot?!  Really.... these men are without.