Topic : 07/22 Male Egos Out of Control

Regarding "Male Egos Out of Control"... Please know that as a happily married, heterosexual male, I can proudly say that the neanderthals profiled in your show do a great job to make the rest of the men on this planet look REAL good to the ladies. Thank you! :)

Your first guest, John, absolutely takes the cake. First off, with an ego his size, I'm surprised his swollen head could get through the door and into your studios.

Regarding the "dinner with the Secretary of Defense", he should know that the "nuclear football" is carried by a senior officer in active duty in the United States Armed Forces - not the SecDef.

When I was single & in college, I loved hanging out with guys like John. Their "open mouth, insert foot" mentality made the rest of us normal men look good.

He's 41 (oh yes, that's right, he lied about his age. How original!), and is still single. Small wonder, there.

As a man who has been happily married for 14 years, and the father of two great kids, I can honestly say that he will probably die old, bitter and single.

Unbelievable!  I have just one word for these men...OBNOXIOUS!  NO WONDER they are single!  I'm a 54 year old woman and I wouldn't look across the street at them, so heres one you can't get!

Let me let you in on something guys, just because you might have some looks or good paying job, higher education, nice threads, etc., does NOT mean you are God's gift to women!  As a matter of fact, looks are NOT what make the man attractive to women...yeah...that's right...imagine that!  What makes a man attractive has very little to do with looks, statis, car, job, education or what you wear and more to do with how you TREAT a lady.  I bet if Dr. Phil did a test and had a less than average guy come up to those young ladies treat them with respect and give attention to them he would be in like Flynn unlike your approach, obnoxious and pompas.   No wonder you are 41 John and still seeking.  Bragging isn't attractive to anyone.  Embellishing the truth is even less attractive.  A REAL man doesn't have to brag...women see what he has.   Paul, you are beyond help.  What is with the spread sheet?  Finding the right woman isn't just about keeping charts and grafts on the sex you have.  Does the word RELATIONSHIP mean anything to you??  Women are NOT into the caveman mentality, as you put it.  You might appear attractive to start with but when you open your mouth it's allllll over! 

I predict you both will be single for a long long time.

Dear Doc:

With all due respect, and I mean that, I was surprised that you were so easy on such bad behavior.  What I like about you is your ability to "tell it like it is". This level of misogyny certainly needed that.  I teach gender courses in Sociology, so I talk about  this issue with my students frequently.  Even when they admit that they are players, they learn something about respecting others and themselves by the end of the course. I wish something had been said that made these men think deeply about their destructive behaviors both personally and socially. 

About them.  Consent may be a criterion in your winning women, but you arrive there in such disingenuous ways that one could hardly consider it worthy of physical intimacy.  If you must manipulate to get the attention you desire, there is a clear disconnect occurring on some level.  That is what needs attention.  (Dr. Phil, I am so surprised that you did not take them on at this point. )

Dr., do you plan on challenging men who are players with misogynistic tendencies?  This seems to be a socially resurgent problem in our society today. Trends in sexuality are hitting new levels of destructiveness. Hooking up has taken on new meaning, and it needs to be explored.  How do these sexual behaviors peal us away from ourselves as well as socially within our communities?

Step back up to the plate Doc.  I'm rooting for you to  the "big" voice because I don't think these men would listen to most women as you know misogynistic men do not.

Unbelievable!  I have just one word for these men...OBNOXIOUS!  NO WONDER they are single!  I'm a 54 year old woman and I wouldn't look across the street at them, so heres one you can't get!

Let me let you in on something guys, just because you might have some looks or good paying job, higher education, nice threads, etc., does NOT mean you are God's gift to women!  As a matter of fact, looks are NOT what make the man attractive to women...yeah...that's right...imagine that!  What makes a man attractive has very little to do with looks, statis, car, job, education or what you wear and more to do with how you TREAT a lady.  I bet if Dr. Phil did a test and had a less than average guy come up to those young ladies treat them with respect and give attention to them he would be in like Flynn unlike your approach, obnoxious and pompas.   No wonder you are 41 John and still seeking.  Bragging isn't attractive to anyone.  Embellishing the truth is even less attractive.  A REAL man doesn't have to brag...women see what he has.   Paul, you are beyond help.  What is with the spread sheet?  Finding the right woman isn't just about keeping charts and grafts on the sex you have.  Does the word RELATIONSHIP mean anything to you??  Women are NOT into the caveman mentality, as you put it.  You might appear attractive to start with but when you open your mouth it's allllll over! 

I predict you both will be single for a long long time.

I don't think these guys are the only ones in bed (or the back of a cab). The women they

get play a pretty big role in this game. Why don't you all get off these mens back for this and

teach your daughters to have a little respect for themselves and maybe this would stop. If they

were drugging or raping these women then I have a problem, but they are not, they are seducing

them. To bad women no longer have the self esteem to say NO. Or even the brains to realize how

dangerous it is to go to someones apartment they just met. Hey ladies get a clue.