Topic : 07/22 Male Egos Out of Control

 Very well said......The funny thing is that neither of these guys merit a second glance anyway.  The Georgia guy was just scary looking and the NY guy had the most ridiculous chicken arms.  I don't normally walk around critiquing guys, or people in general.....but come on.  Even if they had not opened their mouths they wouldn't really turn a lot of heads.

 Amen!  Guess what?  There are actually some committed people of faith in this world who value *chastity* -- and I'm one of them.  Yeah, Paul is attractive on the surface, but his values (or lack thereof) more than cancel out the pretty-boy good looks.  And Paul, it won't do you one bit of good to gloat about your spreadsheet from the pits of hell.  May the Holy Spirit convict you with the truth about the way you are living, before it's too late.

Wow.....did you see the same show I did?

 

Tadpoles turn into frogs........he just bypassed the middle stage and went right to froggie!

 

Barf.

"A true man does not need to romance a different girl every night, a true man romances the same girl for the rest of her life."

 

True words of wisdom that were spoken very well.

 

All I have to say is I would rather give myself a lobatomy than have to sit and listen to one of those men talk about themselves for five more seconds.

I want to say the men that you had on your show is no different than many other men. They can not have a real woman in there life because they really don't like them self or there life's. They talk in to the mirror in the bathroom because that person is the only one they really love and are turn on by. Not that there gay its just some thing is wrong in  there heads. They need help  you could see it in there faces when you busted them with the women  you had on when they didn't like them. shame hurt  was in there faces and I really thought it was sick to show this. But I understand why you do it. Showing the world and making money but they need help. I wonder what we  would have  thought   if this had been women not men for there are many women like this  I have met in my life. They think very much like the men you had on the show.

To the men on the show, get some help you look like a  fool and you are a fool, the women that go to bed with you are no better than you they are sick too. Its the sick feeding off the sick

The "nice guys" who complain that women don't want nice guys are RARELY actually NICE GUYS.

 

I regularly watch Dr. Phil's program,but was disappointed in his response to Paul's atttude re women.  First of all, underneath Paul's  "cave man" persona, I suspect there's a genuine "real" man wanting to get out of the facade.  Secondly, I found the attitudes he portrayed not only superficial but also on the edge of sexual stalking and/or assault.  As he discussed his plan, he used phrases like "get her into his territory" or getting to a more "closed in private area (like the cab).  He also discussed staying sober while he attempted to get the female drunk apparently to lessen her resistance to any sexual advances.  He seems to systematically stalk for vulnerable women, takes five minutes to get vital info. from them, and then as he says "closes" the deal.  Next, there is NOTHING cute about casual sex with many partners.  Some of our problems with abused females, unwanted children,  a lifestyle of poverty, and lack of morals stem directly from this casual attitude toward sex.  Of course, the females who are approached by the "Pauls" in our society should have their own standards and not cave into the sexual chemistry (No pun intended!!!)  Last of all, I'm surprised that Dr. Phil seemed rather amused by Paul and didn't seem to take his attitude very seriously.  Obviously, Paul is a charmer, but he shouldn't be reinforced for his "cave man" approach.   I guess I've reinforced him by giving him this much thought, but I had to "get it off my chest." 

Ok I am new at this message board thing , but I tivo dr phil and watch him every night before I go to bed and I am not even done watching it and just finished watchin what John had to say and in my opinion that who does John think he is . If I met him in a bar or saw his picture I didn't read a thing about him I wouldn't give him the time of day cause he isn't all the good looking at all. Who does he think he is God's gift to women that is what he was put on earth for cause if that were the case I think that God would have mad him cuter than what he looks like right now.