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Topic : 07/22 Male Egos Out of Control

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Created on : Friday, May 02, 2008, 01:25:28 pm
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(Original Air Date: 05/07/08) Ladies, listen up as Dr. Phil sheds light on men to avoid! You know the type: They can turn you off with their confidence, offend you with their arrogance and make you wonder if they actually hate women. He’s talking to men with out-of-control egos! John was dubbed The Worst Person in the World after sending what many would describe as a nasty, egotistical e-mail to a woman who rejected him on an Internet dating site. John admits he has a big ego but says he’s "all that and a bag of chips!" Don’t miss what happens when cameras follow John to a bar where he works his magic on the women! Then, meet Paul, a self-proclaimed Casanova who says men need to act more like cavemen. Paul says he’s proud of the fact that he’s slept with over 132 women and keeps a spreadsheet of his conquests. He says he’s so good at getting women into bed that he’s written a How To manual for men. Paul’s techniques are put to the test when he secretly coaches an introvert in a crowded club. Plus, one woman whom Paul couldn’t add to his spreadsheet joins him onstage. Where does she say he went wrong? Talk about the show here.

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May 8, 2008, 6:30 am PDT

male egos out of control

One word....INSECURITY!!
 
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May 8, 2008, 6:32 am PDT

Right again!!

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I humbly stand corrected! Dr. Phil's good looks are a given....because he's handsome inside AND out! 
I totally agree with your statement!!

I would even say that Dr' Phil has a certain sex-appeal.

These guys would definitely gain in having Dr. Phil as role model!!!
 
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May 8, 2008, 6:47 am PDT

OMG!

I am just now watching yesterdays show. John is unreal! He is fugly. He is also a lying sack! What a putz, I ALMOST feel bad for the loser.
 
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May 8, 2008, 6:52 am PDT

Why?

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I am appauld at how many negative male shows there are on Dr. Phil.

We know what a male isn't supposed to be, but how about how a male should be?

 

I foudn the first guy on teh show a bit over the top- concieted, and full of himself, yet I did not think what he said to the woman who mailed him wrong. He was giving advice (and I will admit, in the worst way possible) but seriously, what was she expecting?

 

And no one ever questioned why the response she got from him made her suddenly go CRAZY and report it to all of the media stations she could muster?  I find that seriously psychotic, yet, no one questioned that.

 

The second guy, I would never date him, but what is wrong with a guy wanting to have sex with women? Oh no! A guy shouldn't want sex?  Who cares if he's slept with 100 women. Those women consented to it. And yes, he has an ego- but the only women who are going to go for him are going to go out of either wanting the same thing- sex- or just liking the attention.

 

I find it silly that Dr Phil keeps projecting men whom have strategies or need help in gaining confidence to approach women as evil, awful men. 

It is completely acceptable for women to dress up, wear tons of make-up and act all bubbly, cute, and sexy, even if that's not what she looks like/is like, at all! And yet, men looking for help in boosting their confidence are scorned because they should just be themselves? Shy? Not dressed up?

 

Have more positive role-male models!!!!!!!

He doesn't have to, Dr. Phil himself IS a positive role model. I agree that he's had enough of these skanky men on the show but come now, you can't possibly compare a woman dressing nicely and wearing a little makeup to these kinds of creeps. When I wear makeup I still look just like myself, there is no false advertising going on. I'm also not ashamed to let a man see me without it. Although I don't agree with most of what you said I do have to admit that if these women who are allowing themselves to be cheapened so badly with a one hour stand without the benefit of even a beverage then they are indeed pretty slutty. I don't understand how people can just give away the most private, personal, and precious part of themselves for nothing. If you need satisfaction that bad it can in fact be achieved by yourself in private and still have your morals intact. I just don't get it!    P.S. Just in case I didn't make myself clear, I don't think you should give it away for the price of a drink or meal either.  Maybe some women should wear duct tape tightly around their knees to help get them from one block to the next.
 
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May 8, 2008, 6:53 am PDT

full of crap

 

I thought the show was quite amussing. I'm not sure why John thinks so highly of himself, but I can tell you he is not all that & a bag of chips, he's not even the bag of chips.

I would also think that if you are a personal trainer and go to the gym 4 times a weeks that you would have an awesome body and a great 12 pack, he doesn't even have a one pack.

I didn't realize either that the University of Penn was one of the top prestigeous ivy league schools. Just because you pay more money doesn't make you more intelligent.

Maybe he has money because he is so cheap. They say that wealthy people are cheap and try to get everything for free.

 
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May 8, 2008, 7:06 am PDT

05/07 Male Egos Out of Control

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Ok I am new at this message board thing , but I tivo dr phil and watch him every night before I go to bed and I am not even done watching it and just finished watchin what John had to say and in my opinion that who does John think he is . If I met him in a bar or saw his picture I didn't read a thing about him I wouldn't give him the time of day cause he isn't all the good looking at all. Who does he think he is God's gift to women that is what he was put on earth for cause if that were the case I think that God would have mad him cuter than what he looks like right now.

Oh Good, I'm glad I was not the only one wondering why John thought he was all that. He must see someone totally different in the mirror then the person then we seen.

 

 
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May 8, 2008, 7:18 am PDT

uuhhhmmm

 Was just wondering...John!..do you own a mirror?
 
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May 8, 2008, 7:19 am PDT

complete jerks

Even in my youngest, most beautiful days of my younger years being single and "out there", I would have never, ever, given either of those two idiots the pleasure of a smile.  I was told I looked like Olivia Newton John, Susan Blakely, Farrah Fawcett, all in their best years, and mine.  Those guys are mental cases, both of them.  I pray that I never, ever, meet up with anyone in my generation that acts that way.  I have already asked a guy my age if he takes classes on how to seduce women, and he never heard of them, what happened to the next generation.  Maybe they have always been out there, but I never bought their story.  Thank God. 

 
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May 8, 2008, 7:21 am PDT

My Husband is a True Man..............

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I've been reading the replies about this show and well how eles can I express it. Im sick. I can tell most of you are most likely women. I wonder if you would allow your husbands to speak freely without fear of what you may say or do. I'll bet they would favor quite differently than you. For those of you who are religous may find a familar quote in the good book "judge not yet ye be judged yourself".  Yes I saw the show yesterday, and yes i'll confess it struck a nerve in me that can not be ignored. I just cound'nt resist to shoot my words at you "good american christians".  I can strongly relate to these men -that is if and could be hate be their reason of actions-, although I can't even touch the level of resources and "calibure" they have. But if I did, I would be mercyless for a great period of time. As a youth I know the frustraition of loneliness and it is easy to assume that women are the bad guys for haveing the upperhand in courtship. I just cant understand this never ending war between sexs although I try. And it doesnt seem to be getting better especailly today in time.
I just wanted to touch on one point that you made. My Husband is allowed to speak freely with me. Allowed is not even the correct terminology. He is my equal in every way and we both speak quite freely about everything. The day that my husband becomes afraid to speak his mind is the day I will lose respect for him. As a matter of fact, I remember the day when he confessed to me in a rather casual manner that "of course" if an attractive woman walks by and she's showing something off he's going to look. It didn't bother me any, as a matter of fact it opened up a whole new area for me to get information from him about how the male mind works. I find it rather informative and very interesting. Now I know what men are doing when I walk by in a low cut blouse, I had never thought about it before. OK, I also have to mention about the "women having the upper hand" remark too. Since when did this happen? As far as I know both the men and the women have the upper hand during courtships. It boils down to who is more attracted to whom. Do you think a woman has never been the one to be dumped in this world that we live in? Very naive, it goes both ways.
 
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May 8, 2008, 7:24 am PDT

wow

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     Who let the dogs out?

     Fellows who make lists and brag about their conquests do not care about women.  They have had homosexual experiences, feel guilty about it, and believe if they have sex with enough women, they do not have to worry about being ***** no more.  

are you speaking from personal experience?
 
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