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Topic : 07/22 Male Egos Out of Control

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Created on : Friday, May 02, 2008, 01:25:28 pm
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(Original Air Date: 05/07/08) Ladies, listen up as Dr. Phil sheds light on men to avoid! You know the type: They can turn you off with their confidence, offend you with their arrogance and make you wonder if they actually hate women. He’s talking to men with out-of-control egos! John was dubbed The Worst Person in the World after sending what many would describe as a nasty, egotistical e-mail to a woman who rejected him on an Internet dating site. John admits he has a big ego but says he’s "all that and a bag of chips!" Don’t miss what happens when cameras follow John to a bar where he works his magic on the women! Then, meet Paul, a self-proclaimed Casanova who says men need to act more like cavemen. Paul says he’s proud of the fact that he’s slept with over 132 women and keeps a spreadsheet of his conquests. He says he’s so good at getting women into bed that he’s written a How To manual for men. Paul’s techniques are put to the test when he secretly coaches an introvert in a crowded club. Plus, one woman whom Paul couldn’t add to his spreadsheet joins him onstage. Where does she say he went wrong? Talk about the show here.

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July 15, 2008, 3:41 am PDT

05/07 Male Egos Out of Control

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I quess they're too busy sitting on their butts whining to find each other.
That made me laugh! Very good reply and probably very true!
 
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July 15, 2008, 4:12 am PDT

This was from Rachel Rose....................

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"A true man does not need to romance a different girl every night, a true man romances the same girl for the rest of her life."

I felt this quote was worth repeating. I think that there are still many of you guys out there that do not understand this. I think that you need to memorize this and really learn and understand what it means. Until then, you will never be a "true man". Or even a "real man" for that matter!

 

This needs to be your Mantra! Repeat, repeat, repeat, and repeat again, until you finally get it!!!!!!!!!

 
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July 19, 2008, 9:11 am PDT

07/22 Male Egos Out of Control

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To Paul and all others like him:  

 

I really don't understand how you cannot fear the hand of  Our Lord God Almighty!?!   You may be having your fun here on earth but it is not going to be fun when you are burning continually in hell for the rest of eternity.

 

Yes Paul you may be very proud of the number of woman you slept with.  Soo proud you kept a list.  But Paul remember God Almighty is keeping a list too.   I suggest you bring it to confession with you immediately!!

 

May God bless you and have mercy on you Paul and all the others like you!!!

To Paul and all others like him: 
Women are not property.  What you feel when some one hurts you, is the same hurt she feels.  Hearts are not toys.  Someday, if you live long enough and before you meet our Lord, someone will break your heart.

Remember you have been warned.  Women are not toys, either.   If that is how you feel, please leave and go someplace where you apathetic ego is the norm.  Where?  Maybe no such place exists.  Become a Muslim in one of those countries.  Then when you die you get 72 virgins, in Burkas.
Women in Burkas are like a box of chocolates....You never know what you are going to get.

 
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July 19, 2008, 9:53 am PDT

oh yes, I dated a jerk like this

I found a notebook with names and dates and ratings and physical descriptions of each woman.  He'd gone on vacation and must have had them scheduled nearly to the hour to show up at his hotel room.  what a sicko.  He also scammed his friends for money, cars, etc.  A real charming piece of work.  Beware ladies, he's in Whittier, CA now.
 
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July 19, 2008, 6:14 pm PDT

MEN AND THEIR EGOS

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I just finished watching this show.  I surely was not impressed with John and didn't find him nice looking at all.  if I were single I wouldn't even give him a second look.  My opinion with Paul?  Perhaps he has a death wish? For a single guy to go on national t.v. and declare how many women he has slept with truely show's how imature he is. I wonder if he's been tested for all the various diseases he could have  and be spreading it with all the women he sleeps with.  I am happily married, and my husband is a 6'5" gorgeous Army Solider who serves his Country.  He is better looking than these 2 dingbats!  I side with the women who spoke up!  I just love watching Dr. Phil!!

JUST EMBARRASSED THAT I DATED A GUY JUST LIKE THAT AND HAD A CHILD BY HIM, 35 YEARS LATER, HE HAS DIVORCED HIS WIFE AFTER MULTIPLE AFFAIRS. HE STILL THINKS THAT HE IS THE SEXIEST MAN ALIVE AND BEDS ANYTHING AND EVERYTHING IN THE 250 AREA CODE OF CANADA. LADIES BEWARE OF THESE MEN, THEY WILL CHARM YOU, CON YOU AND WHEN YOU DO SEE THEIR REAL SIDE....RUN AND DON'T LOOK BACK. THIS MAN HAS CAUSED ME MORE GRIEF  THEN I CAN TELL YOU AND HAS TRIED TO RUIN MY MARRIAGE. I KNOW FIRST HAND WHAT A MAN LIKE THAT CAN DO. IF HE SOUNDS AND ACTS LIKE HE IS TO GOOD TO BE TRUE, TRUST ME AND YOUR GUT INSTINCT  HE PROBABLY IS ONE OF THESE MEN. THERE ARE A LOT OF GREAT GUYS OUT THERE, JUST WATCH THEIR PERSONALITY...IF HE TAKES MORE TIME TO GET READY THAN YOU AND ALWAYS TALKS ABOUT HIS LOOKS OR CLOTHES.....RUN....JUST RUN
 
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July 19, 2008, 7:27 pm PDT

Get a new platform - please

Everything on the tube is about sex - commercials, talk shows, sitcoms(sexcoms) - every object in the universe is called sexy ---- wouldn't you think the AIDS pandemic would jar people loose from using their privates instead of their brains?  Is there any way you could change your agenda and focus on something more interesting and less invasive and demeaning than bedroom behaviors?  Why not get back to some basic decency and moral responsibility instead of sensationalism and eroticism - Surely there must be people in your audience who would welcome some worthwhile information.  God help us all!!
 
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July 19, 2008, 9:38 pm PDT

There is a lot of sex on TV...............

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Everything on the tube is about sex - commercials, talk shows, sitcoms(sexcoms) - every object in the universe is called sexy ---- wouldn't you think the AIDS pandemic would jar people loose from using their privates instead of their brains?  Is there any way you could change your agenda and focus on something more interesting and less invasive and demeaning than bedroom behaviors?  Why not get back to some basic decency and moral responsibility instead of sensationalism and eroticism - Surely there must be people in your audience who would welcome some worthwhile information.  God help us all!!

Sex, sex, sex, yes, it is everywhere! But, it's not like Dr. Phil is like Jerry Springer and making a sideshow out of it. I look at it as more of a warning. It is also very educational, the shows on teen sex, when parents have no idea what their children know and are up to nowadays. I do think there needs to be a show on the use of date rape drugs. There are so many young women who go to the clubs, and they have no idea how dangerous that can be. All they have to do is take their eyes off of their drink for just a second for this to happen to them. So I have no problem with this, people do need to learn a lot about what is going on out there. Maybe you are just against it because you are no longer getting any! And BTW, every subject is certainly not about sex! He does diversify his shows, maybe you just weren't paying attention at the time.

 

P.S. If you are too much of a prude to watch the show, then watch something else. No one is forcing you!

 
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July 20, 2008, 8:37 am PDT

only believe 10% of what you hear 80% of behaviour

locker room bragging

stag pparty show offs

bar stool ego inflators

                                   T H I N K    T H I N K  T H I N K

where are you getting    Y O U R  life  lessons

 
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July 21, 2008, 9:06 am PDT

Are they realy women

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To Paul and all others like him: 
Women are not property.  What you feel when some one hurts you, is the same hurt she feels.  Hearts are not toys.  Someday, if you live long enough and before you meet our Lord, someone will break your heart.

Remember you have been warned.  Women are not toys, either.   If that is how you feel, please leave and go someplace where you apathetic ego is the norm.  Where?  Maybe no such place exists.  Become a Muslim in one of those countries.  Then when you die you get 72 virgins, in Burkas.
Women in Burkas are like a box of chocolates....You never know what you are going to get.

I can not resist this one!!! When was the clarification of whether the 72 virgins was man or women!!!! Or is it just an assumption that they will all be women!!! They have been trying to prove this theory, but unfortunately there has been no clarification. So it could be the MEN in Burkas are like a box of chocolates.

 
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July 22, 2008, 6:34 am PDT

07/22 Male Egos Out of Control

Six years ago I was on match.com and I'm pretty sure I deleted this guy's e-mail -if not, it was someone just like him. On one hand I want to thank him. Men like this make dating on match.com easy as it's nearly effortless to sort through the "undesirables" and find real people to meet. On the other hand, I pitty him. I was lucky enough to meet my now husband on match.com. If this gentleman only understood the values and rewards of a truly meaningful relationship, he'd retire the suspenders and leave the ego at the door understanding that it's just a waste. He needs to stop dating himself, start liking himself (because clearly he doesn't) and maybe then he'll be open for dating and whatever may follow. What is he so scared of and why does he continue to sabotage his own life?
 
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