Topic : 07/22 Male Egos Out of Control

I think this man from Atlanta is playing teenagers games, teenagers are the ones that have ego issues because they havnt matured yet. I think he is so insecure with his own looks that uses this ego thing to avoid his insecurities. And I must say he is not an attractive man whatsoever.

I find it disturbing that these men think they are god's gift to women. In a world where most people want a good and healthy relationship-woman find these two. John certainly looks over 40, and he has no right to tell someone they need to go to the gym. He had several imperfections-maybe he is looking in a magic mirror. If he dreams it-it will come true?

Paul needs a reality check!! Talking about the way he sleeps with women just makes him look stupid. I'm sure his family, and his employer enjoyed watching him discuss how he sleeps with women.

I wonder how these men would feel if a woman treated them that way?

This is a real disturbing issues with these guys. John was just a narcissist. You can tell they both have no self esteem. John appears to be a kid that used to get picked on and is trying to get back at everyone that ever hurt him. He also is not even nice looking. I would have sent him an I'm not interested e-mail after his intro e-mail. He clearly does not know what women are looking for in women.

Paul just seems sad. He has the looks and the charm but is so alone. What women would want to say I married the man that slept with 132 different women?

I am recently married and always thought it was me that had the problem in the dating scene but there are a lot of screwed up men. It is amazing. I am so glad to be out of the dating circle.

The more someone speaks of his quest shows their insecurities. I cannot find anthing wrong with the guys explaining themselves. Anyone in their right mind would not take them seriously enough to get mad. Would I react like the women in the audience? The lady named Tricia showd the world how unhappy she is with herself. Or the young lady who bragged that she wasn't Paul's 132. She was on his trail and he was correct to think that she could have made his spread sheet. if she wasn't nterested she never would have contacted him again. Why get mad? After so many years of experience older women and men should know the game. If you are so naive to pick up on one of these types, then don't hate the player hate the game. Like will draw like. Some people will take what they can for any kind of attention. There are a lot of lonely souls out here. There are a lot of women in that audience that would be glad to have either one of those men. When the camera is on you, of course they all wouldn't have anything to do with them. Those fellows notoreity on the show will get them more attention than they could ever have in a lifetime.

Remember everyone does not have the same attraction or turn on like another.

I feel so sorry for John, defining himself by what he thinks he has done.  Being within 15 feet of the dread red phone does not qualify as having one's finger on the bomb.  Obsessed with what he seems to be only shows his lack of self-esteem.  Whatever his "achievements" are, his head and heart are devoid of anything but himself.  What a shallow existence.  I feel so sorry for John.

Ditto for Paul who just has no clue.  If he couldn't have sex, what could he do?  His conversation is limited by his lack of depth.  Though he thinks he is smart, he's opinionated instead.  Full of himself, there's no room for anyone else.  His head and heart are devoid of anything but himself.  What a shallow existence.  I feel so sorry for Paul.

I looked for a man who would not use me for self-gratification.  He showed me he cared by the commitments to me that he made and kept.  And I did the same.  Love and true intimacy grow from friendship and trustworthiness, not from "intimacy" that costs nothing.  True love will cost you everything.

Pity guys like these and move on to someone who has value for himself and the real you, not just the way you look when you're all dolled up.

Ok normally women look for that kind of guy for a fun time and they go to the a normal guy (whatever you consider that to be) for a responsible relationship.  Personally someone is hiding if they cant show there body for the truth and John is the worst i have ever seen so i am just guessing that this show will ruin his relationships or boost them greatly