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Topic : 07/22 Male Egos Out of Control

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Created on : Friday, May 02, 2008, 01:25:28 pm
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(Original Air Date: 05/07/08) Ladies, listen up as Dr. Phil sheds light on men to avoid! You know the type: They can turn you off with their confidence, offend you with their arrogance and make you wonder if they actually hate women. He’s talking to men with out-of-control egos! John was dubbed The Worst Person in the World after sending what many would describe as a nasty, egotistical e-mail to a woman who rejected him on an Internet dating site. John admits he has a big ego but says he’s "all that and a bag of chips!" Don’t miss what happens when cameras follow John to a bar where he works his magic on the women! Then, meet Paul, a self-proclaimed Casanova who says men need to act more like cavemen. Paul says he’s proud of the fact that he’s slept with over 132 women and keeps a spreadsheet of his conquests. He says he’s so good at getting women into bed that he’s written a How To manual for men. Paul’s techniques are put to the test when he secretly coaches an introvert in a crowded club. Plus, one woman whom Paul couldn’t add to his spreadsheet joins him onstage. Where does she say he went wrong? Talk about the show here.

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July 22, 2008, 3:29 pm PDT

What's so wrong with these guys?

I don't really know why every female on the show was so hard on these guys.  They were only being honest.  And telling us what works for them.  If you don't like that kind of guy then oh well.  There are thousands of women out there just like them.  The two men on the show were not rude or unpleasant.  They knew what they liked in themselves and others.  Don't we all know what we like and don't like about others.  Maybe a question that should have been asked was "is there anything about yourself that you don't like?"  That might have shed some light as to what kind of person they really are.  Not because they post what they think are strenghts or  because the enjoy meeting new people.  This issue with this kind of guy is "is he really happy?'  and "is his life style healthy".  Not how big their egos were.  More power to them! They have really accomplished a lot, they should be proud.  However, they should remember that PRIDE can be the most destructive character one can have.   My advice to them is to find the right balance between pride and humility. 
 
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July 22, 2008, 3:31 pm PDT

SOMETHING TO THINK ABOUT

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To Paul and all others like him:  

 

I really don't understand how you cannot fear the hand of  Our Lord God Almighty!?!   You may be having your fun here on earth but it is not going to be fun when you are burning continually in hell for the rest of eternity.

 

Yes Paul you may be very proud of the number of woman you slept with.  Soo proud you kept a list.  But Paul remember God Almighty is keeping a list too.   I suggest you bring it to confession with you immediately!!

 

May God bless you and have mercy on you Paul and all the others like you!!!

Is the only reason you are a good person and believe in God is because you fear that if you're not, you'll burn in hell for eternity?  I choose to be a good person not because of my fear of what God will do if I'm not.  I'm a good person because I enjoy being that way.  I don't need the fear of what will happen to me in the afterlife to motivate me to honest, kind, considerate, and respectful to others. 

I believe we were put on this planet to experience and appreciate being alive.  If there is an afterlife, I'll worry about that when I get there.  But I'm not going to spend time in this life hoping for a better life after this one is over. 




 
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July 22, 2008, 3:32 pm PDT

he's actually socially inept

Hahaa He's actually the opposite of the charming woman magnet that he thinks he is. At first he ight seem ok but after a minute he is just plain weird. That's why get the mumber and gets on because afte 5 minutes nonone will give him their number or they'll try and grab it back. He's good enough looking that at first also gets him some attention but after that he has zero persoonality. He doens't even realize what an iodiot he looks & sounds like. Funny show. . 
 

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July 22, 2008, 3:38 pm PDT

Ego mans BMW car

I am a car dealer and I noticed that his(Mr Richie Rich) BMW is over 10 years old. I have one like it and they stopped making that body(E36) 10 years ago. Nothing wrong with it, though. It just doesn't add up with all of the other stuff. Kind of like the age discrepancies the Dr.. busted him about. Funny.
 
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July 22, 2008, 3:40 pm PDT

for your show that aired on 7/22/08

Hello Dr. Phil I can't believe that man has actually slept with more then 132 women.  Both men are complete pigs and one of the reasons women would rather not date.  They are the reason we have given up on online dating.  I would rather read a good book, see a good movie, go out square dancing with my friends, or even play board games with my kids.  What I found ironic is the Harvard guy wasn't all that attractive and the other dude had no game.  So good luck guys by being so public you just ruined your game and I bet it is a long time before you have sex again. 
 
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July 22, 2008, 3:46 pm PDT

Dr phil - you have an obligation to report this possible FELON who admitted US PASSPORT FRAUD ON YOUR SHOW

Dr. Phil has the responsibility to report someone who admitted on National TV, original date 5/07/08, reaired 7/22/08, that HE (JOHN?) USED FALSE DOCUMENTS TO OBTAIN A USA PASSPORT.

YOUR GUEST (JOHN?) SAID HE IS 35 AND NOT 41 THAT HIS PASSPORT SHOWS, BECAUSE HE USED OLD DOCUMENTS THAT HE USED TO OBTAIN UNDERAGE ID CARD when he was younger.

 

That means that your guest is admitting to FALSIFYING DOCUMENTS TO OBTAIN A USA PASSPORT.

 

Did you report this to the authorities as this needs to be investigated to protect others from those who falsify US PASSPORTS, OR ADMIT TO THIS FRAUD BEFORE THEY ARE CAUGHT?

 

 

 

 

 
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July 22, 2008, 3:50 pm PDT

Simma down now.....

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To Paul and all others like him:  

 

I really don't understand how you cannot fear the hand of  Our Lord God Almighty!?!   You may be having your fun here on earth but it is not going to be fun when you are burning continually in hell for the rest of eternity.

 

Yes Paul you may be very proud of the number of woman you slept with.  Soo proud you kept a list.  But Paul remember God Almighty is keeping a list too.   I suggest you bring it to confession with you immediately!!

 

May God bless you and have mercy on you Paul and all the others like you!!!

Alright, settle down, it's Tuesday afternoon, not Sunday morning.  JK!  I agree that what these @ss hats are doing is wrong!!!!  People like that MAKE ME SICK when I think about all the young inexperienced girls who might not know how to mentally defend themselves against people like them.  MOMMAS TEACH YOUR BABY GIRLS PLEASE!! DADDYS PLEASE DO THE SAME!!! 

 

But, here's my point, have any of ya'll ever actually known guys that are like that in real life?  I feel sorry for them.  I really do.  They are the smallest, saddest, most insecure, most-in-need-of-some-serious-Dr. Phil people on the planet. Guys like that are dysfunction looking for a place to happen and the best the best thing you can do is to run far far away until they get some serious help because they are not worth one second of your time or one ounce of your peace!! 

 

As for God, Heaven, Hell and Confession.............  I firmly believe, whether in this life or the next, somewhere between Jesus, the Karma fairy, and the court of public opinion that everything you do comes back to you and always you reap what you sow. These guys, if they don't change, could end up with trophy wives who take all their money and leave them flat with nothing; maybe they'll get Hep C or HIV.  Maybe they will exchange their lonely bitter insecure young men status for lonely bitter insecure old men status, perhaps all of the above.  Regardless, if they don't change it won't be pretty, Heaven help the women in their path.  And honestly, Heaven help these guys also; they need it.

 

Haha!!  They are so notorious now, they will have to move to Antarctica to get a date :)

 
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July 22, 2008, 3:52 pm PDT

Male Egos - they all have one!

Not only do I think Paul is smokin’ hot, I give him props for being honest with what he wants, shame on the 132 girls (less 3 hookers) for going along with it. Everyone’s wants out of life are not the same and cannot be wrapped up all pretty in a little box. Paul’s goal is to get laid, something that probably makes him feel better inside. He’s not lying to these women (like a lot of men do).

Paul is not much different from women who are on a hunt for a rich man, in my opinion. We all have our own agendas.

Paul is simply thinking with his penis, as most men do, although most men don’t have the balls to admit it.

We’ve all met jerks in a bar, all looking for one thing and will never call again, Paul is just being vocal and very well organized.

 

John on the other hand, phew. He is pretty pathetic. I would run for the hills if I met his pompous, arrogant ass too. Someone who walks around telling people they do this, live here, drive this, blah, blah, blah are certainly lacking in other departments. For the record, making $100,000 in Atlanta and driving a ’96 BMW, convertible or not, doesn’t make him a hot commodity. I could say I feel bad for John, but he is bringing this all on himself. I feel sorry for the sucker who is wooed by him. Is he honestly trying to say that he obtained his passport with a fake ID?

 

Paul does not need a wing man!! John will only bring him down!  

 

 
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July 22, 2008, 3:55 pm PDT

Men like this

I am always shocked at how much women will put up with.  Please don't get to the point where you think all men are like this, and you just have to put up with it.  Be careful because men like this are very deceptive.  I've known guys like this and it actually makes it easier for them to pick up women, just because they don't really care about the women they are aproaching.  If a man is thinking about true love and hopes that he will not be rejected then talking to the woman could be a little intimidating.  If the man thinks less of the woman than a piece of meat, then it makes it easy to approach them.  These guys want to propel the idea that they just pick up so many women because they are so attractive.  The truth is that they just pick up more women because they hit on so many.  The other truth about this type of man is that they create huge amounts of damage to other peoples lives, and to their own.  I've known guys like this and they will absolutely say anything to get a women into bed, they will put on any kind of act, or say they love them or absolutely whatever it takes.  It's really sad when you see him talk about the woman who thinks she is loved behind her back like she is a piece of meat.  Just be very careful for your own protection, and please don't think that all men are like this.  I say that because I've met women who are convinced all men are like this and they read things into what I say or do when all I wanted to do is get to know them.  Seriously, there is a percentage of men who just want to fall in love.  How big of a percentage?  I have no idea.

 

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July 22, 2008, 4:01 pm PDT

Wow! An Author!

Woohoooo!!! Paul, I want you, man! Anyone who can write a 17 page book is quite a find! :)
 
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