Topic : 05/09 Mama Drama

 YOU ARE SO RIGHT ON THAT MAN.

    HE IS A BOY IN EVERY WAY

  YOU KNOW WHAT DR PHIL HE WAS NOT SORRY FOR CALLING HIS WIFE NAMES!!

     IF HE WAS SORRY HE WOULD NOT OF DONE IT IN THE FIRST PLACE NOW WOULD HE.

 HE WONT STOP AND I DO HOPE THAT SHE GET HER SELF IN A BETTER PLACE IN HER LIFE.

The reality is that this young woman will eventually lose the weight but NEVER forget all the mean things her husband has said to her. She will always feel the hurt and pain of his words every time she looks at him and every time she looks in the mirror.

Also, this man is abusing his children by speaking of their mother so horribly. If they are girls, they'll be so self-contious about their bodies & weight. And if they don't look perfect, they'll think their father doesn't love them or like them. If they are boys, they'll grow up to have lousy marriages because they'll treat their own wives the lousy way they saw their father treat their mother. This man has NO RIGHT to do this to his kids!

I have been happily married almost 19 years to a rugged, handsome, sweet, bright, successful, federal officer. He's a SUPER husband/friend/lover and a great father to our two kids. I gained 100 lbs since we met and he has NEVER EVER said one mean thing about me. He still calls me beautiful, tells me he loves me and WANTS sex as often as ever. In 3 months, I have lost 35 lbs while on a medical diet. I feel great and he's supportive because he wants me HEALTHY. He woud love me fat or skinny, it makes no matter. THAT is what real love is all about. Real love doesn't hurt. It's not mean or cruel.

Hopefully the young woman's husband will GROW UP, become a REAL husband, learn how to LOVE and be SUPPORTIVE and also do right by his children before it's too late. I wish them well. There are too many divorces in this country, too many broken homes and God has been very sad...

  DR PHIL THIS WOMAN GRACE NEEDS SOME HELP.I HAD A GRANDMOTHER WAS LIKE GRACE AS

SHE THOUGHT SHE WAS BETTER THAN ANY ONE. AND MY MOTHER AND MYSELF WAS NOT AS GOOD AS HER AND GUESS WHAT GRACE IS THIS KIND OF WOMAN WHY WOULD YOU DO THIS TO YOUR OWN CHILDREN WHY.

LET YOUR KIDS BE HAPPY. AND DON'T TRY TO RUN THEIR LIVES. THAT IS WHY WE ARE MOTHERS AND FATHERS AND WE ARE THE ONES THAT HAVE CHILDREN TO LET THEM MAKE A LIFE FOR THEM SELF'S.

SO GRACE GET OVER YOURSELF!! AND GET A LIFE.

I don't think he was blaming the husband for her gaining weight.  He was blaming the husband for making her miserable.

Dr. Phil even asked her point-blank, "Do you really want to lose this weight?"

She said that she did.  She said that being overweight was making her unhappy.  But, more than that, making her unhappy was her cruel husband comparing her to a sow and stuff. 

What was all of this with Jessica's husband going out of his way to tell us that he came from a cultured, wealthy background?

It has been my experience that if someone is a child of privilege and they have to make a point of TELLING you that ~ well, then, all of that fancy rearing didn't help em very much!