Topic : 05/09 Mama Drama

Low self esteem is whats holding you back, and with a hubby like that, it's no wonder, First thing i would do is cut 150 pounds of  injections of low self esteem, throw it out the door with the other weekly trash, and start to grow the backbone for yourself and your kids, he injects them with his small minded stupidity, and his lack of  respect for you. Don't allow him to make a new generation of  men that show such small minded stupidity to women that love them. your not responsible for his stupidity but you will be part of theirs, if you let this continue.

when you do lose the weight, and you have even alittle self pride growing in you, then you won't want him any more, and if you do god help you, you will be worrying about your weight forever, and the worry won't come from you, thiking about health issues it will be worrying about what he is going to say about it, and you will be back in the same place. Find a real man, they are out there. but first get yourself together with some pride, so you can see the good guys and stop finding the bad guys.....

Again, I think it's a fact, but that's okay we don't have to agree on it.

First off let me tell you a little bit about my background. I am a 37 year old mother of two beautiful children.

I lost my husband in November of 2006 when he flipped a cement mixer he was driving. My husband died the day before our son turned 2 months old.

Both of my children have health problems. My 3 year old daughter has Epilepsy. Scary experience when she goes into seizures. My 20 month old son has Multi-Cystic Kidney Disease, and has already had one of his kidneys removed.

In spite of all the trials I have been through in the last year and a half I continue to love and raise my children. They are a blessing to my given to my by God. He chose me to raise these two beautiful children on my own for a reason. I am not sure what that reason is but I do not resent my children for that.

I have went back to school to get a degree so that I can find a well paying job that has good insurance benefits. I do not want to have to depend on Medicaid for their medical care. Working at a job that pays anywhere from $7.00-9.00 doesn't make it because one of my daughter's medications is over $7,000.00 for 15 doses.

Despite those hardships mentioned above I survive and provide for my children the best that I can. My children are a blessing to me. I love them without condition and they love me. I know there will be more tough times ahead as they grow older, but with the help from God and my love they will live to lead productive lives and raise happy healthy families of their own.

To all the mothers out there I wish them a very happy Mother's Day.

Melissa

Yah, I agree Jessica's husband is the pig.  Donuts to dollars he was one of those 'pretty boys' in high school who lots of girls worshipped, but the girls with any sense saw through his facade.

I do have to wonder, though, if he didn't pick on her before they even got married.  A bullying, self centered ***** is going to be a jerk about a lot of things.  I agree with Dr. Phil...Jessica needs to grow a backbone and stop allowing this kind of behavior from him.

If he had any shame and compassion, he wouldn't be doing this to her.  It gives me the willies to even think even touching someone like him.

I find it disgusting that her husband treats Jessica the way he is for being fat. Calling her names is definitely not making her feel good and she may eat because of it.  She is his   wife and the mother of his children. Have some respect, hombre!

I hope he changes his ways, otherwise she would be better  off without him. It looks as if he wants a sex object not a life companion. She must make an effort to lose weight though for her own good health.

Dr Phil can help.

Wishing you all the best Jessica.

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