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Topic : 05/14 "I'm Hot, You're Not"

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Created on : Friday, May 09, 2008, 03:56:01 pm
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Dr. Phil speaks with some opinionated guests who say they’re not judgmental; they just think they’re hot – and you’re not! Shenek says she doesn’t like ugly people, refuses to have unattractive friends, and will literally run away if an unappealing guy approaches her. She says ugly people are jealous and out to sabotage her. Her friend, Chad, says Shenek is beautiful, but her attitude makes her ugly. Don’t miss the surprise Dr. Phil has in store for Shenek! Then, meet a former beauty queen who says she’s repulsed by obese people and will go out of her way to avoid them. Michelle says when she sees a fat person eat, she becomes physically sick. What happens when Dr. Phil introduces her to Janine, a 343-pound woman who’s proud of her figure and tired of being looked down on? Next, meet two men who say they were banned from an all-you-can-eat restaurant because they were too fat! And, a mother is at odds with her three daughters who she says are becoming obsessed with their appearance. Is it just a phase?  Tell us what you think!

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May 14, 2008, 12:30 pm PDT

How crazy...

This woman is unreal... anyone that has a attitude like that is ugly on the inside as well on the outside.

  As for Michelle she needs a reality check.  Anyone that has the nerve to pick on someone that is different from yourself needs to be smacked... The United States is the most obese country in the world, I think she needs to move!

 

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May 14, 2008, 12:32 pm PDT

05/14 "I'm Hot, You're Not"

I am thoroughly disgusted with the men on the show today.

Where is the effort?

Where is the romance/chilavry?

Where is the maturity?

Where is the respect?

I question whether or not these men actually LIKE women...

 
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surprised
May 14, 2008, 12:34 pm PDT

Law of Attraction

I thought it very interesting that Shanique said she attracts ugly people like flies.  I wonder if she ever heard of the Law of Attraction!
 
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May 14, 2008, 12:35 pm PDT

05/14 "I'm Hot, You're Not"

It is always said that beauty is skin deep, these ladies prove that.  I am overweight and although I don't think I am ugly, I am not a beauty either.  I do believe that you have to like that person who looks back at you in the mirror and with hate or prejudice in your heart, I can't understand how you could truly like yourself.  I also believe that when it is all said and done, your body will be bones and dust, no fat on it what so ever, no matter what size you are when you are alive.  Your soul (personality comes through your soul) will live on forever and you choose, by your behavior and the way you treat others, if you will live forever in the Kingdom or in Hell. 

 

I use to weigh 115 and I can tell you that now I am much more then that.  I will also tell you that with age, my self confidence and self respect has grown with each experience I have been through.  I do not have to fake my self confidence by cutting down others.

 
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May 14, 2008, 12:37 pm PDT

05/14 "I'm Hot, You're Not"

As I watch this show I am appalled by "blondie" who is disgusted by FAT people. I am a FAT person but I am more humane than she is. I could say I'm appalled by bottle-blondes! So, we're even! Why would anyone want to bleach their hair blonde? Do they like being the butt of blonde jokes? You aren't perfect and never will be. I have fat, skinny, blonde, redhead and black (haired and skinned) friends and there isn't any one of them who is any better than the rest. You make yourself into what you are and become. God didn't make junk - YOU made yourself junk! Get over yourself WOMAN!

 
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May 14, 2008, 12:39 pm PDT

I am laughing so hard right now




 Shenek, I have to admit that to some degree I do feel bad for you for a number of reasons.

1) You appear to be about as deep as a mud puddle. Do you really think a shallow, narcissistic attitude makes you beautiful? It doesnt. In fact it makes you quite ugly.

2) I have had relationships with some extremely gorgeous women, shallow as they may have ended up being, and quite frankly in my humble opinion you look like about a "6" out of "10" WITH makeup on. Wonder what you look like when you wake up.

3) You will attract EXACTLY what you deserve living your life this way... those who are just as shallow as you. Have some real fun with that.

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4) Anyone with a brain in their head knows that a person who is as judgmental and superficial as you are has HUGE insecurity issues deep down inside. If anything, you should be talking to Dr. Phil about that instead of how hot you think you are.
 
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May 14, 2008, 12:40 pm PDT

05/14 "I'm Hot, You're Not"

I wonder how Shenek  would  feel if her father, mother, brother, sister, or good friend were disfigured in an accident?  Would she pretend like she didn't know them?  Or what if something happened to change her looks?  She really needs to go deeper in her relationships with people.  If she is this shallow, all she will attract is shallow people and will not ever have a deep, meaningful relationship.  Maybe she should take some time for a little self reflection to she what is ugly in her to make her act this way to others and then she could take some actions to change herself.

 

 
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May 14, 2008, 12:42 pm PDT

I think I'm going to be SICK!!!

Sitting here watching Shenek and honestly, I thought I was going to be SICK!!! First of all, she's not even THAT attractive, I've certainly seen more beautiful women, that's for sure, and they're certainly more beautiful on the inside than she is. I have a problem with Shenek because of her judgemental, self-righteous attitide, especially when she RANTS on and on about OMG she cannot bear to be TOUCHED by an UGLY person!!! Are you KIDDING ME????  I would be really curious about the type of background that she comes from, large household, single parent, POOR, what's her education level, and things like that.  Personally, from watching her and the way she behaves, I'd say she comes from a poor family, with a single parent, she has very little education (no college) and probably grew up in poverty.  Gosh, I hope I'm not being too judgemental of the poor thing!!

 

 

 
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May 14, 2008, 12:43 pm PDT

SHALLOWNESS IS NOT A VIRTUE

Just when you think  you've heard it all, someone manages to drain a little more from the puddle. How shallow can a person get. Bulletin: you ain't that hot, girl ! Why so critical and judgemental with no room to talk. No one is perfect as there is no such thing as perfect. Our individual imperfections are what make us unique. Same goes for the obeseaphobe. Narrow- mindedness and shallowness are not  virtues, people. Improve your own mind and learn to grow as a person before you dare demean any other person, unless you lack the capacity for such growth, in which case your own insecurities will overtake your life, as evidenced by your prejudices, disgust, and hate for your fellow human beings.
 
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May 14, 2008, 12:48 pm PDT

WOW!


Holy Mother of Pearl!

What is wrong with these people?


 
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