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Topic : 07/09 Newlywed Bank Robbers

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Created on : Thursday, July 03, 2008, 01:02:19 pm
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They’ve been called the modern day Bonnie and Clyde. Twenty-six-year-old Josh Rich and his young bride, Kylee, became wrapped up in a story that read like a Hollywood screenplay. As newlyweds, the pair allegedly committed three armed bank robberies, using the money from one heist to pay for their honeymoon. Dr. Phil tells the tale of these two star-crossed lovers, from their first encounter through their action-filled arrests, and sits face to face with Kylee as she lays out her version of events. Is she a hardened criminal who deserves to be behind bars, or a naïve little girl whose husband greatly took advantage of her? Then Dr. Phil has some hard questions for Kylee’s parents. How did she go from A student to armed robbery, and what was their role? Plus, Kylee stands face to face with her parents with an emotional plea you won’t want to miss! Next, Josh’s family weighs in. His brothers and sisters describe the Josh they know and how his encounters with the law have affected them. Could Kylee have played a larger role in the robberies than she claims? Facing up to 20 years in prison, Kylee finally faces a judge for sentencing. Will the scales of justice tip in her favor? Share your thoughts, join the discussion.

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July 9, 2008, 5:10 pm PDT

Story sent a chill thru me.

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I haven't even seen this show and I already know how it goes, town bad guy seduces the young innocent girl and talks her into a a few shortcuts in life.

 

Currently I work at a  drug rehab and I see this situation over and over the females in on our center hook up with the street thugs or bad boys as they see them and boom, they both leave the center and are out in the town breaking into homes and selling drugs.

 

I have no pity for female in this story, she knew what she was doing and should pay and then she will learn it was wrong.

 

 

 I know a couple who are just like the couple in this story.  Short of robbing a bank and being married if I didn't know better I would have sworn when I first turned on the Dr. Phil Show today that they were talking about the couple I know.  Currently because of recent drug use he is in a halfway house going through drug rehab and she is living in a homeless shelter trying to get her life back in order.  I want to believe that they both mean what they say but I am afraid that the challenges they face will lead them to be exactly like the couple in this story.  Are young people who are trying to correct their bad choices in life and erase the things they have been taught and raised doing, able to face the challenges ahead of them today?  All I hear is don't enable them, then how do we help?  As they told in the story at one time these were both two good people who made horrible choices.
 

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July 9, 2008, 5:14 pm PDT

Newlywed Bank Robbers

By no means do I agree that Kylee's 15 month prison/probation sentence  is appropriate.

 

However, a MAJOR reason for the disparity between her sentence and Josh's is that he had a previous record and had already served prison time, whereas it was a first offense for her.  That definitely factors into determining the length of the sentence as well as how and where it is served, be it prison, probation, or what have you. 

 
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July 9, 2008, 5:17 pm PDT

Judge Judy....

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if Judge Judy would have been as easily conned by that little sociopath?
And to watch her parents continue to baby her is absolutely nauseating.
You know Judge Judy would've looked at the reports, sneered, and said, "This report is worthless!   A woman SHOULD be depressed!  She's got an Armed Robbery conviction hanging over her head!  And thank God she has self-esteem issues!  I'd hate to think she feels good about herself for the choices she's made!"     
 
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July 9, 2008, 5:20 pm PDT

hmm....

Greetings all!

 

I use to be a religious Dr. Phil watcher but since I have gone back to work I haven't had the opportunity to catch the latest episodes....

 

I watched the episode today..  My heart DROPPED because this situation has haunted our family as well.  My sister was convicted on a state level for home invasion/robbery with a gun (which in Washington state is called a weapons enhancement charge.)  She received 8 years and her co-defendant received 13 years as he was the one who claimed bodily harm on the victim.  My heart truly goes out to all the parties in this situation especially the victims as they probably will never feel secure in many situations of theirs lives again. 

 

I remember the sentencing aspect.. which of course is the worst part and when they said 8 1/2 years the emotions over flowed, even the victims had shed a tear or two...  My sister plead out as she knew she was guilty and had taken responsibility for her actions in the crime.  I honestly hope the young lady in this story can gain all the positive opportunities prison does have to offer. 

 

I go down to the local correctional facility almost religiously twice a month sometimes every weekend to support and love my sister through her absence of the outside world people inside prisons do need support.  I hope that the young lady in this story is also getting chemical dependency treatment as drug addiction is a life long journey. 

 

As for the boyfriend... I too agree with many of you.  I doubt he held her down and said "YOU HAVE TO DO IT OR DIE."  I think the time he did receive was a total bust.  I think less time could and possibly would have rehabilitated him just as well; 57 years is along time. Attorneys like the 'poor innocent girl' and it works well in their favor.  Seeing as she only got 15 months... I'm a little peeved about that honestly.  I think she needs a little longer then that to grasp her head around  what she has done and who it has honestly affected.

 

Thanks for letting me Share have a good rest of the day!!!

 

Lacey

 

 

 
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July 9, 2008, 5:29 pm PDT

07/09 Newlywed Bank Robbers

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 I know a couple who are just like the couple in this story.  Short of robbing a bank and being married if I didn't know better I would have sworn when I first turned on the Dr. Phil Show today that they were talking about the couple I know.  Currently because of recent drug use he is in a halfway house going through drug rehab and she is living in a homeless shelter trying to get her life back in order.  I want to believe that they both mean what they say but I am afraid that the challenges they face will lead them to be exactly like the couple in this story.  Are young people who are trying to correct their bad choices in life and erase the things they have been taught and raised doing, able to face the challenges ahead of them today?  All I hear is don't enable them, then how do we help?  As they told in the story at one time these were both two good people who made horrible choices.
There's a lot of difference between supporting someone's sobriety and enabling their drug usage.   They can make it, but you can't do it for them.   Often there are a lot of issues in people's lives that lie beneath their drug usage.   A sober someone to talk to, who they can rely on as a positive resource as they find their way to sobriety, can make all the difference.   Sometimes people need someone to remind them of the good that still exists in themselves. 
 
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July 9, 2008, 5:53 pm PDT

consequences

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wow.. how can EVERYONE on here be so narrow minded?  people make mistakes..thats life.  there's not a single one of ya'll that can seriously say that you haven't done something regrettable..how would ya'll like to have your life thrown away over that mistake?  its kinda pathetic how this girl is obviously sorry and regretting what she did..and ya'll still want to tear her down..and want her life  to be thrown away out of pure ignorance to what really happened..its kinda dissapointing how judgemental this country has become..

You are right people do make mistakes and I believe in the power of redemption, however I also believe their are consequences for your actions.

 

Do you think if she would of gotten away with this bank robbery she would be sorry? Or do you think she would of shot the proceeds up her arm without a second thought? For her sake I'm glad she got caught. Maybe it did open her eyes. She still needs to pay for her crime. I don't think that's being judgmental I just think that's common sense.

 

BTW I think a mistake is something you do accidentally, she made a conscience choice to do wrong. 

 
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July 9, 2008, 6:05 pm PDT

death

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Greetings all!

 

I use to be a religious Dr. Phil watcher but since I have gone back to work I haven't had the opportunity to catch the latest episodes....

 

I watched the episode today..  My heart DROPPED because this situation has haunted our family as well.  My sister was convicted on a state level for home invasion/robbery with a gun (which in Washington state is called a weapons enhancement charge.)  She received 8 years and her co-defendant received 13 years as he was the one who claimed bodily harm on the victim.  My heart truly goes out to all the parties in this situation especially the victims as they probably will never feel secure in many situations of theirs lives again. 

 

I remember the sentencing aspect.. which of course is the worst part and when they said 8 1/2 years the emotions over flowed, even the victims had shed a tear or two...  My sister plead out as she knew she was guilty and had taken responsibility for her actions in the crime.  I honestly hope the young lady in this story can gain all the positive opportunities prison does have to offer. 

 

I go down to the local correctional facility almost religiously twice a month sometimes every weekend to support and love my sister through her absence of the outside world people inside prisons do need support.  I hope that the young lady in this story is also getting chemical dependency treatment as drug addiction is a life long journey. 

 

As for the boyfriend... I too agree with many of you.  I doubt he held her down and said "YOU HAVE TO DO IT OR DIE."  I think the time he did receive was a total bust.  I think less time could and possibly would have rehabilitated him just as well; 57 years is along time. Attorneys like the 'poor innocent girl' and it works well in their favor.  Seeing as she only got 15 months... I'm a little peeved about that honestly.  I think she needs a little longer then that to grasp her head around  what she has done and who it has honestly affected.

 

Thanks for letting me Share have a good rest of the day!!!

 

Lacey

 

 

If that was my house your sister would have gotten the death penalty
 
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July 9, 2008, 6:50 pm PDT

Sympathy for the parents

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Greetings all!

 

I use to be a religious Dr. Phil watcher but since I have gone back to work I haven't had the opportunity to catch the latest episodes....

 

I watched the episode today..  My heart DROPPED because this situation has haunted our family as well.  My sister was convicted on a state level for home invasion/robbery with a gun (which in Washington state is called a weapons enhancement charge.)  She received 8 years and her co-defendant received 13 years as he was the one who claimed bodily harm on the victim.  My heart truly goes out to all the parties in this situation especially the victims as they probably will never feel secure in many situations of theirs lives again. 

 

I remember the sentencing aspect.. which of course is the worst part and when they said 8 1/2 years the emotions over flowed, even the victims had shed a tear or two...  My sister plead out as she knew she was guilty and had taken responsibility for her actions in the crime.  I honestly hope the young lady in this story can gain all the positive opportunities prison does have to offer. 

 

I go down to the local correctional facility almost religiously twice a month sometimes every weekend to support and love my sister through her absence of the outside world people inside prisons do need support.  I hope that the young lady in this story is also getting chemical dependency treatment as drug addiction is a life long journey. 

 

As for the boyfriend... I too agree with many of you.  I doubt he held her down and said "YOU HAVE TO DO IT OR DIE."  I think the time he did receive was a total bust.  I think less time could and possibly would have rehabilitated him just as well; 57 years is along time. Attorneys like the 'poor innocent girl' and it works well in their favor.  Seeing as she only got 15 months... I'm a little peeved about that honestly.  I think she needs a little longer then that to grasp her head around  what she has done and who it has honestly affected.

 

Thanks for letting me Share have a good rest of the day!!!

 

Lacey

 

 

I am a parent of my only son going to prison 11years ago of a similar situation.  He was sentenced to 5 to 10 years at the age of 19.  He served only 2 1/2 years.  He went into a small grocery store/service station with an older man and robbed an elderly woman at gun point.  To this day I still cannot believe my son did this.  But he did.  And we too were not aware anything was going on.  He was ditching computer school, then once he left school, he wouldn't keep a job.  We went to many services looking and begging for help for our son's behavior, but we were over and over turned down for help!  We were told he was over 18 and we had NO RIGHT to do anything.  He was an adult.  My son was diagnosed with ADD in 3rd grade.  He had few friends and was very niave also.  He fell in love with a 14 year old. And that is when the trouble began.  We too stood by our son's side through it all.  It was the hardest thing for me to leave him at the prison for our first visit.  Prison changed who my son was.  To this very day, it has been a difficult journey for our son. He can't find a job to support his family.  And when he does find one, he has trouble keeping one.  Until you go through something like this with your child, you can not understand what it does to the family.   Let alone that your child is in prison with murderers, rapists, child molesters, and worse.  My son deserved to be punished for his bad choices, but these parents won't sleep at night.  I didn't.  My son won't talk about what went on in prison.  All I know is that he will never be the same!  Don't condemm the parents, Dr. Phil and society!!  We do the best we can. Social Services let us down when we did try to get help!!!  My best go out to her parents.  And my prayers will be with them too!!   What these kids do is very wrong.  They do deserve to be punished.  But prison I feel is not always the answer.   Just a parent!!!!!!

 
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July 9, 2008, 7:13 pm PDT

Death huh?

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If that was my house your sister would have gotten the death penalty

I respect your opinion.

No one died in her situation;  She wasn't the one who harmed anyone physically but did emotionally cause hardship.  I feel as though going to prison and making the best in furthering her education and helping others while shes away does make difference to those who she has harmed...  My opinion

 
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July 9, 2008, 7:18 pm PDT

She isn't the one who is the loser

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I have been a fan since the begining.  I've defended you to liberals for years.  After today I have to rethink that.  How could you "possibly" get HELP for that loser and her loser parents?  The parents failed miserably in raising their daughter and now because she's trying to stay out of jail - she "pretends" to be stupid?? Easy thing to do and fool all the "Dr.'s" along the way.  Nice that you assisted in getting her a lighter sentence.  She should be rotting in jail with her boyfriend.  Help those who deserve it --- lots of kids have bigger problems than her and have had much less in their lives and they CHOOSE to be productive citizens.  It's such a huge joke.
No one EVER said they didn't discipline their child!  They just didn't discipline her the way they needed to.  All parents make a couple mistakes.  How were they supposed to know a simple rebelious teen was gonna turn into a bank robber?!  They do a marvelous job at raising kids so don't you say anything else about my family!!!  They have three other kids that turned out GREAT, including me, so don't you DARE call my sister a loser!!  Just because someone does something as "horrifying" as robbing a bank doesn't make them a horrible person, it just means they made extremely poor choices.  Murderers and rapists get much lighter sentences in many cases.  Who would you rather have out roaming the streets:  a girl who got caught in a bad situation and robbed a bank, or a murderer?  You're the one who is wasting your day dissing on other people that have nothing to do with you.  At least Kylee is doing something productive with her life now!
 
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