Topic : 09/03 More Nasty Neighbors

     Hi Jewels

         You said it best..........

My name is Stephanie and I was extremely bothered by the result of the show "More Nasy Neighbors" . I have personally had conflict with Tamara and I am 100% positive that she is a pathological liar.

I was selling my mobile home to her back in 2003-2004 and had nothing but trouble with her from the start.

There were some things that needed to be done with the home so I was only asking $2500. The utilities had been shut off for a little while and my fiance and I told her that if she would like to go ahead and get them turned back on in her name then she could let us know and my fiance (working in the mobile home service and repair field) said that he could do the work on the home that needed to be done. The work could not be done until the power was turned back on because it would thaw the pipes and burst them.

We tried to reach her to find out if she got the power turned back on yet because we had not heard anything from her and she proceeded to say that she tried multiple times to try to reach us (not true because my cell phone was always on) and that she got the power turned back on and turned the water supply back on as well which, of course, resulted in the pipes bursting and the bathroom flooding.

She stated that we had to pay for the damages caused which consisted of the toilet (due to cracking) the floor (because of it getting warped due to flooding) and the tub. So she was saying that she would only pay us $700 of the price that we asked for because of everything that went wrong.

When we refused to accept that amount because it was a problem that she caused, she proceeded to hang up on me and my fiance and told my Aunt and Uncle that we called her the c-word (why would we do that when handling a business transaction? We are not those type of people) which then caused an upset between us for a while.

I was a 21 year old trying to sell my mobile home and all she did was make it the worst experience ever. We offered to help with the work (for free) and sell it to her for ONLY $2500, I paid $10,000 for it. I just wanted to get rid of it and all she could do is try to milk as much off the price as possible.

Of course I refused to accept only that amount and by the end of it I did not recieve the full amount that I was asking for and my Uncle had to make up the difference just to solve the situation.

She is a compulsive liar that likes to bring drama to the people that surround her. She used to be friends with my Aunt and Uncle until she decided to steal from them. She is money hungry and just likes the attention (I think). Not to mention, I do know for a fact that she has hacked into my relatives computers and done things.

To Linda, I completely understand the problems that you have had with her and I feel too that you might have been a part of the nonsense in the beginning until you realized what a crazy person she could be. I am sorry that you were treated unfairly in this situation.

To anyone else that ever comes in contact with her, keep your wits about you. She's a problem child.

I know how you feel.  I bought a new condo this spring, and I was so happy, it was perfect!  Just 5 mos after I moved in, I got new neighbors upstairs -- a divorced woman  and her 2  young kids.  Ever since the day they started to move in, I've had no peace in my own home.  I can't blame them entirely, most of the problem is crummy soundproofing, but I can hear EVERYTHING up there, from heavy footsteps to loud voices, running around, doors slamming, TV, up and down the stairs, fighting, laundry, kitchen noises, etc....  I realize when you share walls you're going to hear stuff but their noise is constant and I'm so tired of it.  There was a family of 3 up there before them, and I had no problems with them, hardly even knew they were home, so I'm stunned at how much I hear.

Anyway, I finally got up the nerve to say something to the woman but she didn't get it.  She was irritated with me, didn't look at me, and she wasn't really listening.  Nothing's changed, it's just as bad as before.  So I just feel sick about this -- I put everything I had into my new home,so I can't afford to sell right away.  And who will buy it with all the noise from above, and in this market?  The worst part is feeling so helpless b/c I'm at their mercy.  Talking to her again will do no good as I think she just doesn't care about being a good neighbor.  It's all I can do not to pound on the ceiling and walls or scream at them, but I don't want to be that kind of neighbor.  I have resorted to wearing earplugs in my home when it gets really bad.  How ridiculous is that?  All I can hope for is that she decides the place is too small for the 3 of them, and she sells soon!  Just my luck, no kids in the whole complex -- the only 2 live above me with their loud, inconsiderate mother!

I pray every day that they move out!  And I've talked to the Pres of our homeowners association, but there's really nothing they can do to help me.  Honestly,  I can see how stuff like this can push reasonable people over the edge -- I think I'm pretty tolerant, but after 2 months of living with all of their noise, I feel like I'm going to have a break down.  People just don't understand unless they have to live under these conditions.

Anyway, good luck in your situation.  I feel your pain!

I just watch this show. I have to say that Linda and her daughter are the liars. They couldnt even admit to sending emails! And calling the cops 150+ times! COME ON!! It seems like they are the ones with nothing more to do than cause trouble. As Lindas daughter kept saying "My kids, My kids" I laughed. If she truly wants this to be over with then stop taking pictures, stop stalking them at home and school, and stop being childish! As Dr. Phil talked to Linda, guilt was written all over her face! She acted defensive, not innocent! Tamara may be a "Nasty Neighbor" but these ladies are enjoying fueling the fire!