Topic : 12/22 Parents Falsely Accused

I am sorry to all who have ever had to deal with Children's Protective Services.  I asked my mothers co worker to go check on my daughters daycare due to diaper rashes.  I told her that if she was home there were none but the minute she was back to daycare she had them.  So I was a concerned mother.  Then went there and left then went back with a warrent to remove my child from my care.  I was accussed of medical neglect!  For the diaper rash and not enforcing her to wear her hearing aids!  Remember, I asked them for help!  For 9 months, I did everything I was told I had to do.   During her stay in foster care, we experienced many problems.  She was in 8 homes in 9 months!  One of the homes took her to a new doctor cause she was ill and the dr told them that she had a liver disorder.  He sent her to Uof M and they did tests.  Finally a skin biopsy was done.  COme to find out that she has a rare genetic disorder taht diaper rashes are part of it and that her hearing would always be an issue.  There is no cure for this disorder and most children die by 19 years old.  The judge at the hearing to let her come home was the only person to appologized to me for having this happen and that they should have investigated this more.  I have nothing nice to say about the system or Protective Services!

LAST YEAR A MOTHER LEFT HER CHILD IN THE CAR AND IT CAUGHT ON FIRE AND THE CHILD DIED.  SHE WAS ARRESTED FOR MURDER.  AFTER MANY MONTHS OF PUBLIC HARRASSING, THE WOMAN WAS NOT FOUND GUILTY BY A COMPASSIONATE JUDGE.

HOWEVER A PARENT SHOULD ALWAYS CONSIDER ALL THINGS THAT CAN HAPPEN TO A CHILD LEFT ALONE.   KIDNAPPING IS NOT THE ONLY THING.

I feel that the way the country has changed since I was a kid is very sad. I think child abusers should be put in prison where they belong. Some things are completly taken out of context though. When I was a kid we didn't even call what we got a spanking we called it a whipping. We were not abused we respected our elders and I love my mom and dad very much.If another grownup punished us for doing something back then we didn't dare tell our folks or we would get another one. Nowdays kids have no respect for anyone because parents jump in the middle no matter what the kids have done. Kids nowdays are taught they can get away with anything including murder because someone is gonna come to their rescue..

We use to leave our doors unlocked but not anymore.When children have no fear of anything no matter what they do this is what we get . I would love for someone to show me how this way is better.

She could still see the car and could run back within 10 seconds. If anybody tried to break into that car to kidnap the kid they'd never make it before she got back. Can't just snatch her easily she's in a car seat. And I completely understand why she left the toddler in the car, it was easier and she was close enough. Parents who leave their kids in the car a long time, can't see the car, and it's too hot that's a problem. This woman didn't do anything wrong. What gets me is I live in Illinois too and I've known some people who are having real abuse done to them and the police don't take enough action. Like they've actually told the police they are being sexually abused and the police just went and talked to their parents told them it was wrong blah blah but they didn't get arressted or even put on probation. And one guy I know was getting beat and the police said they couldn't arrest his parents because they didn't have enough physical evidence and he also wasn't able to report it for 3 days. Said he had to have reported it that night.

So what gets me is the police go over the line and arrest a woman did something that wasn't all that bad. The kids have to watch their mom get arrested and they almost get taken away and could very well be placed in a foster home with real abuse or a real neglegent gaurdian. But the police don't always act on cases where there's real negligent or abuse. Stop over reacting on small cases and go out and arrest the parents who really truly did something wrong and do not deserve the kids.

I thought it was great when Dr Phil said something about the lady putting mail in the mailbox. I wonder myself what some people would do if a camera were to follow them around....