Quote From: renophilI am 40 years old. And while it is a little early to call her my Girlfriend, I have none the less been seeing a woman who celebrated her 25th birthday a couple weeks ago. I just wanted this on the table before I launch into what will prove to be a long posting.
I say pride and my head held high that I have been seeking out younger women to date and have relationships with. There are many reasons I and other Men my age or older look for young women 18 and older. And one of the reasons for dating young women that is rarely espoused is the LACK OF DRAMA in a young woman's life! When a woman is 21 her education and her shoes matching her outfit before a night of drinking and hot sex is what preoccupies her young mind. When a woman is 31 getting a sitter for her kid(s) dealing with her ex-husband and going to work top her lists of drama. The older a woman gets the more baggage she carries with her. Thus we 40+ Men prefer the younger women's idea of drama. It is easier to deal with and the problems do not become ours.
Another reason I prefer to date women half my age is their lack of children. Now god knows there are plenty of young women out there with a f_ck trophy in tow and I want nothing to do with them. However statistically speaking, the older woman gets, the more likely she is to have kids. I do not have kids, and I will never have kids. I had the big snip in 2002 so I would be assured of never having any rug rats. Thus not wanting my own kids, I sure as heck do not want to be involved with anyone else's! I do not want to have to deal with an ex-husband coming over to pick the brats up on Friday and dropping them off on Sunday and all of that emotional garbage! I want a young woman who is free and easy!
This leads me to my next reason for only dating women who regard the presidency of Ronald Reagan as ancient history, they have not been hurt so much or so often they become bitter. The older a woman gets the more she is dumped, or hurt, or abused, or whatever you chicks have to complain about Men. I enjoy the company of women who still have some of their innocence and naivety in tact. They may be cautious about Men, but by and large they are not BITTER about Men. A dozen roses can be used perfectly to illustrate this point. If you give a 20 year old woman a dozen roses she will see them, smell them and be grateful to receive a nice gift. If you give a dozen roses to a 40 year old woman, she will see them, smell them and wonder what in the hell the Man did that prompted him to give her roses. Now you are starting to understand.
Yet another reason I only date young women is physical appearance. I am sorry ladies but women are not like a fine wine only getting better with age. Women are in fact like milk. The older they get the more sour they become and eventually get chunky. Young women are better looking then older women. Their boobs are firmer, their legs are leaner, their hair is shinier, their skin is softer, I could go on and on . And why would I want to look at a 40 year old woman when I can look at, play with and enjoy a 20 year old body? I know this upsets many of you women but I don't care. I am only being honest when I tell you that nipples are supposed to point to the wall, not to the floor.
There are some who would say that older women have more experience then younger women, especially when it comes to intimate times. And this is very true. But younger women do not have bad habits to break. A young woman can be molded into a wonderful lover. Besides, a young hot body feels nice to the touch and inflates my ego, which goes a long way in giving me satisfaction.
Now before you old crows click on the response link to go and ask me why some young woman would want to date an old man like me, let me cut you all off at the pass and answer that question with one word... M O N E Y ! ! !
I will avoid giving you all a lesson in the anthropology of western civilization, but I will briefly tell you that western Males are attracted to women with reproductive abilities and can nurture off spring while western females are attracted to Males they perceive as being able to provide food and shelter for themselves and their off spring. To put it in more simplistic terms, Men are attracted to young hot bodies and women are attracted to money, power and fame. If you doubt this, ask yourself when the last time you saw a Man who made minimum wage being given the title of "Most Eligible Bachelor" I am not super rich, but I do make six figures and women are drawn to that in much the same way flies are attracted to a freshly dropped pile of manure. I do not spend a lot of money on women. But I do let them try to convince me to do so. ; ) I am not the best looking Man on the block I will admit. But women are not attracted to MY face. No they are attracted to the face of Benjamin Franklin! And the more portraits of him I have in my wallet the more attracted women are to me. (I am also very careful to NEVER let a woman know about my vasectomy. And I enjoy the ride as some of them trying to trap me into Fatherhood. But that is a topic for another thread)
Now I know in the grand scheme of things women are attracted to more then money. And why younger women are attracted to older Men is a very individualistic and personal thing. And I am quite content with my 25 year old would be girlfriend. And I assure you all, that I will date 40 year old women.... When I am 65!
hmm...you stated that women are not like fine wine..getting better with age. Instead, are you inferring that you are like fine wine getting better with age? If so, hate to tell ya that not all wines turn get better with age...they just might turn out to be "ripple" or "hooch", or even acetic acid (vinegar!)
Oh, and by the way, you also stated that nipples should point to the wall and not the floor. Well, the same thing can be said about, er, the male organ. Men get older too...it's the law of the universe.
(Original Air Date: 10/24/08) Ladies, what would you do if you had to return to the dating game in your 40s, 50s or even 60s? Dr. Phil’s guests point to a double standard between men and women. Men can date women young enough to be their daughters, while a middle-aged woman who dates younger men is sure to face criticism. Caroline is a 58-year-old grandmother who has been married three times and is still looking for her Prince Charming. She admits to traveling from Monaco to Amsterdam and throughout the States in search of love, often with younger men. Caroline says she even accepted a proposal from a man she met online -- a suitor she has never met in person! Her daughter, Anara, says the problem is not her mother’s age, but that her mom doesn’t act her age. Is Caroline just living life without limits, or is she her own worst enemy when it comes to meeting Mr. Right? Then, Dr. Phil talks to Patti Stanger, CEO of The Millionaire’s Club, an exclusive dating service that caters to wealthy men and women who are looking for love. Find out why Patti says Caroline is heading toward a life of loneliness, and learn her dating tips to increase your chances of finding a mate. And, Anna is only 30, but she says some men already think she’s too old to date! Her friend, Robyn, says Anna's independence turns some men off. Find out what happens when Dr. Phil cameras follow Anna for a night on the town. Plus, meet a divorced mom who says she’s been on the dating scene for 15 years and has yet to find a man her age who wants to commit.. Join the discussion.
