Topic : 10/29 Gender Confused Children

My ex husband is transgender. He came out and said he felt like a woman when I was five months preg with our daughter.  I know it can be hard and confusing.. Believe me there are times I want to smack him uplike the head and say "YOUR A BOY!!!!"  But you cant..

Really it's all about individuality... What you feel and know is right..... God does not make mistakes... This is true.. and on that same note... Because God doesnt make mistakes... What we feel and what we know we are are completely normal.. because GOD MADE US in his image.  If an 8 year old boy looks in the mirror and sees Diana instead of Dan..... God made him/her that way...... Why?? I dont know.. I'm not God... I would never presume to think that I know what is in Gods mind..... But weither you are Transgender, or gay... or a crossdresser or straight or whatever you are... GOD made you like that... and you should hold your head up and be PROUD of who you are!!!

On another note.... do I think it's appropriate for said 8 year old to be on hormones?? No....  I think it would be best to wait until that child is of legal age..... But both that child and the parents should understand the steps needed to be taken.. and also understand and make the schools and community aware of things.... if Dave wants to be Diana..... and is LIVING as Diana... then he should be Diana at schools as well.....

That's my two cents.

Thank you Dr. Phil for having  a "Focus on the Family" representative on you show today, 10/29.  They spoke the truth.  People like to go back and forth and argue and argue this point, but they do that because

they can't accept the truth. 

We live in an evil world.  And believe me, it is only going to get worse. 

First, let me say that I am totally against hormone treatment for children.  Any permanent changes should be illegal until the child is an adult.  This includes hormone therapy.  If the child is truely serious about changing their physical gender identity, then when they reach puberty, they will just have to wait a little longer than most to indulge in those physical desires. 

Having said that, it is offensive to say that GOD has some part of this.  Our world and nature, we humans included, are not perfect.  In utero defects happen.  I don't believe GOD wants children born without arms, legs, brains, or any other defect.  If you believe GOD has something to do with every childs birth, then you MUST believe GOD also wanted children born with birth defects. What kind of GOD to you people believe in?  How cruel.  I do think this is grounded in the physical development and not social influences.  Information is the key.  And loving support.

When we know better We Do Better just a little history at age 5 i knew something was different about me ,had male and female role models ,came from Italian family they drank a little too much wine,i was born with female organs , my brain was wired -i thought like a man,thought i was a lesbian and lived  as a lesbian,i allowed many people m/f to abuse my body i hated myself suicide thoughts constantly at age 33 i questioned my thoughts do i have a child or have a sex change? did neither.now at 47 came to terms with my GID and have a peaceful life i always wanted to dress in mens suits and today i do. i have been jac' for 3 yrs now i have done much research on the subject i choose to monitor my diet and to not eat meat/pork/chickens because the farmers inject female hormones in these animals and the last thing i want is more female hormones in my system by ommitting these foods my emotional mood swings have disappeared ,i have become best friends with  my suicidial thoughts, they do not control me anymore i have found a website that sells  humanlike penis that has a tube running through it so one can stand up to urinate , i lack facial hair only, since not eating food injected with female Hormones my body has changed, more husky and my feet grew a bit larger i would not change a thing in my journey to my authentic self i have lived as a woman ,a lesbian, and now a very peaceful heterosexual man at 53.my dream is to have a wife and raise a family it's never to late to live your dreams. TRUTH is the final lesson in life i am an advocate for SPECIAL NEEDS CHILDREN ranging from autism to gender idenity to rare cancers and it is my passion to educate and support our younger generations . i wish that the whole truth should of been spoken in the case of Brian Reimer on how the dr. burned his penis during circumcision and then they decided to remove the rest of his organs and turn him into a girl dr. phil if you are to do a show give the people the whole truth in the case of Brian Reimer ,doctors need to stop playing GOD. back in the 40's/50's shock treatment was suppose to cure GID they thought but only turned their brains to mush I AM SO GRATEFUL I RESEARCH ALL I CAN AND NOT LET ANY DOCTORS OR CHURCH GOERS DICTATE MY LIFE AND MY JOURNEY we are all unique and special and there are no two people alike in closing peace to all and do not judge lest you have walked in their shoes.

jac'