Topic : 10/29 Gender Confused Children

I no longer want to be identified with "christian" because of the mean spiritedness of believers, which i personally have been harmed by, ( i learned those that harmed me are not at fault, its the dogma.  Like Christ said, Forgive them for they know NOT....)  That is what my quote is about, only i probably should not have applied it to the person i did and just open up my own message.  If my protocol was improper, I apologize. 

PS...your sarcasm is subtle but not without notice

My son's favorite toy as a  baby was a stuffed doll with the talking box removed. Try to take it from him he would scream. Then when he was 4-10 he loved to play with doll houses, He would remove and dacoratet eh homes great. He was the greatest home decorated you could believe. He loved to cook and sew. Today he is very much a man, and the mother's of his children would let you know. Maybe when they hit 18 19 and they just can't stand woman or their gentnals or whatever then they need seek consuling and changing, but as a child, who knows if you are boy or girl half the time anyway. I was more a boy than any of my friends, I didn't have many girlfriends at all. the bff that's it. But ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww, I don't want to have any fun with their bodies.

It WILL hurt them though.  If they are picking their nose or wetting themselves in class or whatever, the sooner the behavior stops the better it is for them don't you think.  If your kid is sucking it's thumb at 15 your going to look pretty silly for putting up with that. 

It SHould be againt the law for little kids to dress like the OPPOSITE SEX of all things!  Prostitution and marijuana are against the law and they aren't hurting anyone Exept  the people doing them either.  So why are americans on board with this?   At some point morals need to become the cool thing to have.  I don't know if i want kids because i don't want to explain what homoanything means.  And I just don't want kids anyways but i'm just saying keep it in the bedroom and your sexuality doesn't define you, it isn't your DNA it's just a preference it's nothing special it's nothing to be ashamed of.  And if it is so right to be gay Why are 'gays' in the closet, ashamed?  If it's so natural why have guilt? 

I can remember as far back as 4 or 5 of wanting to play the boy games and always wore pants. I hated to wear dresses. I continued to be raised as a girl as I never said anything to any one about my feelings. I have always felt better being around guys. I have never felt comfortable around women. Though I am married, during sex in order to reach orgazam I have to pretend I am with another female or that I am the guy.

I do not believe it has anything to do with how your parents raise you. I feel it is all mentally. I have always wished I had a penis. I never even grew breast, so over 20 years ago, thinking it was the right thing to do I had breast implants. Now I wish I didn't have them. I was never going to have children because I didn't want any. I did have 1 child and had my tubes tied the next day, Later at the age of 32 I had a Hysterectomy.

Which I am not sorry I did.

My reccomendation to any one who feels like the other gender, just follow your feelings. If your mind changes as you get older then so be it. If it stays the same, then take the steps necessary to make you feel right.