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Topic : 10/29 Gender Confused Children

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Created on : Friday, October 24, 2008, 02:51:47 pm
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Dr. Phil tackles the sensitive topic of children who identify more with the opposite sex. What do you do if your son wants to wear dresses and play with dolls? Or if your daughter tells you she wants to be a boy? Should parents chock it up to being a phase that their children will grow out of, or should they intervene right away? Meet Melissa and Tim, whose 8-year-old son declared himself to be a girl when he was just 3 years old. Now, they allow their child to live as a girl and wonder if and when they should begin hormone therapy. Then, when Mary’s son was 8, he told her he felt like a girl, and Mary allowed him to experiment with dressing as a female. Now a teenager, her son is more comfortable living as a male -- but Mary wonders if she caused his confusion. Joining the discussion are experts with differing points of view: Dr. Dan Siegel, professor and clinical psychiatrist at UCLA School of Medicine, and Glenn Stanton, author and research fellow with the organization Focus on the Family. Is gender identity something we’re born with, or is it influenced by parents and environment? Don’t miss this heated discussion, then talk about the show here..

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October 29, 2008, 12:47 pm PDT

Focus on the Family - Scary Group!

I was disappointed to see Dr. Phil give Focus on the Family ANY air time at all to spew their Christian prejudice and poorly-disguised prosthelitizing.  They're not fooling anyone. I'm surprised Dr. Phil who represents the medical and psychiatric community would allow that man on the show like an expert of any kind.  Sometimes i think maybe Dr. Phil has a hidden Christian agenda.  When are Christians going to learn that there are different people in this world, not like them, but perfectly wonderful and normal just as they are?  That Focus on the Family guy had so much anger in his talk.  Why would a transgendered child bring up that frustration and anger in him?  Where is his professional objectivity?  Could it be "he doth protest too much?"  Please, Dr. Phil, stop with the Christian agenda people.  You're losing college-educated open-minded viewers like me.
 
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October 29, 2008, 12:48 pm PDT

Mother of a Transgender child

The gentleman that spit out that gsrbage needs to read a little more about this subject.  As my child grew up I knew he was differnt and tried to change him but after a while I realize that he needed to be him. 

Because of people like him, my son and I got threatening notes taped to our door,and phone calls.

In order fpr him to be hmself and be accpted for the wonderful person he is, he had to move 3000 miles away from me right aer  father died.  My family accepts him for him and loves him

Some idiots like that gentleman told me tp turn my back on  him and thown himout and lock thre door.  He is and always will be my baby

People condemn things they don't understand or just spit out regilious bull.  I have read the Bible from cover to cover and the things these people try to preach are no where to be found.

They are afraid of things they don't understand and stand behind religion to back up their line of bull.

 

 
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October 29, 2008, 12:50 pm PDT

bull

come on people God does not make mistakes! Anyone who feels they should be a different sex then what God has made needs some type of hormone shots to instil the sex God made them to be. You do this to make you the sex you feel "God" made a mistake why not use it for the sex God made you to be??  Ya, I thought so......
 
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October 29, 2008, 12:53 pm PDT

a boy is a boy and a girl is a girl

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I'm glad that someone with Godly wisdom, "Focus On The Family" will be on the show. 

A boy is a boy and a girl is a girl.  No confusion there.  Be the adult/parent, don't let your girls pretend to be boys or your boys pretend to be girls.

 

Homosexuality is a sin of choice. 

Praise the Lord for this comment.

 
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October 29, 2008, 12:55 pm PDT

No hate

God is the creator of all. He does not make mistakes! We are full of excuses today, and excepting what is sin. Sin is sin and homsexuality is sin look in the book of Romans.

We are praying for you who actually feel God makes mistakes!

 
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October 29, 2008, 12:57 pm PDT

God does not make mistakes

Unbelievable.  Focus on the Family rad listen believe.
 
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October 29, 2008, 1:00 pm PDT

omg

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The BOY on the show said that God had made a mistake.  That is what made me respond with "God doesn't make mistakes."  he was saying that God made him a boy when he should have been a girl and therefore GOD made the mistake. 

What I am referring to in any of these instances is that if GOD made you a girl, you are a girl.  If GOD made you a boy, then you are a boy... no mistakes here!!

You obviously are not a believer. You need to read Romans you will get your answers. GOD DOES NOT MAKE MISTAKES. He is born who he wants him to be.
 
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October 29, 2008, 1:01 pm PDT

David

I too know the story of the little boy named David who was raised as a girl. The dr stating that science has little to do w/ gender is wrong! David was born a boy and made into a female therefore the chemical balance as a female was false! The doctor contradicted himself and sounded like an idiot!

 

 

 
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October 29, 2008, 1:01 pm PDT

so sad

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can't ewait to hear the evil rantings of the cult known as Focus on the Family.  I always find them entertaining as they try to tell the world what is right and wrong, what we can read, watch eat blah blah blah.

 

only the mindless sheep brainwashed by this cult ever listen to them and they just follow blindly into the depths of whatever the group is hating on now. 

 

This group breeds hate racism, bigotry, homophobia and scams money out of the desperate bible thumping senile old seniors who don't know any better that they are getting wrapped up in this group of narrrowminded individuals

 

I wish they would experience the real world and see that we are all individuals....even those who may have issues regarding their gender....but I suspect they feel safer consorting with other Focus on the Family sheep rather than real people in the real world

Evil Focus on the family, no read Romans and you will see what the creator of life says.
 
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October 29, 2008, 1:02 pm PDT

sad for this child

 I am so sad for this child, the parents I feel have confused this poor child. Children play with toys cross gender. My sister was a real tomboy. My son dressed up in my daughters old ballet outfits. This is normal. To allow a child to dress as the opposite sex at 8 is terrible.  And by doing so actually encourages the child to confused about themselves. How ridiculous to allow a little child (we aren't talking teenager here) to make so many adult decisions. Who is looking out for this poor child? It certainly isn't the parents.
 
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