Topic : 11/13 Dr. Phil's Get Real Retreat, Part 3

There is always a reason to live. There is always someone worse off then you are. Help someone else that is struggling. Do not be selfish. Who are you going to hurt?  You cannot make these sorts of decisions from a bottom of a dark pit because you cannot see what is in the light. Get some help.

I was a child who was never abused but also never told by my father that I was loved.  My brother and sister were abused very badly as was my mother.  My father used any thing he could.  Belts, glass, lighters etc.  He never once touch me, but always made me watch what was happening to them.  As a child I always thought that he didnt love me because he never hit me.  My mom finally left him after 21 years of abuse.  No one in my family has ever recovered.  My brother is on his third marrige.  My sister has a son that she never sees or cares to.  I will never get married.  I have been with the same man for 12 years though.  As I sit here now, I never talk to my dad.  He is remarried with a very young wife.  She is 24 years younger and they now have a 10 year old son.  He refuses to be a part of my life.  I have tried.  I have and will always feel like I was and still not good enough for him.  Why would I want the approval of such a mean and unloving man?  But I do.  I see a lot of my father in my partner now.  I am scared that he will be the same.  I hope one day we will all be ok and al  the abuse will stop.  I feel for everyone on the show and around the world who have ever gone through any of this.

Ifeel like this almost everyday. I feel like I just don't matter. I want to just make the pain go away. My heart aches for what is lost to me forever.  I pray I watch Joel Olsteen and nothing makes a differance. I understand your pain.

Tell your story. Sometimes it helps to get everything out by actually saying all the bad things that happened to you. Sometimes it feels good to let go of all the pain that you are holding inside. If you wont do this then please go get help or call someone who loves you.

These kinds of shows are Dr. Phil at his absolute best!  Please keep doing more shows like  these and a lot less of the celebrity stuff.  And God bless Dr. Phil for being there for these people.

 

I can not believe what has happened to these people. I just can't believe that back in those days people we able to get away with molesting children. That makes me sick that their parents couldn't tell that it happened to them.

People still  get away with molestation and rape in todays society; it happens every day, I have personal experience. It is horrible and it changes who you are forever. I am glad these people are getting help. Take care <3

I just want to say to Wade that it takes a LOT of courage to say and do what he did and that I am SO proud of him. I can tell that he has made HUGE leaps and BOUNDS with the help of Dr. Phil. There are people out here who know what you are and have been going through.... my husband is one of them. God Bless You and I am praying for you....