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Topic : Which Latest Topic of Debate Are You Most Passionate About?

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Created on : Friday, July 29, 2005, 04:48:36 pm
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What are some current topics of debate that you're most passionate about? Are you offended by women breastfeeding in public? Against others disciplining your child? Do you have issues with your husband viewing porn? Should married men be going out with their buddies? Should condoms be handed out in schools? Tell us!

 

Adamantly Against Breastfeeding In Public?

 

Against Others Disciplining YOUR Child In Public?

 

Do You Think Schools Should Hand Out Condoms?

 

Are You OK With Your Husband Watching Porn?

 

Fighting With Wife About Hanging Out With Buddies?


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August 10, 2005, 6:32 am PDT

love every topic

I just want to say I love every topic because you always learn something out it.
 
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August 10, 2005, 9:34 am PDT

Breastfeeding, etc

I breast feed 2 out of three of my children.  Not often did I need to feed while I was in public, but the times that I did I used the nursing room at the mall.  Just so I was more comfortable chair wise!  You gotta do what you gotta do.  However I do believe you should be discreet about it, ie: use a blanket.  I am not the type to let eveyone see my body, I used a blanket at home as well.   

  

I was just waiting for my first coat of paint to dry so I thought I would post!   

  

Sounds like a wonderful province to live in (NB) Can you send me some pototoes?  Better yet, lobster!  I have only tried lobster once, and that was last summer I had a piece.  It was yummy!  One day I will have more!  LOL 

  

  

 
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August 10, 2005, 10:04 am PDT

Hi Tray

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I breast feed 2 out of three of my children.  Not often did I need to feed while I was in public, but the times that I did I used the nursing room at the mall.  Just so I was more comfortable chair wise!  You gotta do what you gotta do.  However I do believe you should be discreet about it, ie: use a blanket.  I am not the type to let eveyone see my body, I used a blanket at home as well.   

  

I was just waiting for my first coat of paint to dry so I thought I would post!   

  

Sounds like a wonderful province to live in (NB) Can you send me some pototoes?  Better yet, lobster!  I have only tried lobster once, and that was last summer I had a piece.  It was yummy!  One day I will have more!  LOL 

  

  

I understand what you are saying here about the breastfeeding, I didn't bother to cover myself at home, it didn't matter, it was usually just hubby and me so I didn't really care, even at my parents/friends homes, it depended onwho was inthe room and all as I realize that some people are uncomfortable with it. But in public, well, that was a different story, I really don't want to expose my self to every tom, dick and harry out there, but I surely didn't hesitate to feed my girls. As far as the lobster goes, I know this might seem a bit petty but I can't stand the thoughts of anything being cooked alive so I won't eat it, kinda gives me a yukky feeling for some reason. I kow I am wierd. gotta get off this thing, gotta lot to do today.........
 
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August 10, 2005, 11:23 am PDT

child molesters!!!

Need to be behind bars for life and made to pay for all the medical and therapy bills. I think they get away with way too much and if one has the desire to take on innocent little kids/teen agers then they do not need to be in society where they can have contact and be tempted to do it again. I was looking at the web site where they list our communities registered offenders and there is at least one that lives less then two blocks from my home and it is an area where we take our walks and all. Makes me sick to my stomach to know that there is a child molester living walking distance to my home. Thankfully, I always know where my girls are and who they are with but to know that these people are aloud to walk free and go on with their lives while others are suffereing through the turmoil that that person caused really does not leave me in good spirits about it. And any one who might disagree with this, well, I have an uncle who molested his daughter years ago, and while he is out walking the streets of Texas now, his daughter, now thirty years old is in therapy for the crap he had done to her, why doesn't he have to pay for the crap that he caused! He took an innocent child and practically ruined her life but thankfully she is smart and has made a good life for her self but she is still under his bondage and he doesn't even know where she is and hasn't since his girls were taken away and put up for adoption, he certainly didn't deserve them, what a coward! And the guy knows better then to come around where I live because every one would know about him, he would have a hard time walking down the street just by knowing that every one knows what he is which every one in the community of a child molester has every right to know. Children need to be safe and free to be children and those who violoate them need to be locked away.
 
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August 10, 2005, 3:13 pm PDT

Has anyone been contacted by the show to be a guest and not been chosen?

I was just wondering if anyone here has been contacted from a producer and then not chosen to be on the show?  

I wrote to the show asking for help and I wondering how the process works, if they should call me? Are you certain to be picked if your called or is it like a job interview and you have a 50/50 chance? 

I know I'm really early in getting hopeful but I want to know what to expect, if in the 1 in a million chance they would call me. 

If anyone has been contacted and chosen or not chosen could you tell me how it works?  

Thanks. 

 
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August 10, 2005, 9:53 pm PDT

Breast feeding

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I understand what you are saying here about the breastfeeding, I didn't bother to cover myself at home, it didn't matter, it was usually just hubby and me so I didn't really care, even at my parents/friends homes, it depended onwho was inthe room and all as I realize that some people are uncomfortable with it. But in public, well, that was a different story, I really don't want to expose my self to every tom, dick and harry out there, but I surely didn't hesitate to feed my girls. As far as the lobster goes, I know this might seem a bit petty but I can't stand the thoughts of anything being cooked alive so I won't eat it, kinda gives me a yukky feeling for some reason. I kow I am wierd. gotta get off this thing, gotta lot to do today.........

I was sorta the same if I was at home alone I didn't care if I covered, but My oldest son was 10 so I covered up around him.  Yes it depended on who was around.   

  

I know what you mean about the loster to, kinda of a wierd thought!  LOL  I just try not to think of that!  I stopped off at a friends one day to pick up my son and they had the lobster crawling on the counter and the water boiling I just had to stay for a few minutes to watch and then they gave me a piece.  It was quite an experience.  To each thier own.   

  

  

 
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August 11, 2005, 6:50 am PDT

Which Latest Topic of Debate Are You Most Passionate About?

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Need to be behind bars for life and made to pay for all the medical and therapy bills. I think they get away with way too much and if one has the desire to take on innocent little kids/teen agers then they do not need to be in society where they can have contact and be tempted to do it again. I was looking at the web site where they list our communities registered offenders and there is at least one that lives less then two blocks from my home and it is an area where we take our walks and all. Makes me sick to my stomach to know that there is a child molester living walking distance to my home. Thankfully, I always know where my girls are and who they are with but to know that these people are aloud to walk free and go on with their lives while others are suffereing through the turmoil that that person caused really does not leave me in good spirits about it. And any one who might disagree with this, well, I have an uncle who molested his daughter years ago, and while he is out walking the streets of Texas now, his daughter, now thirty years old is in therapy for the crap he had done to her, why doesn't he have to pay for the crap that he caused! He took an innocent child and practically ruined her life but thankfully she is smart and has made a good life for her self but she is still under his bondage and he doesn't even know where she is and hasn't since his girls were taken away and put up for adoption, he certainly didn't deserve them, what a coward! And the guy knows better then to come around where I live because every one would know about him, he would have a hard time walking down the street just by knowing that every one knows what he is which every one in the community of a child molester has every right to know. Children need to be safe and free to be children and those who violoate them need to be locked away.

I could not imagine living that close to a child molester.  I sure would have a close handle on my kids!  I don't think I would let them out of the back yard.  Right now, where we live it is a nice small cres. about 20houses.  All the kids play on the street.  (hockey, basketball and bikes) I love living here for that reason.  Everyone is so good about safe driving because they know the kids are on the road.  But if I had a child molester I sure wouldn't allow that!  Some laws need to be changed, mean while the victum is suffering for possible the rest of their lives and the person is roaming the  streets, it is just not fair! 

  

Where my brother lives in an area that most of the houses were recently built, the city built a prostitution house accross the street from the park.  This house is for teenage prositutes to go to for help.  Yeah but they are still using drugs and occassionally turning tricks and their Johns may even possible go their to find their girls.  I think that is sick that the city ok'd something like this right accross the street from a park. 

  

 
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August 11, 2005, 7:41 am PDT

Which Latest Topic of Debate Are You Most Passionate About?

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I could not imagine living that close to a child molester.  I sure would have a close handle on my kids!  I don't think I would let them out of the back yard.  Right now, where we live it is a nice small cres. about 20houses.  All the kids play on the street.  (hockey, basketball and bikes) I love living here for that reason.  Everyone is so good about safe driving because they know the kids are on the road.  But if I had a child molester I sure wouldn't allow that!  Some laws need to be changed, mean while the victum is suffering for possible the rest of their lives and the person is roaming the  streets, it is just not fair! 

  

Where my brother lives in an area that most of the houses were recently built, the city built a prostitution house accross the street from the park.  This house is for teenage prositutes to go to for help.  Yeah but they are still using drugs and occassionally turning tricks and their Johns may even possible go their to find their girls.  I think that is sick that the city ok'd something like this right accross the street from a park. 

  

I don't let my girls play outside with out me being out there with them. occasionally I will let them go in the neighbors back yard where there is a privacy fence up and a bunch of trees hiding the apartment complex in the back and I can see them from my door and the yard and I can talk to them, I will let them play in the back in the sand box and I leave the door opened where I can see and talk to them, that's very rare though, I like having close contact to my girls. I don't think any organization dealing with drugs, alchol, prostitution or any crime related activities should be walking distance to a school, especially when there is a lot of people traffic such as these prostitutes and people like that, our laws are definetly a bit warped.
 

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August 11, 2005, 12:25 pm PDT

Worried about son starting school because of school lunch program.

My son's behavior changes drastically when he eats artificial additives (colors, flavors or preservatives).  He is on the Feingold Program which eliminates all these things.  We have had great success as long as I have complete control.  When he goes to school, I won't and I don't want to home school.  I don't know what to do.  Most school lunch programs are loaded with junk and additives.  I guess I could start now and try to urge them to make changes.  It would benefit the behavior and learning of all children to take this stuff out of their diet, at least at school.  Many, Many studies show that these additives cause learning & behavior problems.  You would think schools would know this and do something about it.  Maybe I can make them change.  We'll see! 

 
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August 11, 2005, 1:15 pm PDT

School Lunch

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My son's behavior changes drastically when he eats artificial additives (colors, flavors or preservatives).  He is on the Feingold Program which eliminates all these things.  We have had great success as long as I have complete control.  When he goes to school, I won't and I don't want to home school.  I don't know what to do.  Most school lunch programs are loaded with junk and additives.  I guess I could start now and try to urge them to make changes.  It would benefit the behavior and learning of all children to take this stuff out of their diet, at least at school.  Many, Many studies show that these additives cause learning & behavior problems.  You would think schools would know this and do something about it.  Maybe I can make them change.  We'll see! 

I don't know how your public school's lunch program works but ours is not mandatory.  In other words, you pack the foods that you want your child to eat.  The school lunch here is semi healthy, they serve veggies and fruits, but I bet most kids don't eat them.  At least when I pack the lunch I know what she is eating.   

  

While the Feingold Program may work for your son, it made no difference with my daughter's ADD.  We limit "junk" food in our home anyway and it is considered a treat and not the norm.  My daughter's issue is focus and not behavior.  Don't know if the program has more effect on hyperactivity or not.  

  

It will an uphill battle trying to change the school district.  Most programs are budget driven and major changes can prove costly to the schools.  Best way to make any changes is with a group of like minded parents.  If one person complains, they are a pain in the neck, if a group complains, they are more likely to be listened to.  Good luck if you do try to change the schools and in the meantime I suggest a good lunchbox!! 

 

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