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Topic : 02/11 Octuplets Debate

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Created on : Friday, February 06, 2009, 02:13:19 pm
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For most single mothers, one child is enough of a handful, but when a 33-year-old woman in Southern California gave birth to eight premature babies -– in addition to the six children under the age of 8 she already has -- the country started talking! The mother of 14, Nadya, is keeping a low profile, but it is reported that all her children were created through in-vitro fertilization, an expensive and purposeful process. Questions are cropping up: How did she end up with eight embryos? How will she care for all of them? Who will pay these children’s expenses over the years? How do we take the children’s well-being into account in reproductive medicine? Dr. Phil and his panel of esteemed guests, including Dr. Jim Sears co-host of The Doctors, debate the ethical questions that have been raised. Share your thoughts, join the discussion.

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March 24, 2009, 5:16 pm PDT

Wasn't It Obvious?

Just heard that Nadya fired all of her help. Wasn't it obvious that Nadya was not going to get along with the people who were hired to help her? She agrees with what Dr. Phil or someone else tries to advise her and then does exactly what she wants. Look at the pattern. She doesn't get along with her mom, she obviously doesn't want or get along with men. She apparently had no siblings to work it out with. What made anyone think she would get along with the experienced premie nurses? They took Nadya out of the center of attention, where she needs to be. She didn't want a family, she wanted to be loved by a captive audience. Big difference. Maybe there is another plan afoot--I hope so--because this is a disaster for these children. What is she going to do when the 14 start growing up and start expressing their own personalities? She won't get along with them, either, because it is all about her needs--not theirs. Our country will wind up taking care of 15 fragmented people with emotional problems, including her.
 
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March 26, 2009, 2:00 pm PDT

kate and jon

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 I have issues with the way Dr. Phil spoke of this octuplate mom and then

the way he spoke to Kate. This octuplate mother din't intend on 8 children.

She was hoping to get one or two.  Dr. PHil said that that was crazy to iplant so many and

not  think it could happen!  If this women had twins only know one would even be talking about her!

 

When he talk to Kate of John and Kate plus 8, she also said that she implanted 6 only expecting

one or two childen.  She also said that she refused to terminate any. He never told her that she was irresponsible! or that her Dr's should have known better!  Where would Kate be right now if she wasn't being paid by TLC  for her show!  Kate also recieved free diapers formula etc..

 

Why is ok for Kate.. because she has a husband!  This octuplate mother was working befoe this!

She is also going to school and getting a degree to improve her life and help her family!

 

 

 
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April 29, 2009, 8:16 pm PDT

02/11 Octuplets Debate

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Invetro starts around $10,000.  Nadya got a disability settlement of $165,000 a few years back.  She not only didn't tell her parents while living with them and on food stamps, she spent it all on herself, not the kids and never contributed.  Her numerous invetro's, plastic surgeries and botox injections ate it all up.   Pretty bad huh?
she only thinks about herself. some invetro is a little over 5,200. thats what my dr char\ges.
 
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