Chel I guess I need someone to explain the reasoning behind this female’s motives for bringing that many children into the world.. I once met a woman who was doing something similar to that. I asked her why she had that many kids. All had different fathers. She looked at me and asked, "Which ones shouldn't I have had?" My reply was, "All of them." She had 6 children who were going without the necessities of life. She was young and no partner to help her raise the kids and no money.
Something is very very wrong here with the woman who had the octuplets. Are we just going to stand around and just talk about this? Or is someone out there actually smart enough and compassionate enough to take control and do something? By someone, I mean one who has authority to act responsibly and legally. When you have 6 embryos planted inside of you then you say," I was just expecting 1or 2babies."
Excuse me, what was wrong with the 6 she already had at home? Why not give those 6 children quality care and rearing? Don't anyone try to give me the agument that so and so had a husband. And just because Nadya didn't have a husband why shouldn't she have MORE kids? If you don't know the reason for that. YOU are absolutely in of need help. Seek help.:( Please.....
We have a woman who emigrated here from India, who went back to India to have an in vitro procedure done. First time she and her husband did that, the doctor in India they hired and paid in advance ran off with their money. They then hired another doctor. I believe they travelled back and forth 3 times. When they came back to Canada she had TWINS, the head turner here is that she is 60 years old. In Alberta (where I live) we get free medical now. So she and her twins were in intensive care. That cost US the tax payer a lot of money. She was refused this procedure in Canada because of her age. WE just don’t do that here in this country. I REALLY believe she should have stayed in India to have her babies. But this is what our government allows. Too my way of thinking if she was refused the procedure here, we should not have followed through and permitted her to go on a free ride when she came back to Canada to have these babies. They (she and her husband) should foot all of the medical/hospital bills. End of discussion.
In North America, we use birth control, to help control the population because we pro create with responsibility. Then we have people who turn around and un-do what we have been attempting to do for decades. Can you imagine the population growth if we all thought like the woman with the octuplets and the woman from India and acted on it? Having 8 (plus 6) babies on one hand and a 60 year old having twins at the age of 60 on the other. Pretty stupid. We also know the risks of having babies after the age of 40. It's one thing to be uneducated, but it's a whole other thing to be both, “UNEDUCATED AND IGNORANT." It's like talking to your floor mop.
Nadya (the octuplet mom) will talk circles around most people who interview her. She’s dumb like a fox. My guess is she is very well versed at playing the game. She is an experienced liar who has great acting skills. I also suspect her mother is on to her. She is good at manipulating men like her father. She hasn't mastered manipulating most women yet. That is a whole other place she has yet to visit. We gals aren't duped as easily. I will bet my last dollar that she has an answer for every question/argument relating to this event.
I hope they investigate the doctor who helped that woman I hope they take his license away. I hope he finds himself working at a 711. That doctor shouldn't be permitted to be a vet.
In vitro is a gift for those having legitimate difficulties having babies. It should be a miracle and a blessing. Not something to abuse at will. Most doctors know this and most COUPLES understand it as such. But it only takes ONE person to tarnish it.
Our planet is riddled with stupid, ignorant selfish people who behave irresponsibly and the rest of us pay for their blunders one way or another. And many of us become victims of people who have kids that are out of control. Kids have to be trained and kids have to be supervised. Which means one of the parents should be at home raising them. Toooo dang many parents out there who have little darlings that never do any wrong. Too many parents are unavailable to their kids. They're too busy making money.
For most single mothers, one child is enough of a handful, but when a 33-year-old woman in Southern California gave birth to eight premature babies -– in addition to the six children under the age of 8 she already has -- the country started talking! The mother of 14, Nadya, is keeping a low profile, but it is reported that all her children were created through in-vitro fertilization, an expensive and purposeful process. Questions are cropping up: How did she end up with eight embryos? How will she care for all of them? Who will pay these children’s expenses over the years? How do we take the children’s well-being into account in reproductive medicine? Dr. Phil and his panel of esteemed guests, including Dr. Jim Sears co-host of The Doctors, debate the ethical questions that have been raised. Share your thoughts, join the discussion.
