Ok, look, When I was young, I was raised to be pure, sweet, demure, not flashy, dressed modestly, attract the RIGHT kind of opposite sex, try not to be around the older used men, don't curse, don't idly gossip and for God's sake, DON'T talk about money! That will instantly get you not so much into "crossing the line" trouble, but the main thing is to keep it light, and never go beyong 1st base, or a kiss on the cheek. Never go in with them to their place on the 1st date, etc. etc. etc.
What Baje is doing is putting herself above any men and she'll be danged if she's gonna be used and she just is going to sweet talk them as hard and fast as she can! And too bad if they get took by her, her victory, their loss.
My honest op on what she's doing, WRONG, WRONG, WRONG LITTLE GIRL! One of these days you're gonna meet the wrong one and you may just wind up dead from some P-O'd guy who just gets enough of yo S--t! Do you get what you're doing! You are out in the open with blatant thievery in my op. You obviously didn't read the Bible. You don't toy with men like that and you are NOTHING BUT A TEASE, THE BIGGER THE GIFT, THE BIGGER THE KISS, so to speak! You are despicable! You are a brat and obviously did not get raised with the right values! God help you! You're gonna wind up old, and haggard, and without children and family and all you'll have to show for your life will be what? A few trinkets of gold. There are numerous children's nursery stories of old that depict your kind.
You really need to search your heart, you're missing out on a lot of really nice men who are wanting a sweet wife, honest, pure, for real, not a gold digger, making it $$'s a prerequisite for a relationship. I know someone who is dating someone who he thinks winning the lottery would be the 1st thing he'd go get is the biggest baddest Mercedes and didn't say a word about marrying the woman who recently had his child! HELLO! You don't want a man like that so if you met that type of man who just won the lottery, and you didn't know anything about him, you wouldn't care except to trick him into buying you gifts and toys, cars, etc.
When you say you don't lead them on, what exactly are you saying that you don't? YOU ARE! It's shameful! So let me get this straight. If you were to meet someone like Donald Trump, (who wouldn't give you the time of day BTW) and you didn't have a clue where they got their money from, and come to find out they were actually in say, the Mafia, then you would only care about getting your "goal list" gifts from them, not the morals behind where those gifts come from? You're nuts!
You have no morals because you set yourself up as this very gorgeous plastered with makeup woman, who has this goal list of "trinkets" and no matter who you hurt, you're goal is one of those things on your goal list, your type and others are doing more harm to humanity than a whore on Broad St. so-to-speak. You are eroding the trust of not only good men, but your kind is also eroding any hope that other women that may appear like you but just plain good women, to men who may actually be looking at a woman as a potential mate!
Get a brain, get a life, and get out of town! Leave those innocent poor fools with $$'s alone!
Is it wrong to go dating for dollars? Dr. Phil’s guests say if you want to court them, you have to pay to play! Baje says she uses sex appeal to get cash, jewelry and expensive trips from men. She says she never leaves home without her "gold-digging kit," and you won’t believe what it contains! Her friend, Michelle, says Baje taught her all the secrets to getting money from men, and she doesn't see anything wrong with accepting gifts from wealthy suitors. With the help of an NFL superstar, Dr. Phil teaches these materialistic ladies a lesson they won't forget. Then, attorney Lauren Lake says gold digging is "two sandwiches short of a prostitution picnic," but Lucia, a radio talk show host, says that using men for money is no worse than men using women for sex. Don’t miss their heated debate! And, Emilie says she's not a gold digger; she’s just looking for a rich man to support her extravagant lifestyle. Tell us what you think!
