Topic : 08/18 'Fighting for My Children'

Jadaok, after reading many of your posts..... it is as though you post from a GLASSHOUSE.  You post from Idealism rather than Reality.  Whenever I hear about stories like this I try to take the position of EMPATHY and COMPASSION.  How would I feel if I was in there shoes?  Because it doesn't hurt as much unless it happens to us or someone related to us.  Then it's a whole nother story.     

Bridget's behavior may have been immoral, but it was not criminal.   

The accusation was that the dad french kissed the girls which is not acceptable behavior.   

I don't know if there is a way to prove that in the ER?   

Child molesters lie.   

But regardless of all this.  Bridget has already served a sentence.  How long should it be?  I think it has been long enough.  Those girls love her.  Ripping them away from her will only cause them more pain like the pain the girls went thru cuz they did miss her terribly.   

Her choice of profession is not illegal in America.  It doesn't mean I agree with it.  I don't think it means she's a bad mother.  I don't think it is a safe lifestyle for her, but again it is her free choice in this FREE country called America.   

It's easy to say that you have empathy for the mother because as women and society we root for the underdog.  But not once did you say anything about the children loving and missing their father.  These children love their dad too.  And they have a right to love their dad, just like you love your father. 

    Remember the PB Bunny accused the father of molesting the girls.  Hello????  She took them for intrusive exams.  Put yourself in the father's shoes.  What if you were falsely accused of doing something inappropriate with a child and you knew it was a lie, but it was put out for the whole world to see it, because the parents of the child wanted to extort money from you, and you didn't give in?  That's what this is about.   

   I believe that if the rich man had left his wife and made Marks his trophy wife or if he had just given her his children with a hefty check every month, she never would have made up the allegations, which by the way were proven to be a lie, yet you and everyone else here seems to be doubting the court, investigators, child psychologists and everyone esle who deemed that Marks told a vicious lie and is guilty of Parental Alienation.   

   So you think ripping the kids from the Bunny will cause them pain, I think more about the mental pain for two babies being asked if their father molested them because of a parent's strategy.  I think about the pain these kids endured being examined and nothing being found in the ER because of Mark's strategy.  I think about them growing up and being raised by a mother with no morals and deciding to run the same game on your son or mine for money.  I think about a father who can't kiss his daughter's now because he might end up in court over a lie.  I think of little girl's who had to hear and see their mother chasing after a car calling their father evil and the look of fear on their faces. 

   It's not illegal to take X-rated pictures but it is illegal to lie under oath, and that's what the NY courts proved, yet Marks hasn't been arrested, and got sole custody of the twins thanks to the lie.  (sad)  If someone lied in court about stealing property they'd be arrested, but you can lie about babies being molested and take home the prize, the babies.   There's no way Marks loves these kids.  They'd be better off with their father.  Even a nanny.  I pray the father keeps fighting.  What Marks did was a slap in the face to every woman, wife and mother in the world, yet we want to stand side by side with her because she's a woman.  Give me a break.   

It's easy to say that you have empathy for the mother because as women and society we root for the underdog.  But not once did you say anything about the children loving and missing their father.  These children love their dad too.  And they have a right to love their dad, just like you love your father. 

    Remember the PB Bunny accused the father of molesting the girls.  Hello????  She took them for intrusive exams.  Put yourself in the father's shoes.  What if you were falsely accused of doing something inappropriate with a child and you knew it was a lie, but it was put out for the whole world to see it, because the parents of the child wanted to extort money from you, and you didn't give in?  That's what this is about.   

   I believe that if the rich man had left his wife and made Marks his trophy wife or if he had just given her his children with a hefty check every month, she never would have made up the allegations, which by the way were proven to be a lie, yet you and everyone else here seems to be doubting the court, investigators, child psychologists and everyone esle who deemed that Marks told a vicious lie and is guilty of Parental Alienation.   

   So you think ripping the kids from the Bunny will cause them pain, I think more about the mental pain for two babies being asked if their father molested them because of a parent's strategy.  I think about the pain these kids endured being examined and nothing being found in the ER because of Mark's strategy.  I think about them growing up and being raised by a mother with no morals and deciding to run the same game on your son or mine for money.  I think about a father who can't kiss his daughter's now because he might end up in court over a lie.  I think of little girl's who had to hear and see their mother chasing after a car calling their father evil and the look of fear on their faces. 

   It's not illegal to take X-rated pictures but it is illegal to lie under oath, and that's what the NY courts proved, yet Marks hasn't been arrested, and got sole custody of the twins thanks to the lie.  (sad)  If someone lied in court about stealing property they'd be arrested, but you can lie about babies being molested and take home the prize, the babies.   There's no way Marks loves these kids.  They'd be better off with their father.  Even a nanny.  I pray the father keeps fighting.  What Marks did was a slap in the face to every woman, wife and mother in the world, yet we want to stand side by side with her because she's a woman.  Give me a break.