Topic : 09/07 Dark Family Secrets

Do I want my Doctor's Office Visit broadcast on national television?  HECK NO!  

Do you want your Doctor's Office Visit's broadcast on national television?  HECK NO!  

(Well maybe from some of your all posts.... maybe some of you all do...)  

There is nothing wrong with that kind of thinking and I think most people think this way.  

Do I want my Doctor's Office Visit broadcast on national television?  HECK NO!  

Do you want your Doctor's Office Visit's broadcast on national television?  HECK NO!  

(Well maybe from some of your all posts.... maybe some of you all do...)  

There is nothing wrong with that kind of thinking and I think most people think this way.  

Do I want my Doctor's Office Visit broadcast on national television?  HECK NO!  

Do you want your Doctor's Office Visit's broadcast on national television?  HECK NO!  

(Well maybe from some of your all posts.... maybe some of you all do...)  

There is nothing wrong with that kind of thinking and I think most people think this way.  

Do I want my Doctor's Office Visit broadcast on national television? HECK NO!

Do you want your Doctor's Office Visits broadcast on national television? HECK NO!

(Well maybe from some of your all posts.... maybe some of you alldo...)

There is nothing wrong with that kind of thinking and I think most people think this way.

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To me this show was TMI: TOO MUCH INFORMATION I think it is really sad. I can't remember when stuff like this started coming out of the closet. There was a time when it wasn't discussed and then all of a sudden was. I know when I started having kids I was protective of my children and haven't had any incidents. If I would have caught someone hurting my child in this way I probably would have hit them (although I am not a violent person). If I had any reservation about my babysitters or the young boys they babysat... I wouldn't let my kids stay there. Kids should be playing with toys and not having sex. And this is something I think about this family: as children they should have been playing with toys. I feel bad about hearing it. I don't want to know it. I think the hard thing is that our society gauks these people which I think PREVENTS their recovery. And now they did this as children, and are TALKING about it as ADULTS.... I think they should regress and do the things they should have been doing as KIDS like: Play putt putt golf, swimming or bowling or things like that.... hobbies.... I just hope they don't carry it the rest of their lives.....and can get past it........

It is people like this that are maybe responsible for hidden secrets of shame. If you ignore it it will go away. Incest is everywhere, saying it only happens in a certain church or organization is not helping. I had trouble with anyone helping me, at school at church, therapists, you name it. It is society, not Mormons or catholics, JMO.

mjkkas

I am more insulted than upset with our friend who thinks we all need to keep our secrets. Being that I made the apperance, to come on here and find out that what it took to come out and say something, was not good enough or not worth listening too, way to make a person feel good about themselves.  

It is people like that who make the victims continue to carry their feelings of shame and guilt. And the only reason people want to keep it secret, is because of their own shame for letting it happen to someone they know and love. 

I am more insulted than upset with our friend who thinks we all need to keep our secrets. Being that I made the apperance, to come on here and find out that what it took to come out and say something, was not good enough or not worth listening too, way to make a person feel good about themselves.  

It is people like that who make the victims continue to carry their feelings of shame and guilt. And the only reason people want to keep it secret, is because of their own shame for letting it happen to someone they know and love. 

I love your name by the way, makes me want to hug you! 

I know that everyone is entitled to their opinion, I guess what I have a hard time with is they can come and read what people have gone through and say stuff like that to us, really ticks me off! 

I am glad that you were on the show and you should be proud, don't let small minded uneducated people bother you, They are so not worth our acknowledgment any more. 

Do you know that song, "Did You Ever Know That Your MY Hero" You are our hero!  

You Go Girl!! 

Let it shine!! 

MJKKAS 

I was very impressed with your appearance on that show. You have a tremendous amount of strength. I too was on that show and I hope that someone out there has benefited from us talking about such a "taboo" topic. 

May God bless you and I hope that you receive the help and support that you need.