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September 29, 2005, 4:57 pm PDT
One more thing!
Quote From: sweetginnyThe people blasting Donny are SO off! He isn't a wimp; he is in love with a girl that does NOT love herself! Miranda is a girl that "looks" for approval from men and it is likely she always will!!! She has no self-worth, whatsoever! More than likely, she came from a less than loving childhood. She hates herself and seeks "validation" ; she needs to know that she is pretty, desired and wanted; and Donny is not enough to convince her damaged spirit! So, unfortunately she seeks that validation by seeking approval from MEN---in fact, almost any man and with many numbers of men.....(and just for you, Donny, it ISN'T about sex!) The sex is expected from the men that validate her; so she complies, as she has to "follow through".........once, that man has validated her and given her her 'fix' ---it is on to the next one; yes, she will keep some of the men 'on the hook', but you can rest assured, they mean NOTHING to her..........and the cycle will never end until she comes to grip with all the garbage that is going on within her. The fact that Donny loves her, means little to her; but, if he threatens to leave she will likely promise to change, and beg him not to leave. Another thing Donny, she will not only give sex to other men, but will do things with them she would never do with youeven things that disgust her; you are her husband, she has you and does not need approval from you; she knows you love her and she will make your life miserable, letting you hurt, never meeting your needs, etc., and she will continue as long as you will let her.............how do I know all this? I was Miranda for many, many years.............Thank God, my husband stuck it out, as he is a gem, much as Donny is; I realize now God sent him to me to help me overcome all the garbage that was within me. It is a sad, lonely, heart wrenching road and I despise all the things I did and all the men I gave myself up to..........I now know that I am worthwhile and I don't need approval from men; however, even into my 40's and now 50's I am easily caught up by men that give me 'the eye'...........but, now, I RUN from them, as I now know I approve of myself and men outside of the marriage only want one thing: sex..............Poor Miranda, girl...........I feel so sorry for you! You need big time professional help! I received the ultimate "professional help "when I gave my heart to God.........and I spent years begging God to help me overcome this 'addiction' for male approval.......thank God, I am so relieved to have finally accepted myself!
Miranda, you are lost! Trust me when I tell you that you are NOT special to all these other men---you are nothing to them but a willing vagina...........sorry, for the bluntness, but it is true; they will tickle your ear with flowery words as those words get them what they really want: sex. Though most viewers probably saw Miranda as more than "loose" ; (a name I cannot use here), when the "40" guys were revealed, Miranda reveled in that supposedly kept 'secret' and only gloats in the fact that Donny has been further "informed" of how many men want her and how 'hot' she must be...(and he was 'informed', of all places, on the show!)......there is a need in Miranda to make Donny think she is THE hottest woman on earth and every man wants her......It wasn't about 'coming clean' with Donny; as does it matter if it was 10, 20, 40 or 500? No, the fact is she needs to feel WANTED, desired, and Donny will never be able to fill her due to how messed up she is in her head. She is much as a bait on the end of a hook; thinking she is the only bait out there; what she doesn't realize is the fish that swim by and choose to 'take a bite' will also bite at the next bait that is offered. She isn't any more special than any other woman (as she thinks she is), she is simply AVAILABLE!!
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(Original Airdate: 09/26/05) One in 12 couples call it quits within 24 months of tying the knot. Dr. Phil's guests haven't even been married a year, and they already want to pull off their wedding bands and end their marriage! Did they know each other well enough before they said "I do"? Shamika says she wants to be treated like a southern belle, but her husband, Marlon, says she needs to get off her pedestal. Is Shamika asking too much? Plus, Miranda and Donny say the honeymoon was over before their suitcases were unpacked. So why is Miranda desperate to get pregnant, and should they have gotten married in the first place? Tune in for what you need to consider before making a lifetime commitment. Share your thoughts here.
