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Topic : 09/28 Overmedicating America: The Cruise Controversy

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Created on : Friday, September 23, 2005, 04:45:47 pm
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When Tom Cruise gave his opinion about the drugging of America, he created a firestorm of controversy. Are we an overmedicated nation? Dave and Jill feel as if their 7-year-old son is holding them hostage in their own home. He's on three medications, but his uncontrollable fits of rage are destroying their marriage. Is this a real medical issue or a parenting problem? Then, two women with powerful personal stories debate the "Cruise controversy." They both think their opinion is right, but what does Dr. Phil think? Plus, an outraged father confronts his ex-wife and demands that she stop medicating their 9-year-old son. Talk about the show here.

 

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October 3, 2005, 8:22 am PDT

I agree with Tammy

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There are lots of people who have all types of illnesses who are resistant to medication. 

  

I am sorry for that because you are trying to get help but seems like you can't find it. 

  

What happens when you take the drugs you have been on? My daughter was first diagnosed with major depressive disorder and given Zoloft. This threw her into mania. She was misdiagnosed and actually has bipolar.  

  

I know now after doing more research that people who have bipolar and are put on an anti-depressant without a moos stabilizer can have an adverse reaction to the anti-depressant and that is can make the sypmtoms of bipolar worse. 

  

So what class of medications have you been on and what were the reactions to the meds? 

  

Did you tell your doctors all your symptoms before, during, and after the use of your medications? Just wondering. 

  

I hope you find something to help you so that you do not have to suffer. I know how hard it is to suffer. 

  

Tammy 

My sister was supposedly diagnosed for years with depression and they finally figured out after many long years that she was Bi-Polar, manic depressive. Her meds finally worked for her. And I never came on here to put the adults down for seeking medical help for their problems. Yes I was depressed at one time and did pull myself out but was diagnosed about 7 years ago with bi-polar disorder. I tried to deal with it on my own but could not. My complaint was about the children being overly medicated and wrongly diagnosed.
 
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October 3, 2005, 8:31 am PDT

09/28 Overmedicating America: The Cruise Controversy

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Correction to my earlier post it was not stpgurl it was SLICKSIOUX .. not sure I spelled the name right 

That is what the doctor she was seeing told me. She is 17 now and still on medication. What she choose's to do once she leaves the home is up to her but sometimes I feel like the medication is not any different whether she is on it or not. I wish she could get off of it but if she can't then she will have to stay on them. The choice is up to her. Maybe sometimes you can't always listen or trust some doctor's.
 
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October 3, 2005, 8:40 am PDT

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If I may be frank, you are full of baloney!  I suffer from clinical despression and my father has suffered from a chemical imbalance, to the point of being suicidal. 

I have taken medication for my depression for five years and I have tried to wean myself off of it, and everytime I do my condition deteriorates.   

Unless you and Tom Cruise or anyone else has any experience in this area, please keep your opinions to yourself.  People that are ignorant to this subject cause more harm than good.  You probably also think Post partem depression is a myth too right ? 

I have to agree with you. I am bi-polar and it is a chemical imbalance of the brain. Maybe these people need to do some medical research on the subjects like I did. You go girl.
 
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October 3, 2005, 8:50 am PDT

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There is no such thing as a chemical imbalance.  There
is no medical test to prove such a thing exists.  This
was made up by the drug companies to push their drugs
and it's working.  Most 14 year olds appear to be
bipolar.  It is normal for  teenagers to act out.
Drugging them is not going to be the answer.  There is
no test for bipolar, and a young hormonal girl at 14
should not be drugged.   Kids fight, thats normal
too.  There are many ways to deal with this with
out medication.  The bottom line is that there have
been many teenagers who have killed themselves because
of these drugs, and you have a right to know that as a
consumer. 
Oh, I beg to differ there honey. I was diagnosed 7 years ago, after extensive testing, with Bi-Polar Disorder. I have done a ton of research on the subject as well. It is a chemical imbalance of the brain. Your brain does not produce enouch seratonin to function properly. People with this disorder have very high highs and very low lows. Some may become suicidal, extremely depressed, very violent and angry, and very physical towards other people. I've been there. My meds work properly, I am happy, healthy, a wonderful mother, and have a wonderful marriage now. I almost lost everything close to me because of it. My sister freaked out and tore up and busted everything in her house until she broke her hand and she even tried to kill herself. How about that? Read up before opening your mouth. I am a very intelligent person and did my research so I DO KNOW WHAT I AM TALKING ABOUT. Thank you!
 
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October 3, 2005, 1:57 pm PDT

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Maybe Tom Cruise can come to my house and show me how to get my son to do his homework.  Did he offer any suggestons at all?

Both my kids have ADHD. Homework time is a struggle.  Tasks like copying a spelling word 3 times is difficult for them!  These are things they are obviously able to do, but lack the ability to concentrate to get it done. Unless you're in the situation yourself, you can't understand. 

My 9 yr old is off meds now because of the side effects of not gaining weight and the rebound behavior.  The meds also seem not to work as well after a few weeks. It's been frustrating, because when the meds work he can get his work done without a problem.

For my 7 year old, meds are not an option because he has a form of hypoglecemia.

If anyone can offer any suggestions on how to help kids with ADHD without medications, bring it on. 

(Has anyone read dr. Lawlis' book? Does it have any good advice?)

Trekkie8



 
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October 3, 2005, 2:27 pm PDT

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It is just not a blood test - as Dr. Phil mentioned, there is a brain scan that exists that can determine if a person's brain is exhibiting a bipolar functioning pattern - check out www.scanyourbrain.com or go to www.pubmed.com and research SPECT scanning.
Dr. Phil didn't mention a test for bipolar.  I am sure I would have remembered that since that is my 'diagnosis'.  Since I have only ever exhibited bipolar symptoms while ON medications I would have been the first in line for that test just to disprove my 'diagnosis' and not have it following me around anymore.  If you think back, the brain scan mentioned on the show was from the author of 'The ADD Answer' and referred to doing a scan for ADD, not bipolar.  I don't even recall bipolar being mentioned on the show at all.  Please correct me if I am wrong.
 
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October 3, 2005, 2:34 pm PDT

I know, it was yesterday

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Brooke Shield's was probably put on this medication after the birth of her child. When I was diagnosed post partum depression I was put on Celexa and when I decided to try and come off of it I contacted my doctor and together came up with a weaning schedule. I had absolutely NO side affects from discontinuing my medication. 

  

I just wanted to point out that Brooke Shield's never stated that she took this while pregnant and since she didn't probably wasn't aware of affects on pregnant people taking this medication therefore wouldn't advise people because of that fact. 

JMO 

 My point was that GSK announced only  yesterday (28 Sept 2005) - after more than 10 years on the market--that their drug causes birth defects.  I have personally spoken with more than 300 people around all ages, male and female, who have or are tapering off Paxil at a rate of 1-5 mg per month, and suffering worse than any heroin addict. A person who is taking 20mg generally suffers for up to a year before recovering from the damages, including a severe depresison.

I'm glad you didn't suffer getting off  Celexa.   Most report that their doctors have no idea how to taper off the drugs properly, and that their doctors are keen to substitute yet another drug (Prozac generally.) Some commit suicide. Many people who don't understand how the drug plays with the brain chemistry cruelly dismiss the suicide victims as  "having problems to begin with" but that's like saying Brooke Shields had severe mental problems all along and used PPD as an excuse.  That's not true at all, not for her, not for other women.

 
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October 3, 2005, 3:43 pm PDT

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Actually, experts who research Postpartum Thyroiditis estimate that between 7 and 15% of women get it. I think that number accounts for about half as many women as those who are affected by any degree of baby blues or PPD. This is a highly underresearched area. 

As for Andrea Yates, I would love to see the report you are talking about that claims she was not taking her meds at the time. Are you questioning the underlying issue of whether or not drugs can cause psychosis? If you are, then why do you say that it's terrible they had an adverse effect on me? It sounds like you're not being consistent. 

People like to claim that others who have committed violent acts off of their meds couldn't have done it because of the meds. Do you know how long it takes for a full withrdawal and recovery? When the medication builds up in your system to a therapeutic level, especially at higher doses, it can take as little as two weeks or as many as several months for withdrawal effects to surface. Withdrawal is not the same as an underlying condition, it's a severe reaction to being deprived of a FOREIGN substance. 

Eric Harris of the Columbine killings had a therapeutic dose of Luvox (I think that is the name of the drug he had been taking) in his system at the time of death. Some people claim that he had stopped taking his meds & they aren't to blame. 

But people also dismiss the severity of symptoms caused by withdrawal from a drug. The symptoms are often similar to or worse than the symptoms that caused the person to get the prescription in the first place. Many people experience terrible "side effects" (or main effects) on drugs every time they start or increase a dose of a medication. The withdrawal can be much worse than the dose adjustment symptoms. But for me, once I was finished with the withdrawal period, I felt better than ever. 

It's unfortunate that you really don't seem to care about the people who suffer on the drugs. 

A serious look at the data (hidden by drug companies, never published, covered up by the FDA, stuck in a file drawer and only recovered through the freedom of information act in trial preparation) will show much higher incidences of "side effects" than people are led to believe. 

For instance, Prozac was originally tested in clinical trials with benzodiazepines in conjnction with the "primary" medication, but this was not reported. The FDA and Ely Lilly covered this up. So all the people who become manic or psychotic on SSRIs should be given benzodiazepines in order to achieve similar effects as those in the clinical trials. 

You make a lot of assumptions and buy in to the drug company schemes. This is not about preventing women from having drugs, this is about allowing those adveresly affected by the drugs to have a voice and not be swept under the rug. You assume there are a handful of us. You completely trust doctors to tell you the truth, when the only truth they know is whatever their pharmaceutical sales rep has told them. 

Why do you think that with so many lawsuits going on against the drug companies, you never hear about them? Why do you think there is so much ignorance on the widespread negative effects of drugs? Because the drug companies settle these cases OUT OF COURT and make secret agreements with the families for silence in exchange for large sums of money. 

Prozac originally was supposed to carry the "depression" side effect on its label in 1986, but that was scratched off at the last minute by a high-up exec, with no explanation. Dr. Phil showed the common side effects of drugs on his show last week. Depression was listed as one of the common ones. 

It really baffles me why a layperson would be so unsympathetic to another. Are you really here because you care about people who have illness, or are you just here to defend drugs? It's not the drugs or the drug companies who are important, it's receiving proper medical treatment, therapy, and finding the best route towards recovery that is important. I would never wish PPD on anyone or tell any woman not to take a drug. I just want women to know that if they get worse on a med, consider getting off of it. If someone had told me the facts about Zoloft before I took it, I wouldn't even be on this board.  

Crap flows down. It flows from drug companies to doctors and then down onto the patients. When a patient then tries to spread news of the crap around to society, does society care? It seems you don't. You just want to pour it right back on the injured person. 

It's almost worse to try to tell others about this and get people responding with messages like yours, which are extremely insensitive and patronizing, then it is to just keep your mouth shut and let everyone else in the world deal with their own drug-induced misery with no way out. 

But I will continue posting, because if it weren't for people making news about this same experience, I never would have questioned the drugs, and I would never have gotten better. Perhaps I would be in a mental hospital now if I didn't ever get to hear the truth. 

I totally resent you for your comments. 

I just got timed out with a response to this...maybe it is better since I was pretty upset by all the hostility you are getting thrown at you.  I am trying to catch up after the weekend, but am back to defend where you are coming from by saying that it is NOT just a handful of people with adverse reactions!  The numbers are rising, people and the drugs will eventually be deemed dangerous as they are being in other countries.  As more and more hear of stories like ours they will come out about it.  I never even knew that the meds could do this to me (only had suspicions which I was told was paranoia) until I saw a legal ad for a class action suit for Neurontin that was being marketed by Pfizer as a mood stabilizer, migraine med, etc without having been approved for it.  This is the kind of thing the drug companies do and then try to make it look like they care!  They only care about the $ and so does the media with advertising dollars from the drug companies...this is why you don't see more about the adverse reactions.  This will change when people realize that it is not them or their 'mental illness' symptoms worsening...that it is the meds!  I don't want the dirty $ of the drug companies through lawsuits...I want to help save lives!  If you think Tom Cruise is irresponsible then what do you think of the Oct issue of Parents saying that when a Mom feels more upbeat then she can be a first-rate parent and isn't that the happily ever after we are all looking for in the article titled "Can taking antidepressants make you a better parent?".  Happily ever after???  How irresponsible is that to make it sound like these meds make life into a fairy tale?  Even those who say they have benefited don't admit to happily ever after from what I see!  One life lost with these meds is too much...the benefits don't outweigh the risks when lives are at stake (I know the opposing opinion will say that their lives were saved, but it is coming that for every life 'saved' there is going to be one or more lost.  Way to go Amy with staying strong and defending those who have lost their lives.  We have to be a voice for those who have died due to suicide or are now imprisioned because of what these meds do. 
 
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October 3, 2005, 3:56 pm PDT

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Oh, I beg to differ there honey. I was diagnosed 7 years ago, after extensive testing, with Bi-Polar Disorder. I have done a ton of research on the subject as well. It is a chemical imbalance of the brain. Your brain does not produce enouch seratonin to function properly. People with this disorder have very high highs and very low lows. Some may become suicidal, extremely depressed, very violent and angry, and very physical towards other people. I've been there. My meds work properly, I am happy, healthy, a wonderful mother, and have a wonderful marriage now. I almost lost everything close to me because of it. My sister freaked out and tore up and busted everything in her house until she broke her hand and she even tried to kill herself. How about that? Read up before opening your mouth. I am a very intelligent person and did my research so I DO KNOW WHAT I AM TALKING ABOUT. Thank you!

Were you tested for a chemical imbalance? Please explain to us how that works exactly, and what is the science behind the theory of lowered serotonin in the brain? We would all love to hear the "proof" rather than just going around in circles and saying things like, I know because my doctor said so" or "I know because my research shows it." Can you refer us to the authors, titles, urls, etc. for this research so we can talk about it in a more informed way? What I've read is that it was the pharmaceutical companies who postulated and spread this theory. A lot of people used to let their doctors give them anti-morning sickness pills too, but that turned out to cause deformed babies and cancer and had to be stopped.  

My doctors said many things that aren't true, and every study I've read refers to the chemical imbalance as a THEORY. Also, the Zoloft commercials say, "It is not known how Zoloft works." 

  

 
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October 3, 2005, 4:13 pm PDT

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Dr. Phil didn't mention a test for bipolar.  I am sure I would have remembered that since that is my 'diagnosis'.  Since I have only ever exhibited bipolar symptoms while ON medications I would have been the first in line for that test just to disprove my 'diagnosis' and not have it following me around anymore.  If you think back, the brain scan mentioned on the show was from the author of 'The ADD Answer' and referred to doing a scan for ADD, not bipolar.  I don't even recall bipolar being mentioned on the show at all.  Please correct me if I am wrong.

The only time bipolar was mentioned was when Dr. Phil showed two audience members debate pros and cons of SSRIs. One woman on the show said that she had been depressed for years and got better on the meds. She referred to herself as bipolar. The other went on an SSRI and became suicidal. 

I think that for the purposes of examining research on bipolar, I should tell a personal story. My husband has struggled with depression in the past and decided to try to get into a study on bipolar disorder so he could try a new med, Wellbutrin. He went on the drug for a while and finished the study and stayed on the med afterwards, before finally going off of it because he didn't like feeling flat all the time. Off of the drug he felt more normal. He didn't have severe adverse effects like I did, but he didn't like it regardless. I don't believe that he truly had bipolar disorder because for 7 years of marriage and 9 years of knowing him I have never witnessed a single manic event, nor a period of depression that lasted more than a couple of days. 

Everyone who goes through a few ups and downs should not be admitted to a bipolar study because that taints the research in terms of trusting the data on efficacy. 

You can't take a person who stubbed their toe and put them in a pain management study... 

 
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