I am a 33 year old women. I have had two kids. I did not really suffer post-partem depression, a little baby blues, but I know that many, many women do. I was able to treat my mild blues with adequate rest, diet and exercise. I was put on both xanax and paxil for awhile and took myself off, cold turkey---yes, against medical advice. Paxil is a horrible drug and should NOT be taken lightly. I had electric shocks running thru my body while detoxing. Admittedly, the detox was worse because it was cold turkey. A couple of years after this I was put on zoloft because I was feeling blue, fatigued and anxious. I had a horrible migraine, well, no surprise, I happened to take my blood pressure at the store...my blood pressure is CONSISTENTLY at 118/74, within 10 days of taking the zoloft my BP was a whopping 197/94!!!!!! 10 DAYS!!!!! I ignored my doctor advice to "stick it out" and quit immediately. Turned out I was exhausted, I said I'm going to rest in bed all weekend, slept about 18 hours and, amazingly, the fatigue, depression and anxiousness completely disappered. SO.....in defence of the overmedicating side----NOT of Tom Cruise---yes, I feel this country is way too quick to overmedicate, these medications carry significant side effects and should be given to kids only under the most extreme circumstances. However, I don't feel it is fair to entirely blame the pharmacuetical companies. Of course, they carry a huge weight of responsibility, but that is like blaming McDonalds because you eat 3 Big Macs a week. Americans need to retrain our way of thinking to learn about delayed gratfication. We are a very spoiled country and we are used to immediate results. A pill provides results sooner than exercise and nutrition. We don't want to give up refined foods and chemical laden processed junk. And we don't want to fight with our kids when they want to eat it. I believe many children would behave far better, be calmer and more focused by simply removing refined sugars and flours, and chemicals from their diet. 
 
NOW.....that being said......my mother is 61 years old. Not a "hormonal 14 year old girl". She is bi-polar. And I challenge anyone who claims this is not a real disorder to live with an unmedicated bi-polar for one month. Experience the extreme highs and lows, the rage, the beatings, the threats of suicide, the manipulations. My mother was not medicated during my entire childhood. I am not going to go into the sordid details, but suffice it to say my upbringing was tumultous and ridden with abuse. 6 years ago my parents divorced, my mother had nowhere to go, she moved in with us, initially temporarily, she flew into a rage, pulled out a butcher knife and chased me around the house and into the street while my 6 year old watched. She then hit the lows.....locked in a room crying saying it would be best to just kill herself, she would drive to woods to do it so my son wouldn't have to see her body. After 5 trips to the ER and getting her on meds, getting the meds adjusted and getting her to stay on her meds, she is the mother I always wished I had. My husband--who had NO experience with mental illness and believed things are in your head and attituded---invited her to live with us permanently. She is a completely changed woman. You ABSOLUTELY can NOT say there is no such thing as bi-polar if you have not FIRST HAND experienced the difference between a bipolar patient on and off the proper meds. Yes, 14 year old girls are hormonal, I was hormonal and not always a pleasure to be around, but there is a significant difference. And there are indeed blood tests that can be performed to test for bi-polar.  
 
I know it sounds contridictory, but, yes, I do believe we overmedicate WAY TOO MUCH, and, yes, I do believe there are times that medication is absolutely a saving grace. Think what you like, but if it was your mother, spouse, brother/sister, and you saw the difference I know you'd think so too.