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Dr. Phil and his guests strike up heated conversations as they debate the latest hot topics. Should women give up their right to breastfeed their babies in public so other people don't feel uncomfortable? Will passing out condoms in schools prevent unwanted pregnancies or just send the message to kids that it's OK to have sex? And, is it acceptable for others to discipline your kids if they see them acting out in public, or should they just mind their own business? Dr. Phil weighs in on these controversial subjects. Share your thoughts, join the discussion.

 

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October 7, 2005, 2:47 pm PDT

My Opinion

I think that breastfeeding in public is ABSOLUTELY acceptable ,,, but SHOULD be done with tact and class ie: Covering the breasts,,,,,, that is not too much to ask,,,,,,,, i am a mom and sometimes it makes me uncomfortable to see another womans breasts in public,,,,,,,,,,,,,, so just be respectful of others and feed away!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!,,,,,,,,  

  

Condom issue!!!!!!! 

Oh my!!!! No school should be giving any child condoms,,,,, IT IS THE PARENTS JOB TO TEACH THEIR CHILD MORAL VALUES AND ABOUT SEX,,, NOT the public school systems,,,,, NO WAY,,,,, that is the parents job,,,, i think tooooooooooo many parents let the schools do their job for them,,,,, that is what i call LAZY parenting and a simple lack of care for their children,,,,... 

  

As to other people telling my child what to do................... Okay,,,,,,,,,,,, not gonna happen,, and if it does that person will get an earful from me,, the MOM,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, a stranger has noooooooooo place trying to parent someone elses child,,,,,,,,,,,,,, they should either get their own kids,,, ,,, or learn some self control,, and mind their own business,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, 

  

Jackie 

Ft Myers, Florida 

 
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Yes it is called a B-O-T-T-L-E and it is filled with a mixture of what is basically cow's milk, which was made to feed a calf, not a baby...or are you having a problem with the cow feeding her calf in public too?!! Just because it may not be for you doesn't give you the right to get sarcastic with someone else. You have the right to your opinion, but guess what, so does everybody else. This comment was rude and uncalled for!
Guess what B-O-T-T-L-E  can be filled with breast milk!!!
 
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October 7, 2005, 2:47 pm PDT

Nursing in Public

Just a few points regarding the breastfeeding debate: 

1.  I am a nursing mom who chooses to breastfeed in public.   

2.  I do not believe that your baby must be hidden under a blanket to be descreet.  I nurse WITHOUT exposing myself to anyone and without forcing my daughter under a blanket. (Her comfort is very important to me.) 

3.  I FIND IT ABSURD THAT ANYONE WOULD SAY IT IS OFFENSIVE TO SEE SOMEONE BREASTFEEDING  AT A RESTAURANT!!!!!!!   A restaurant is an eating establishment!!   Is there anyone out there that really believes they are more entitled to a meal than an infant? 

4.  Its about time that society accepted breasts for the purpose they were designed for- nourishing infants.  Mom's should have the right to feed babies- anytime, anywhere! 

 
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Yes it is called a B-O-T-T-L-E and it is filled with a mixture of what is basically cow's milk, which was made to feed a calf, not a baby...or are you having a problem with the cow feeding her calf in public too?!! Just because it may not be for you doesn't give you the right to get sarcastic with someone else. You have the right to your opinion, but guess what, so does everybody else. This comment was rude and uncalled for!
Guess what B-O-T-T-L-E  can be filled with breast milk!!!
 
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October 7, 2005, 2:47 pm PDT

Breastfeeding in pPublic

I think that women should be able to breastfeed in public, they need somewhere to feed their children, I think that women should have to put a blanket over themselves so no other person should have to see, but I do not think it is right to place the women who are breastfeeding into a bathroom to do it.  

 
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October 7, 2005, 2:47 pm PDT

Breastfeeding in public

I listened today while it was stated over and over that breastfeeding is not attractive.  Well, that's a good thing because breastfeeding mothers aren't trying to make a fashion statement.  They are nourishing their children.  I have two children, I breastfed the first, the second wouldn't take to it, and I breastfed in public.  At no time during this did I feel that I was exposing myself to the public.  I never asked for tips for the show.  I just want to know why people have such a problem with this.  Do these same people have a problem when people bring their handicapped children, that have special needs, into public?  It is practically the same thing.  Why should my child have to be shuffled around to eat his or her dinner?  I guess it will be okay to ask someone that is offending me by their dress or behavior to leave or remove themselves to a private area the next time I go to restaurant or anyplace in public.
 
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October 7, 2005, 2:47 pm PDT

Breast feeding

I  believe breast feeding is as natural as a woman having a baby.  I also believe breast feeding in public is acceptable with a little discretion.  Unless you are an exhibitionist, using something to cover one's breast while  the baby suckles, should not be a problem.  This is a beautiful form of love and should not be depressed.
 
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October 7, 2005, 2:48 pm PDT

Breast Feeding--Contraception

Dear Dr. Phil, 

  

Breast-feeding for some mothers, and all those who choose to do it, is a necessary task for a mother. The child MUST eat. As people grow and get older, they learn to bring a snack item to satisfy their hunger. As an infant, when he/she wants to eat, it has to happen. People who don't have children may not understand that fact. Babies do not understand the concept of patience. Having said that, the people who find it offensive or unattractive should simply learn to ignore it. Why should a mother have to disrupt her entire setting to please someone who might find it offensive--get over it!  How many other issues are there out there that we have to get used to? If it's offensive to you, ignore it...babies don't know how to wait and nursing mothers shouldn't be penalized for having a baby. It's a time to celebrate, not to punish the new mom. 

  

Now, condoms in school. We're not talking about dispensing condoms with the daily carton of milk on the lunch tray. It isn't as though the principal is pairing the kids off and tossing them a condom. Having that protection available is the most logical idea for adolescents today. First, abstinence is best because adolescents may not understand the total committment involved in a sexual relationship. To require that today is NOT possible. Protect your children, teach them about sex!! 

  

~A teacher in NY 

 
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 Nursing in public doesn't have to be beautiful to everyone.

It's a simple FACT that breastmilk is far superior to formula.  A child deserves the best start and that includes breastmilk.

I can understand people wanting not to "see" a breast.  When I nurse my daughter, you see less of me than you do if I were wearing a bathing suit - AND I don't cover up with a blanket either.

Think about it - do you want to eat with a blanket over your head?  Do you want to eat in the bathroom?

Neither should my child.

Grow up and look the other way if it's bothersome... but I'm not about to deny my child a better life just to please you...

C
Do your breasts stick out of your bathing suit???
 
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October 7, 2005, 2:48 pm PDT

breastfeeding in public

I breastfed my child.  I felt that it was the most normal thing in the world like breathing, eating, walking, etc.  Our society, I believe, has too many hangups.  We expect people to live as we decide.  There are worse things out in public that we can find offensive, i.e. people eating or drinking sloppy, or obnoxious behavior in public, women with more cleavage than one would be comfortable with, people wearing low rise pants, exposing too much.  We obviously don't do anything about that except look away.  We watch movies, while eating popcorn, that show more than just "one" breast, but complete nudity and that doesn't seem to deter us from continuing to watch these movies.  Breastfeeding is not sexual.  We need to see it for what it truly is.  Just feeding a baby.  Mom's could be discreet if they want to.  But as long as they are just feeding a baby, that should not be a BIG DEAL. 
 
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