Topic : 10/07 The Latest Debates

That is what we call a BINGO! Telling me that someone like you can't fathom someone would actually make a choice NOT to have children. Yet, you have no idea what my reasons are. Telling me I must be jealous got a giggle, because that is the only thing someone like you can think of. You can not actually concieve that there are woman (thousands of us) who never want children and certainly NEVER want to breastfeed. But you have no way of understanding that do you? To you means that no one loves us (despite our marriages or relationships), and no one would ever touch us (did ever dawn on your predjudice little mind that some people are gay)? Nope, all you can think is that if someone isn't exactly like you that they must be "less than" or "not worthy" somehow. Thus, my point about not showing other people any respect. You have illustrated my point perfectly. 

If you can show where I said you must eat in the restroom, please show me. I am not surprised you missed my point about the pants. It was about common consideration for others. I don't think you have any. Good day.  

To breast feed, or to bottle feed is a personal decision. Each woman is her own expert. Neither choice is wrong! 

My experiences may not be your experiences, just like each birth experience is unique. 

I bottle fed my 3 babies after researching all the facts. I never had a child with ear infections, gastro intestinal difficulties, problems with scheduling(each of my children put themselves on feeding schedules),or  trouble with going to sleep or staying asleep. 

I never had trouble bonding with my children.I did not have babies with oral thrush or yeast infections. My children had regular bowel movements. They were very healthy babies and my oldest are healthy adults.  My youngest is 8, and is also very healthy. My children are all very smart and have been advanced in school by an average of 2 years. 

These are MY experiences as a mom who chose to bottle feed. Your experiences, may be similar to mine, or very different. My experiences don't make me the expert on how to feed babies, except with my own children. Each mom needs to decide what is best for her BABY and not what she wants for herself.  

I read a message which stated that milk comes in as soon as a child is born. Again, each woman is different and that was not my experience. My breasts were engorged when I was only 4 months pregnant with my first child. I woke up soaking wet one morning, and there after during the entire pregnancy. I did not have milk with my second child--not at all. And when my 3rd child was born, milk was not produced for 6 days after the birth. So even had I wanted to breastfeed, it would have been impossible.  

I believe in discretionary breastfeeding in contrast to nondiscretionary breastfeeding. To men, breasts ARE sex objects. They may look at a breast with a baby attached and wishing all the while that he was on that breast. With all the sex crimes against women and children in our society, why would anyone want be immodest while feeding a baby?  

Should a woman be stuck in a restroom or a car to breastfeed? Absolutely not. Most women know how to nurse a baby without drawing undue attention to her private parts.