Topic : 06/06 "I'm Gay, OK?"

Eden777- 

Have you ever thought that if God truly did not want you to be homosexual, then why doesn'e he make the process fun, painless and carefree? If he truly is a gentle God, he should make people suffer like they have. It should be showing you something right there, if it is so difficult and heartbreaking to try and change....hmmmmm...logic would tell you there is no need to put yourself through that sort of suffering. It's not worth it. Because no one truly knows what happens when you die.  

And I know people are going to push back at me with words about alcohols, drug addicts, pedophiles, rapists, etc, so I will nip that in the bud right here. I am not talking about those things because those things truly can be overcome and they harm your body physically, or harm other peoples bodies physically, and that is not right. But for a person who is loving and monogomous to live thier life, IS RIGHT.  

And there are no true statistics about gay men being more or less permiscuos than straight men. So you findings are unfounded. You should be able to admit that there are extremes in sexual practices in both heterosexual and homosexual populations. Just one more way to show that we are no so different from each other! 

Your agrument doesn't hold water. 

No one's life here on earth is always "fun, painless and carefree".  We ALL have different obstacles and difficulties in our lives.  God IS a gentle God and he is not making any of us suffer!  But, due to the laws of nature some of us are born with, or without, things the rest of us aren't.   The fact that some homosexuals suffer heartbreaking lives is not proof that God didn't intend for them to be homosexual.  It is only proof of man's inhumanity to man!   

I agree with you. I know heterosexual men who would never be able to get an erection to rape another man no matter how much control they were trying to exert over another man. They would just beat the devil out of them until they either had the control they wanted or kill them.  

A true heterosexual man will never get turned on enough to have sex with another man. There would have to be homosexual tendencies here. 

I'm sorry, I should have explained myself better. I wasn't saying that "The fact that some homosexuals suffer heartbreaking lives is not proof that God didn't intend for them to be homosexual." I am homosexual myself and I don't live a suffering life, but I know many that do. 

I was saying that if it is so hard to change, heartbreaking and full of challanges, then is it really God that wants you to change? I was making reference to Eden's post about changing to hetero not being fun painless and carefee. (Btw, I believe that this type of change is 100% NOT possible) I don't think that your gentle God would want anyone to go through that kind of struggle to attempt to change who he made them to be. 

I hope this clears up the misunderstanding. 

:) Jayde 

I agree with you. I know heterosexual men who would never be able to get an erection to rape another man no matter how much control they were trying to exert over another man. They would just beat the devil out of them until they either had the control they wanted or kill them.  

A true heterosexual man will never get turned on enough to have sex with another man. There would have to be homosexual tendencies here. 

Maybe you guys should research this issue a little better.   

Start with looking into how much sex is going on in prisons.  A true heterosexual man CAN get turned on enough (by this I presume you mean an erection) to rape another man without any homosexual tendencies when what is turning him on is the violence and sense of power or control.    

Maybe you guys should research this issue a little better.   

Start with looking into how much sex is going on in prisons.  A true heterosexual man CAN get turned on enough (by this I presume you mean an erection) to rape another man without any homosexual tendencies when what is turning him on is the violence and sense of power or control.