Topic : 10/26 More Sex With Kim Cattrall!

This show was amazing.... eye opening experience.... I identify particulary with the couple where the wife doesn't like to give him blow jobs... I find it discusing myself ... I recently walked out of a 2 + year relationship with a guy who loved me very much but one who need sex to "survive" is like he wants to have it for breakfast, lunch, dinner and any time in between... I am only 23 years old but I am also a single mother and sex is just one of the last things in my mind... if I have it once a week I would be just fine with me... oral sex is also a huge issue... i did it alot during the begining of the relationship but i never liked it, i figure that i need it to compromise and do something that i might didn't like just to keep him happy... He tells me that i i ever want to be married and happy that i need to compromise in the sex department but really am i going to have to have sex every other day??? if that if that is the case then I  just will be happy as a single woman and I will just invest on a really good vibrator :) 

I been taking the pill for the last 2+ years... does this affects the sex drive?????? Help!!!!! 

I will add my hand or a vibe to something he is doing if I need to-we both want it to be great there shouldn't be any shame to it.  If your husband stops foreplay too soon, maybe try a mutual position, where you are doing things to him too. We can do that stuff for hours and my guy doesn't seem in a hurry to move on. 

Why did you marry him in the first place? 

"Tape it", was good, and quick advice ... too bad you missed it if you did not tape it, but more unfortunate, is to bad you "could not let my 15 year old" watch it.  What a wonderful opportunity you missed!  At 15, she is either already sexually active, or has been pressured to be.  No child should have been turned away from watchig  .. if any were interested enough to sit and watch, then they were already old enough to do so, and the opportunity for parental education should not have been missed. Sham on you Dr. Phil for even suggesting that the kids should have been sent outside. 

Why do you think kids are more sexually active than ever -- becuase thier parents educated them!?? Not!  Be responsible and couragous -- let them be curious and inquisitive on your watch, and tell then the truth! 

I must say, the show seems very interesting. I really do not know what to say as far as the guests on the show and how the women feel about intimate times with their husbands. I have not been in their shoes, so it would not be nice for me to make an unfair judgment. Passion and making love is something wonderfully designed between two people that love each other. I think if a woman has issues about it, she should talk to her husband about it privately and help him understand what she would desire from him. If there are certain things she is not doing, then the husband should be respectful about it, not persistent in asking her to do something she does not want to do, even if she was to fake it just to please her husband. It has to be real, not fake. She should enjoy intimacy and shareing her love with her husband. I am not saying that this is the case. There could be numerous reasons as to why these things are not comfortable for women such as the ones from the show.  

The comment about the threesome I read, how unhealthy. I would not even  dare think about it if I was married. That is not a wise decision. What was that person thinking.