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Created on : Thursday, October 20, 2005, 02:52:57 pm

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She played the part of sexy “Samantha Jones” in the hit TV series Sex and the City. Now Kim Cattrall has written her second book about female sexuality. She joins Dr. Phil to help couples with questions achieve sexual satisfaction. Wayne and Erin were virgins when they got married. Now, two years later, Erin still isn't achieving the big "O." Then, Tom wishes his wife, Kathy, would make some noise in the bedroom. She says she's just shy -- so why does she moan when she eats good food? Plus, he begs her to do it, but she thinks it's disgusting. Hear Dr. Phil's advice for an engaged couple facing oral sex issues. And, a married couple asks how to put the fire back in their sex life. This show is strictly adults only.

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jewelsy

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October 27, 2005, 12:56 pm PDT

10/26 More Sex With Kim Cattrall!

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When I read about an up coming show with the couple who were virgins' when they got married,my heart sank. I believe with all my heart that people SHOULD NOT WAIT for marriage to have sex. That idea is really impractical. I am not saying people should sleep around and have sex with anyone they meet,but would you buy a car without a test drive! There is a real possibility that you and the person you think is your perfect mate may not be sexually compatable! You my be adventurous and they,more conservetive.What if they have desires that you find disgusting?

My mother waited and tells me"If I would have tried it before I married,I damn sure wouldn't have married it." My Grandmother(who is nearly 80)says "Young people should live togther before they get married because you never really know someone til you have lived with them"

I tell my kids'(daughter 13 , son 18)they should wait til the subject of marriage comes up,but not waiting doesn't them immoral people.

Four months ago I married the man the kids and I have lived with for 5 years! And no,neither one of feel we were a bad influence on the kids.

sincerly,

Mrs.Stud

P.S. His kids' (ages 23-31)thought it was a good idea to live togher first,too!

I waited till I got married and it was awesome. No problems with compatability or anything. Everyone kept telling me that my first time wouldn't be good. But it was sooooo much fun (not as good as now, but beautiful and special and very comfortable). There is nothing wrong with waiting. For those that are waiting, it is very important to talk about sex with your future husband beforehand. It will make it sooo much better, I promise, because you will know eachother's expectations. Waiting was cool because we got to explore our sexuality together and when things get rough emotionally it is a comfort to know that that act is ours and we just belong to eachother.

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October 27, 2005, 1:03 pm PDT

I hear Ya LOUD and CLEAR!!!

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Is there any other women out there that really have a great husband but just could careless about sex? I love my husband but I could take it or leave it! How many women complain about this very thing? It's always the women that don't want the sex. When is someone gonna figure out what's wrong? I could talk to 10 women and 9 out of 10 don't want sex. I really don't think some book may cure this problem with women. Although I am always open to reading them. I will be 39 in 8 days and my kids are 18 and 15 so I don't have small babies and this is my second marriage. We will be married for 8 years and he is a great man. I would love to know when I will have a sex drive. It really bothers me that he wants sex all the time and I don't. Please let me know I am not the only one with this problem!

You are not the only one here. I feel the same way. I am 38, I have 4 children 20,19,17,15 all girls and I have a wonderful husband and NO SEX DRIVE...... He wants it all the time and well I could do with out it. I have no idea how to fix me either. We even go as far as to fight about it. It really bothers me too. I have even asked my doctor and she said it was all in my head that I needed to think about it more and that there wasn't a pill for a women. Well I have enough stuff going thru my head, and even to sit and think about it, it still don't do anything for me.... So I too am open for suggestions.. if you have any PLEASE let me kow!!!!!

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October 27, 2005, 1:44 pm PDT

10/26 More Sex With Kim Cattrall!

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i've been married to my husband for 22 years. i'm not physically attracted to him at all. i avoid sex at all costs. he's so bad at it. i feel like i'm with an inexperienced 16 year old. he's awkward and fumbles around my body. i actually have plugged my hears so i didn't have to hear him breathing and slobbering all over me. we have 2 grown daughters. i'm 41. i can't spend the rest of my good sex years like this! please don't write and tell me to "talk" to him. how do you tell a man he's a slob in bed and not crush him? he's a good husband and a good father. we have a nice life. we keep ourselves in good shape and look pretty darn good. i know it's not my libido. i see other men and i am "ready" to go just looking at them. i get turned on pretty easy just by flirting. it's dangerous.

Oh my gosh how can you not be attracted to your own husband?? DId something happen between the two of you that you don't find him attrative? I have to be honest my husband has some troubles in bed too and I sometimes find him a bit fumbly but you have to change that and take charge and show him what you do like. Sex is a big issue amongst many married couples and I think that in many cases it can lead to divorce but I know you don't want to see that happen because you have A LOT to lose. It sounds as though you have a wonderful family , a husband that loves you very much, you are healthy and active but that one thing is missing.......I seriously would think about going to a sex therapist too!! I know it might be scarey and intimidating but for 22 years of marriage I would think it would be worth it. Is your sex like live explorative do you guys try new things??? TOYS? VIDEOS?YOU DRESSING UP?? FOOD, FLAVORED OILS AND WHIPPED CREAM! They are all very fun and add so much to sex. Good Luck!

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October 27, 2005, 1:54 pm PDT

10/26 More Sex With Kim Cattrall!

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You are not the only one here. I feel the same way. I am 38, I have 4 children 20,19,17,15 all girls and I have a wonderful husband and NO SEX DRIVE...... He wants it all the time and well I could do with out it. I have no idea how to fix me either. We even go as far as to fight about it. It really bothers me too. I have even asked my doctor and she said it was all in my head that I needed to think about it more and that there wasn't a pill for a women. Well I have enough stuff going thru my head, and even to sit and think about it, it still don't do anything for me.... So I too am open for suggestions.. if you have any PLEASE let me kow!!!!!

You know I have to say that I don't have a very high sex drive either and I am only 26 so it kinda sucks. I have been married for 5 yrs. and we have had a very bumpy road when it comes to sex. I hate to admit this because I use to howler at him for looking at it and he doesn't any more but you know one day I got curious so I began to look at some tastefully done nude men and women on the website....not porn just pictures of naked people and as I would look I became very excited and many times would fantasize. I don't know if you are comfortable with yourself and do self stimulation but it's a great feeling if you don't so I many times would look at the pictures and begin to mastrubate and then I would be more in the mood for sex. I have a personal question too which maybe someone can help.....I am not attracted to woman nor do I want to have relations with woman but on occasion I have though about woman during sex what does this mean and has anyone else ever had this happen??

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October 27, 2005, 2:30 pm PDT

New Uma Movie

I just saw the trailer or the new Uma movie ..... and I quote, "we have sex on very piece of furniture in the house!" Something to those lines anyhow. But you see where kids are getting info from?

The images .....the music videos and the list goes on.

If I could have sex on every piece of furniture .... and you say 15 is too young for sex talk ?

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October 27, 2005, 3:03 pm PDT

Another point on Muscle Control......

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I do understand how you feel. My husband and have been together for 7 years two of which we have been married. Sex in the begining of our relationship was great it was new and exciting and we had fun and now we too are lucky to have it once a month. We have gone as long as 4 months so I do know where you are coming from. We are both in our late 20's and it just doesn't seem right that we are having sex so little. We have had so many numerous talks about it and it comes down to the fact that I am tired of initiating it and until you do I am not going to do it. I want to feel needed and actracted to him. He says that he is nervous to initiate because we have had so many problems with our sex life and he is afraid I will say no and it's too much of a let down for him. I have told him though I want to have sex I need to have sex so he knows I want to but he just won't initiate it. I just hate the fact that he can mastrubate when I am in the house but not come to me and attempt at having sex together. I am not sure what to tell you either but I wanted you to know that there is someone else out here who understands.

Mlfota... there is one other story I want to add to this...... about Musle Tone...... I remember reading this book or article and it was a long time ago, but it was about a certain sect of women in foreign 3rd world countries ..... and about all the effort they put toward increasing the muscle strength of their pelvic muscles.... and one of their goals was to make their um so strong and in control that it had the grip of a human fist.... that would be an interesting subject to research with all your requests on this board for ideas.... and thus effecting both parties.... I wish I could think of it but it's been years ago... I read cook books now at least until I divorce my husband and find someone to run off with and hopefully in that order...... but I hope this helps......

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October 27, 2005, 3:29 pm PDT

10/26 More Sex With Kim Cattrall!

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I think it would be kind of ofensive if I asked him to wash down there before we got at it??? I know I would be offeneded

If you straight out asked him to wash, i agree that would offend almost anyone. The shower idea is a great one and it's fun! Beware of the cologne shower gels, or anything with a strong smell....it will also have a strong taste!

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October 27, 2005, 3:32 pm PDT

what's wrong with me??

MY husband and I have been married for 21/2 years and have been trying to have a baby for 11/2 yrs.and have had no success.We looked into infertility specialists and have found out that we are both normal.And happen to be the 5% unexplained reason for not getting pregnant and through all this having sex isn't fun anymore.There is soooooooooooo much pressure during sex to conceive.I know I have to relax and not be stressed and all that but it's easier said then done.Also now in the last almost 2 months I've been experienced pain during sex and the doctors says it's lack of sexual excitement and that my husband has been bangging into my cervic and now its painful.But There are times were I feel very sexually excided,produces wetness and enjoying it and all and there still is the pain...I am soooo fricken frustrated with this pain way down inside,I've never felt this kind of pain and I had std testing,a vaginal ultrasound,and 2 exams by two different doctors.And nobody can help me,what is wrong with me????

concerned in california

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October 27, 2005, 3:44 pm PDT

the gag reflex

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About the "gag" reflex. Wait to swallow until he is completely finished. Then you won't gag...

I gag the split second I taste a tiny tiny bit of semen in my mouth,what do I do about that???

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October 27, 2005, 3:59 pm PDT

10/26 More Sex With Kim Cattrall!

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I gag the split second I taste a tiny tiny bit of semen in my mouth,what do I do about that???

I can't even get my man to cum during a BJ what am I doing wrong and even if he did I don't think I could swallow either.....gosh I gag when I wipe myself off sometimes and the texture of it seems so gross to me. I wish I could get excited off of that!

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