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Created on : Thursday, October 20, 2005, 02:52:57 pm

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She played the part of sexy “Samantha Jones” in the hit TV series Sex and the City. Now Kim Cattrall has written her second book about female sexuality. She joins Dr. Phil to help couples with questions achieve sexual satisfaction. Wayne and Erin were virgins when they got married. Now, two years later, Erin still isn't achieving the big "O." Then, Tom wishes his wife, Kathy, would make some noise in the bedroom. She says she's just shy -- so why does she moan when she eats good food? Plus, he begs her to do it, but she thinks it's disgusting. Hear Dr. Phil's advice for an engaged couple facing oral sex issues. And, a married couple asks how to put the fire back in their sex life. This show is strictly adults only.

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tebssis

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October 26, 2005, 2:11 pm PDT

Christians and Sex

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Amen to that! We are also a Christian family who believe you should wait until marriage to have sex and we don't believe in shacking up either. Unfortunatly not everyone will agree, because they are blind to the things of this world. God bless you!

You say you don't want your teenagers watching this show because you are Christians, but if they don't learn about sex from you or tv shows that deal with it in a clinicial environment like this, they WILL learn it from their peers. And as we all know, kids nowdays are interested in some extreme things, like the "choking game". Wouldn't you rather be the one to tell them this isn't the "fun" thing their peers might tell them it is?

IMO, God didn't intend for us to be like ostriches with our heads stuck in the sand, he intended for us to make our way in the world and spread His Word where we could even if that meant exposing ourselves to lifestyles that we, ourselves, didn't choose.

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mommyof_2

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October 26, 2005, 2:14 pm PDT

10/26 More Sex With Kim Cattrall!

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The couple that had the oral sex issue, the women was also "in a round about way" asking for help for the desire to have sex. Sex has been an issue since the baby. When she mentioned "if there was a pill" that was a big clue. She didn't mean a pill for wanting to participate in oral sex but a pill helping her want to participate in any sex. She states if he buys her things then he gets lucky. He is not getting lucky with oral sex but sex. Rewatch that segment...there are a few times she states things that are obviously sexual issues SINCE the baby. I have three children and after every one of them i had this same lack of desire and went to my doctors. My doctors just kinda blew me off. I now know there are creams, etc for helping a woman's desire. Please recontact this woman. It is such a horrible place to be. Wanting to have the desire for sex but not having it.

I think the oral sex issue is something she may never want but I think she is wanting the desire to have sex again and doesn't know where to go.

I totally agree with you. She definately had more issues with sex than just the oral sex issue. I have the same issues. My husvand and I have been together for 14 years and I just do not have the desire to do it anymore. I just watched the sjow and was hoping he would have gave some more answers about how to get the spark back in your marriage. I thought with the last couple he would so that but it wasn't enough. Any suggestions, anyone??? Will I ever feel like i did when we first met?? and really WANT to have sex and not just do it because I feel like I have to??

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October 26, 2005, 2:16 pm PDT

Tired!

I live with my fiance and enjoy sex very much. My problem is that he wants to have sex EVERY night!! I have a 22 month son (fiance not the father) he was born 13 weeks early and is developmentaly delayed and he has therapy 4 days a week and usually several doctors apppointments a month. He also has food allergies so I am always making his food. My family just got in a terriable car accident and my 22 year old sister suffered a stroke from it. She is in a rehab center 2 hours away and I visit her once or twice a week. I am alone taking care of my son all day, cleaning, grocery shopping and cooking. When he gets home we eat and watch TV. He hates our house dirty so I always tring to pick up. I put my son to bed and I am ready just to sleep but we HAVE to have sex every night. I am just so tired. I enjoy sex but it has gotten to where I now we are going to have it every night. It isn't just spontaneous and I know it can't be but the excitement is gone. Some nights I tell him I am just to tired and he gets mad. He said that he is a man and it is his need, men are different. He said he enjoys connecting with me on that level. It has caused a few big fights so I don't even say no anymore I just have sex to get it over with so I am go to sleep. I don't want it to ruin our sex life. Any advice?

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October 26, 2005, 2:19 pm PDT

birth control pill causes decreased libido

my wife and I discovered that when she started her birth control pills that her libido almost disappeared. After she quit taking them her libido was back to normal after a few weeks. I was disappointed that there was no mention of this cause and effect on today's show.

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October 26, 2005, 2:22 pm PDT

10/26 More Sex With Kim Cattrall!

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i have been with my husband for 11 years all together and 5 years of that is married.our sex life was great at first until we had kids and then he started to accuse me of cheating,now i really never want to have sex and he does every time i turn around but he doesn't kiss me or nothing.all he wants to do is get on and off also i am having another problem he always wants oral sex too.so it seems like it's about him and not me he don't care if he is pleasing me or not just as long as he gets what he wants.does anyone got any comments about what i can do.

Wow-that sounds awful! I really feel for you. Have you talked to him about this? Does he know that you need more from him? If you haven't had that talk, try it but NOT when you are in bed, when you two are just hanging out. Don't concentrate on the past or negatives-just describe what you would love your sex life to be like...explicitly. My guy loves to hear me express my desire for him.

One thing you can do to slow this boy down is play hard to get. Struggle and wrestle a bit-but laugh and tease him so he knows you are playing. We often play around like that and it is really fun.

I know for me, oral sex can be spectacular but I need foreplay for my mouth first. If he kisses and bites my mouth and fondles it with his hand, I enjoy a BJ immensely and I know I do it much better. Maybe if you talk about that with him, he would try it? It's a win/win because you both enjoy it more.

There are so many things that a couple can do to enjoy physical love. Maybe you could ask him about sharing oral sex more-in a 69 position if you enjoy that?

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October 26, 2005, 2:23 pm PDT

Being Happly married

Could not believe someone said that marriages only last 5-7 yrs.

Nancy and I married in 1962 while we were both in college. We were in love then and we are still in love and still finding the other attractive---some 43+ years later.

Nancy and I look forward to my retirement in 2007 (we will both be 66). She has already retired.

People can give up and fall out of love--or they can work at it and have a great life togther.

Sure you "slow down" some as you pass 50 but there are things you can still do to enjoy each other.

I think your guest today is off base on why marriages fail. Like in work and play --people either give up or quit trying--but that does not have to be the norm.

bobnancy

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October 26, 2005, 2:24 pm PDT

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What if you chose a position during intercourse where you would get the same stimulation as you do manually? Would that work for you?

I have heard that the woman-on-top position can offer that ability, and maybe I am going about it wrong, but I am not sure how. I have tried manually stimulating myself while having sex, but it is too much distraction. To reach an orgasm, I have to be totally relaxed and feeling no pressure. I think that is why I have a hard time when he is doing oral. I feel pressure to get there, and sometimes I think that is the reason I don't. Plus, sometimes he doesn't continue with that foreplay long enough for me to reach an orgasm, so we can move on... thinking we both can still get there. How do I now express I need more? The problem is that I have lied so long. He thinks I orgasm almost everytime we have sex. I have set a precedence and now I am stuck faking it otherwise he takes it bad and feels guilt when I don't have an orgasm. What do I do now????????

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judyblue22

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October 26, 2005, 2:26 pm PDT

10/26 More Sex With Kim Cattrall!

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MY PROBLEM IS THAT I HAD A HYSTERECTOMY SEVERAL YEARS AGO AND I'VE TRIED EVERY THING TO GET IN THE MOOD. MY HUSBAND ALWAYS WANTS IT AND I HAVE NO DESIRE AT ALL TOO. HAVE ANY SUGGESTIONS?????? I USED TO WANT IT ALL THE TIME LIKE HE DOES AND NOW HE CAN'T UNDERSTAND WHY I HAVE NO DESIRE ANYMORE.

I'M ANGRY ABOUT IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

That sounds more like a medical problem. What does your physician say?

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October 26, 2005, 2:28 pm PDT

Catch phrase

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What is Dr. Phil's old/new phrase he says all the time? My friend is being Dr. Phil for Halloween and I wanted to get him a key line to say all night!

"How's that working for ya?"

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October 26, 2005, 2:30 pm PDT

Pack a Picnic

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Dr. Phil comes on at 3 in the afternoons where I live. My kids are usually home from school at this time. I don't think this topic should be discussed in time periods where kids can listen in. The topics that are going to be discussed should not be heard by kids. I know I can just turn off the tv but sometimes my kids turn on the tv without me knowing it. They love watching Dr. Phil. They are 13 and 15. We are a Christian family and believe in waiting until marriage. We don't believe in shacking up either. I certainly don't want them exposed to some liberal ideas like this show's guest probably will have.

I say ...If You are Afraid Of Them Turning On Tv..Then Pack Them up and Go To The Park Where There is No Tv...and There yall can Spend Quailty Time Togeather and You wont Have To worry..There Are Those Of Us That would Like To watch This...and Some Of Us Have Had Children and They are Now Older and Gone From The Next So Timing Is Not a Issue..

Good Luck..and Have Fun With Your Kids

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