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Created on : Thursday, October 20, 2005, 02:52:57 pm

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She played the part of sexy “Samantha Jones” in the hit TV series Sex and the City. Now Kim Cattrall has written her second book about female sexuality. She joins Dr. Phil to help couples with questions achieve sexual satisfaction. Wayne and Erin were virgins when they got married. Now, two years later, Erin still isn't achieving the big "O." Then, Tom wishes his wife, Kathy, would make some noise in the bedroom. She says she's just shy -- so why does she moan when she eats good food? Plus, he begs her to do it, but she thinks it's disgusting. Hear Dr. Phil's advice for an engaged couple facing oral sex issues. And, a married couple asks how to put the fire back in their sex life. This show is strictly adults only.

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scarlett65

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October 26, 2005, 4:30 pm PDT

I have a suggestion

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Isn't there anyone out there who has any suggestions to this???

Why not try having an orgasm first, and spend as much time as you need, while he has to watch and wait then it might be more fullfilling for you.
Just a suggestion.
Or does it bother you to masterbate beforehand???
Nothing worse than years of sexual frustration.
I would be frustrated not being satisfied by my man, after I spend so much time on his enjoyment. It's time you make your enjoyment a prioirty.
Have a blessed day.

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October 26, 2005, 4:31 pm PDT

about oral sex

I have always had a bit of an uneasy feeling performing oral sex on my husband. I think a lot of that was that I was unsure of how to do it and get some middle ground on it. I told my husband right away that I love oral sex and I would love to please him in that way as often as possible. I just felt that he shouldn't have to ejaculate in my mouth every single time. So my advice to the girl who didn't like giving would be to establish some middle ground. Lets face it a man isn't going to complain as long as he's getting something out of it. I perform oral sex for a minute at times or 10 minutes at a time. My husband rarely ejaculates in my mouth. I get him to the point and I get on. The more I do it the longer I like doing it and every once and a while I will do it all the way.

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October 26, 2005, 4:31 pm PDT

10/26 More Sex With Kim Cattrall!

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Funny how easy it is for one to presume to know God's intentions when it is convenient, yet reject His teachings when they become uncomfortable. Allow me to clue you in. As Christians, we are called to be in the world, notof it. There is no justification for deliberately placing ourselves or others in "the line of fire," so to speak. It is quite possible to parents to talk to their kids about sex without enlisting the "help" of adult-content programming. And as much as I enjoy the show, it can't exactly be considered a "clinical" setting in a television studio, in front of 20+million viewers.

I think that you have every right to not want your kids to watch this show. I don't have any children of my own yet....(trying wish me luck) but when it's comes to something as serious as sex you want your children to learn the rights and wrongs of sex, relationships and intimacy not what television sometimes makes it out to be which many of the times isn't in any way shape or form appropriate. So more power to you. It's great that you are that involved in your childrens life anyhow to know what they are watching! We want to be models for our children and mold them into strong, respected human beings so do what you need to do to protect your children from the things we feel is unhealthy!!!

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October 26, 2005, 4:33 pm PDT

10/26 More Sex With Kim Cattrall!

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I highly doubt that those off us that are aware of the fact that there is a sexual revolution taking place for women in this country, give it up to every Tom, Dick, or Harry. The fact that women are finally taking a stand and openly expressing their sexuality is amazing. I'm not quite sure that the word purity has ever sounded so offensive to me. This is not 1962 and those of us that are strong, confident women in every aspect of our lives, are most certainly not sluts.

Hang on there...I'm kinda proud of the fact that I am my husband's slut-lol. I agree with you though, about all the bible-thumpers "taking our purity seriously" does sound offensive to me. For me and my husband, sex ISN'T serious, it is fun and I don't think about my "purity" all the time, thanks all the same.

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October 26, 2005, 4:38 pm PDT

10/26 More Sex With Kim Cattrall!

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The segment about the couple with the oral sex issue did not go into enough depth for me. I feel that the wife's situation wasn't such a quick fix as Dr. Phil made it out to be. The way it was presented was that the husband was pressuring the wife into something that she did not want to do, but it was obvious that she was doing it on a regular basis. And as far as her feeling like she was being prostituted, accepting gifts isn't any different from accepting money for gifts. My belief is that you don't start nothing you can't finish. If she was so strongly against oral sex, that should have been made clear from the start of the relationship. Contrary to popular belief, men are not always looking for a "freak" to have an intimate relationship with. If women were to use an honest and up-front approach to their sexual preferences in the beginning, they wont sell themselves short in the end.

Bravo!
And well said!

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October 26, 2005, 4:39 pm PDT

10/26 More Sex With Kim Cattrall!

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I think sex is wonderful, I can't even imagine anyone not being or having sexual desires! I feel sorry for people who don't even know how to bring their own selves to orgasms. I'm not making fun of them, it's just sad in my own opinion. I started having strong sexual desires when I was a young child. These are natural desires that God gave to each and everyone of us. I know that these desires are meant for our enjoyment, but they are not meant for any kind of abuse at all. Sexual abuse or rape is not normal and people who hurt others this way should be put away forever!!!

You also cannot force a man or a woman to do something such as oral sex if they don't want too! Let them enjoy what they want and quit picking on them because they don't want to do what you want. Enjoy what they give you already.

I can't even imagine not ever wanting sex, my body needs it like I need to eat! That simple!

By the way I want sex more than my husband; but I'm not going to belittle him because he doesn't want it as much as I do. Also I'm very visual, I get excited , turned on by looking at other men and listening to other men's voices while on the telephone. Have a great day.

Do you have any suggestions for me then because I can pleasure myself but I am unable to have an orgasm during sex??

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October 26, 2005, 4:40 pm PDT

10/26 More Sex With Kim Cattrall!

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I think that you have every right to not want your kids to watch this show. I don't have any children of my own yet....(trying wish me luck) but when it's comes to something as serious as sex you want your children to learn the rights and wrongs of sex, relationships and intimacy not what television sometimes makes it out to be which many of the times isn't in any way shape or form appropriate. So more power to you. It's great that you are that involved in your childrens life anyhow to know what they are watching! We want to be models for our children and mold them into strong, respected human beings so do what you need to do to protect your children from the things we feel is unhealthy!!!

I have an 11 year old son, whom I've openly discussed sex with for over a year. There's no way I would have let him watch today's show, but it was said from the beginning, "send the kids outside". Loved this show.

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October 26, 2005, 4:41 pm PDT

Natural Sexual Healing

Something that helps things happen naturally, is simply being naked with your sweetie (in privacy, of course). In the privacy of your room/home, relax naked, lounge naked, play/massage naked, bathe together, lie down in bed and sleep naked. Try it without expectations and allow nature to slowly take its course. Again, begin with no expectations and simply enjoy the relaxation together. You'll eventually notice how simply moving, sleeping and waking naked makes your bodies happy and hungry for each other.

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October 26, 2005, 4:45 pm PDT

10/26 More Sex With Kim Cattrall!

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Hang on there...I'm kinda proud of the fact that I am my husband's slut-lol. I agree with you though, about all the bible-thumpers "taking our purity seriously" does sound offensive to me. For me and my husband, sex ISN'T serious, it is fun and I don't think about my "purity" all the time, thanks all the same.

Thanks for the support:-) I too would consider myself 'my man's slut' (which I'm quite proud of), but this crap about sleeping around because I'm not a virgin and I live with the man I love, just pisses me off. I'm a 31 year old mother and I don't need anyone telling me what my morality should consist of.

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October 26, 2005, 4:45 pm PDT

10/26 More Sex With Kim Cattrall!

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I have an 11 year old son, whom I've openly discussed sex with for over a year. There's no way I would have let him watch today's show, but it was said from the beginning, "send the kids outside". Loved this show.

Good for you! That is great that you took charge and did what you felt was in the best interest of your son! Yeah awesome show wasn't it! It truely helped me.

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