Topic : 10/26 More Sex With Kim Cattrall!

I taped the show today, and I am just now watching it.  I am an advide Sex and The City watcher, I have all the DVD's, and I admire and adore Kim Cattrall.  She was my favorite on the show.  I am VERY comfortable with my own sexuality, and feel I have something in common with Samantha Jones.  I first want to just say that the reason why most women do not want to do "the job" is because it is a dirty place to have your mouth.  Think of where it has been, and where it hangs, and what comes out of it, I mean it isn't the greatest thing to do.... I certainly understand why women don't want to do the job.  I don't paticularly like it, but I do it anytime my husband wants me to.  I love him unconditionally and I suck it up and take care of him, litterally... hee hee   

What seems rather ironic to me about someone calling people who disagree with a "no sex outside of marriage" doctrine "blind to the things of this world" is that typically those who 

hold such a belief, through the intently sheltering and all too often shaming power of religion, 

are the ones who are most blind about what they so disparaginly refer to as "the things of this world." 

I emerged, over a period of many years, from a really strong background in Southern Baptist Christianity.  While I still have friends within the church, many of whom are really intelligent and compassionate people (in spite of the plethora of negative stereotypes that would indicate such could not exist), I am very glad to have shed for me what was a suffocating layer of well meaning but harmful religiosity that kept me quite estranged from myself. 

Since many in this country tend to come from really religious backgrounds, I suspect that that is one of the reasons so many of us who are a little older have trouble opening up to the fuller range 

of our experience as women, both sexually and in so many other ways in our lives. 

How about what the show was about?  How about the 3 couples?   

I really think that for all 3 'Setting the mood" would help A LOT.  What about sqeaky clean partners, fresh from a bath or shower, a little fragrance, a little lotion or oil for massage or ? , some wine or champagne, a little candle light, and a little mood music.   Knowing you have your partner's full attention and focus, that they have made every effort to make you relaxed and comfortable, can make all the difference........ ;)