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(Original Air Date: 10/28/05) Being a mom is hard enough, but imagine juggling soccer, PTA meetings, homework and carpools all while trying to cover up a secret life of drug addiction. Dr. Phil follows up with some moms who say they were junkies. Joani, a mother of two, couldn't get through a half hour without shooting up -- and she was a nurse in a drug rehabilitation center! It's been six months -- how is she now? Then, Stephanie was addicted to Vicodin and took 60 times the recommended dosage every day. She's been clean for four months, but now has a new problem. Plus, a viewer inspired by Stephanie checks herself into rehab. Join the discussion.

 

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March 29, 2006, 12:03 pm PST

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Thanks to Steve and Jenoc (I hope that's correct) for your kind comments on my rather verbose post. I hoped it would shed some clinical research light on the subject along with some of my practical experience. 

  

Those on-line Vicodin suppliers are quite upsetting to me. I don't even like writing 90-day prescriptions for mail-in. That's too much medication to have at one time. And the real risk, unbeknownst to most people, is not the hydrocodone amount but the tylenol! The maximum safe dose per day is 4000mg. Most Vicodin or Lortab dosages contain 500mg of tylenol, regardless of the hydrocodone dose. That means the maximum number of tablets a day you should take, whether you take 5, 7.5, or 10mg of hydrocodone in the pill, is 8 tablets if the pill contains 500 mg of tylenol. Common dosages are 5/500, 7.5/500, 10/500, 7.5/750, 10/325, and 10/650.  Sometimes I will write a prescription for 10/500 with the instructions for 1/2 to 1 tablet every 4 hours rather than 5/500 with instructions for 1-2 every 4 hours if I feel the patient might need the stronger hydrocodone dose as opposed to the tylenol in it.  

  

There is a very real problem called "Iatrogenic pseudoaddiction". This means the doctor is underprescribing pain meds for a legitimate painful condition, causing the patient to not quite get relief. The patient then tells the doctor he/she needs a higher dose or an additional dose to be able to function normally. An astute doctor well versed in pain management will understand this is NOT a plea to "get drugs". This is a legitimate update to the doctor as to how the pain management is going. The patient's daily functioning is not quite normal, which is what the patient desires.  

  

In keeping good notes, I ask patients on a 1-10/10 scale, what is the worst pain without medication, the best relief with it, and at what level do they feel the need for additional medication. Also what activities can they not do because of pain. Sometimes it's not a pain medication but a muscle relaxer that is needed, so careful questioning is important. On follow-up, I ask what the patient can NOW DO given the current medication dose. If the patient says, "Doc, I'm so much better, but I'm just not quite there. I can't stand as long as I have to at work. The meds don't allow me to sleep through the night. Etc.," I'm going to take the patient at his/her word and make adjustments. Usually it means instituting a long-acting medication and filling in with a short-acting one for break-through pain, which hopefully will be only a couple of times a day when the person is most active. NOW if the person just NEVER seems to be satisfied and "that other medication" always seemed to have worked better now that we've switched, that's a red flag that the patient may be after more than just pain relief. 

  

My point with the above is there are too many doctors who immediately presume a patient who complains about the current dose being inadequate is wrongly labeled a drug-seeker when the problem lies with inadequate treatment. And, quite frankly my dear patients, there are far too many doctors who just don't give a damn! I'm not one of them, which is why I have a lion's share of chronic pain patients.  

  

I have 3 principles in my practice of medicine: Respect, Listen, and Believe. RESPECT the patient regardless of age, gender, economic station, or past history. You may be the first person to give this person a fresh start. LISTEN to what the patient (or representative if he/she is a child or quite elderly) with all your senses. It's not just the words spoken that convey the message and you might miss it if you aren't careful. BELIEVE what you are told unless you have a VERY compelling reason not to. Assure the patient that you will always be truthful AND you expect the same. Many patients have not had that experience in a doctor's office. If you haven't, tell your doctor and find someone who will follow these tenents. 

  

A couple of people have made the statement "I'm addicted to my antidepressant." I've got news for you--so am I! I had a problem with depression in the winter for years. When I finally realized the pattern, I did make sure I had plenty of light around. I didn't start med school until I was 33 (with kids 4, 6, and 9--and a fantastic husband who is still with me!) and I was smart enough to arrange my 3rd year schedule to have surgery during December and January with the logic being I would spend several hours a day under those bright lights in surgery. It made the rotation tolerable. The next year I knew I had residency decisions to make, and even though I was rather sure of what I planned to do, I was concerned that I'd hit one of those down periods and I didn't want that to happen. Prozac was finally commonplace then. I was started on it the first week in December. Three weeks later I felt like it was the middle of July! It was the best thing I ever did in my life. That June, I made the stupid decision to try and stop taking it--only to start bursting into tears if someone started to criticize me. Interns MUST have thick skins and "there's no crying in internship." I restarted the medication.  

  

The guidelines for antidepressant use are to take it for a MINIMUM of 9 MONTHS to a YEAR if this is your first episode. If this is your second or later episode of depression, you may need to take it longer, or you may even need to take it for life. This is not a sign of failure in your life. It's a neurochemical imbalance. Of course there are other possible problems you could have that might be wrong if your antidepressant doesn't seem to be working, but that's for another time. 

  

For those of you with chronic pain and depression, Cymbalta has been found to be an excellent medication you may want to discuss with your doctor. It hits both serotonin and norepinephrine and may even allow you to get by on less pain medication than you needed before. This is where I'll make another personal confession. I have a severe case of fibromyalgia, one of the reasons I have a great interest in chronic pain management. I started on Cymbalta over a year ago when I was in the midst of a terrible fibro flair. I was able to decrease my pain medications tremendously after starting this. Of course not everybody responds in the same way, but it was a blessing to me. 

  

As a family physician for the past 11 years, having come into the profession at a later age, I hope I have been helpful in passing along some practical knowledge in these subject areas.  These are tough topics. I hate for those with legitimate pain problems to be made to feel as though taking their necessary medications makes them addicts when they are nothing of the sort. I don't like needing medication. I have no "craving" for medication. I take what I need on a schedule that allows me to be a normal person, as do the overwhelming majority of chronic pain patients. Needing to get that "extra buzz" by taking increasingly higher doses is NOT what the chronic pain patient does. THAT is what the ADDICT does--however "high functioning" he or she perceives him/herself to be. There's a preoccupation with "needing that higher dose" and NOT with "needing enough". MAJOR DIFFERENCE. 

  

I wish you all well and I hope I have helped answer some of the questions that may have been eating at some of you.  

Blessings for now and for always, 

DocDebbee 

i read you message and just wanted to know if there was any help for me.  i have been taking pain mediccation for about 6 years and across mu tolerance has built and im dependent on it.  do uou know anything about suboxne? will this drug help me or anyone else?
 
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May 17, 2006, 2:31 pm PDT

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Hi, 

My name is Maureen.  I am a recovering addict.  I have 10 yrs. clean.  I was into meth, I snorted, smoked, and slammed it.  I am now a school bus driver and a mother of an 11 yr. old that I adore.  I am in the process of going to school to get my license in Az.  My dream is to open a residential treatment center for women and there children.  In AZ there is not much treatment wise.  I just want to give a little back that was given to me and my daughter.  Getting clean was the hardest thing that I ever had to do.  I went through 5 different treatment centers, I was in and out of jail constantly.  I lost my daughter for a little while.  I look back on it all now and I am so proud of where I am now.  I wouldn't change anything for the world.  I look at it now as a learning experience, and a lot of years wasted, but at least now I know what my calling is.  I would be glad to talk to someone if they want.  Just send me a message and I can call. 

hi maureen, i admit i have a terrible problem with vicodin and percocets any painkillers, ive had so much work done in my mouth plates extrations of teeth. rootcanals and always the dentist giving me scripts.. i want to be sober and clean, i want to stop asap!!!!! , but dont know how and im so scared to do this alone...im afraid to ask for help.. if you;d like and we'll chat..
 
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June 23, 2006, 8:25 pm PDT

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Thats great i am very proud of you.  I have only heard of that method on these message boards.  I am from canada and am not sure if that treatment is available here.
First off I'd like to congradulate you for getting off the methadone..   I've been on it now for going on three years now..I was up to 100 mils and I've weened down to 36.. I like yourself want to have my life back.. And weening off 2 mils a month is going to take so long..If you could please e-mail me at  survivin2006@yahoo.com  and give me some more information about this it would be appreciated  Thanks so much  Yvonne
 
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June 23, 2006, 8:25 pm PDT

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Thats great i am very proud of you.  I have only heard of that method on these message boards.  I am from canada and am not sure if that treatment is available here.
First off I'd like to congradulate you for getting off the methadone..   I've been on it now for going on three years now..I was up to 100 mils and I've weened down to 36.. I like yourself want to have my life back.. And weening off 2 mils a month is going to take so long..If you could please e-mail me at  survivin2006@yahoo.com  and give me some more information about this it would be appreciated  Thanks so much  Yvonne
 
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June 24, 2006, 5:54 am PDT

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I'd like to say that I was just like this mother. I was using during work, couldn't go to work with drugs. My drug of choice was opiates, but I liked cocaine too. I'd really like to go on the show to tell my story, it's really long. I hope for the best for her and I'd like to tell her what I had to do to stop. This is the first time I've ever posted anything, so I'm not too sure what to write. Becky
 
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June 24, 2006, 6:02 am PDT

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I have been looking around and I decided to write. My brother is addicted to heroin and I'm afraid he is going to die. Some people talk about do everything you can to help don't give up but I don't know what else to do. I brought him into my home and got him excepted into a rehab and he had to stay in a homeless shelter for one night till the center opened in the morning and he did heroin again. I just don't understand if he didn't want help after doing the drugs why did he even go to the rehab to try and get in? How can I just let him go? I think about and worry about him 24/7. faith6 

I know exactly what you're going thru. I was addicted to pain killers and heroin and what most family members don't know is that you can't just quit. You know why? You are in excruciating pain, that's why addicts keep being addicts. I was there, I'm a recovering addict now, it's been a little over three years. The only way to quit is to go through the withdrawals, which takes about a week, I couldn't even walk. There is a new pill out there called Bupenorphine and it takes away the cravings immediately. That's what I'm still on and I've been free from opiates for 3 years now. It's an amazing breakthrough pill that has saved many many lives. Also, he needs to stay away from his "friends". If not, he'll be back into it. Like I said, in 3 years I have only 1 friend. All my old users are still using and I stay away. I kinda miss them, but ya know, I don't really miss them. If you need to talk, you can get ahold of me. I'll be checking these posts. All the luck to you. becky
 
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June 24, 2006, 6:04 am PDT

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I have been looking around and I decided to write. My brother is addicted to heroin and I'm afraid he is going to die. Some people talk about do everything you can to help don't give up but I don't know what else to do. I brought him into my home and got him excepted into a rehab and he had to stay in a homeless shelter for one night till the center opened in the morning and he did heroin again. I just don't understand if he didn't want help after doing the drugs why did he even go to the rehab to try and get in? How can I just let him go? I think about and worry about him 24/7. faith6 

Faith, this is Becky again, I just posted a message. If you need to get ahold of me about your brother, email me at beckylp1065@pshift.com. I check my email all the time. OK?
 
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June 24, 2006, 10:17 am PDT

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My 37 year old eldest son is an alcoholic and probable drug (both legal and illegal) addict.  He has been messing up his life since he was 17.  Flunked out of college after getting assoc degree,  bad checks, 4 DUIs several jail times-each getting more severe., probation violations, etc. He has been in rehab several times, completing one of them once.  In Feb, he completed 3 months in jail for probation violation, returned to our home, against his dad's better judgment, paid off bills, worked everyday, made plans and gave a deposit for an apartment .  He has back trouble and began taking vicodin prescribed by DR at VA-he is a veteran.   Then he began drinking again after we were in bed at night or while we were away from home.  2 weeks ago he left one Sunday afternoon and we did not hear from him for 12 days.  Then, Friday am, we got a call from him that he had returned to a treatment facility and was going thru detox before entering the program again.  Added problem-during these 12 days he has "done things I've never done before"  including allowing other people to use his check book to write checks to the tune of over $1500 and of course there were no funds in the bank.  I have always "bailed him out" of check trouble in the past but we are now retired.  His father and younger brother are telling me it is time to make him face the likely legal obstacles ahead, but that I have to do what I feel will help me, also, as this is truly killing me.   What is the best decision?  Do I bail him out again, or tell this 37 year old son to step up to the plate and face what lies ahead?   retired teacher
 
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June 24, 2006, 12:31 pm PDT

hopeful....

I had writen to you a few months back about my husband, Allen's drinking problem. he had quit many times and went back after the last letter I wrote. It's been the roller coaster thing. 

As of June 2nd, he hasn't touch a drop. He's been wonderful with being responsible with his self employed job and also has been a real good to honest person. I'm praying,( as much as the rest of our families) that he be the 1% that never returns to it. He's pretty head strong, but I still have that wave of doubt at times. I stay focused on my life and my job and give him the love and attention he needs. He returns it back and he means it. I hope! 

Just wanted to Phil you in. Thank you. 

                                                            

                                                                                                                                Sincerely, 

                                                                                                                              Linda Gagne 

 
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June 24, 2006, 12:35 pm PDT

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well    its  sad to see anyone  on drugs.   drugs  and drinking are sins!  people  that do these  things  needs  Jesus  in there  life.  people  that are on drugs or drinking need to be prayed for and  they need to  ask Jesus for  help and ask for his  forgiveness.  they  got to help themselfs  too.   drinking  is a sin  and doing drugs is a sin.  i will pray for people thats does these  sins and  wish them the best
 
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